Cov Qab Ntuj

Psychology

Psychoanalysis

psychoanalysis

is highly recommended if you want to learn more about attachment styles

This book

yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws yog tias koj xav kawm ntxiv txog cov qauv txuas.

Nplooj ntawv no

Exert from a conversation

I wrote a more deliberate version in the comments if you prefer to read

Thoughts on gullibility and manipulation

Qhia tawm los ntawm kev sib tham

Kuv sau ib qho version ntau npaum li cas hauv cov comments yog tias koj nyiam nyeem

Xav txog kev ntseeg thiab kev tswj

Libro esencial que viene a saldar parte de la deuda que tenemos con las mujeres en el psicoanálisis

Nplooj ntawv tseem ceeb uas tuaj kho qhov qhuab qhia ib feem ntawm txoj hnyav uas peb muaj nrog cov poj niam hauv psicoanálisis

No último dia 6 de Maio,nascia uma das personalidades mais brilhantes,originais e geniais da história da humanidade e da psicologia, Sigmund Freud,o homem que desvelou o lado obscuro da mente...... #Psicanálise #Freud #Id #Ego #SuperEgo

O pai da ciência que desvendou o lado oculto da psique

Hnub kawg 6 ntawm lub Plaub Hlis, yug ib qho ntawm cov neeg muaj peev xwm tshaj plaws, tshiab thiab muaj tswv yim hauv keeb kwm ntawm tib neeg thiab kev xav, Sigmund Freud, tus txiv neej uas tau qhib qhov tsaus ntuj ntawm lub siab...... #Psicanálise #Freud #Id #Ego #SuperEgo

Leej txiv ntawm kev tshawb fawb uas tau qhib qhov chaw zais ntawm psique

Grandes psicanalistas brasileiros: Christian Dunker

Cov kws tshuaj ntsuam siab loj hauv Brazil: Christian Dunker

If you can't change a situation, change your perception of it. Remember, most of your stress comes from the way you respond, not the way life is.

Yog koj tsis tuaj yeem hloov pauv ib qho xwm txheej, hloov koj txoj kev pom ntawm nws. Nco ntsoov, feem coob ntawm koj txoj kev ntxhov siab tuaj ntawm txoj kev koj teb, tsis yog txoj kev lub neej yog.

when patients go well, their analysts feels happy. :)

when patients go well…

thaum cov neeg mob mus zoo, lawv cov kws tshuaj xav tias zoo siab. :)

thaum cov neeg mob mus zoo…

infp

Because you in your waking consciousness completely refuse to accept these parts of yourself, they exist in your perception as parts existing only in others. This is why many people have nightmares about ghosts staring at them or chasing them: these are also parts of our selves that we do not want to accept, that are seeking to be seen, understood and accepted by us, and because of our total refusal to accept them, we perceive their presence in our dreams as horror. This is the same reason why many people are afraid of the dark: they always feel that there is something in the dark, staring at them: these so-called "ghosts in the dark" are nothing else but a part of your self that you don't want to accept.

So it is obvious now that you are afraid of them not because they are truly something "scary", but simply because you aren't willing to recognize and accept these parts of yourself, so you "otherize" them completely and subconsciously perceive their constant search for your acceptance as horror.

This is also the root cause of your criticism and condemnation or loathing against any other people: you are actually loathing parts of your self that you don't accept at all, and because you are so completely unwilling to accept or acknowledge that they are in fact part of your self, you subconsciously "otherize" them completely. So in your world, these parts of your self appear as  others that are annoying or scary in your waking life, and as "ghosts" in your dreams. Each of us has been so unwilling to accept many parts of ourselves, and this behavior is completely repressed below the conscious mind, buried in the subconscious, that the collective consciousness of the whole world has co-created all kinds of "ghost" cultures, sayings, stories, fears and everything about ghosts, all over the world.

So what can you do?
One of the things I've learned and found to be very effective is to make a list of the parts of yourself that you do accept. You'd realize that most of these are things that you like about you and others (e.g., kindness, sincerity, politeness, respect for people, respect for rules, intelligence, etc.)  List them all.

Then, the most important step: list the opposites of all those parts. Whether you're willing to accept this or not right now, these opposites are the very parts of yourself that exist in you that you've been in total denial about and unwilling to recognize. They are the "ghosts" you fear in dark places or at night in your bedroom, and "other people" in your life or on the internet that you criticize, condemn and judge. You'll find that the points in your list are the exact very points you loathe in other people. You must remember: everything positive you see in yourself has a negative counterpart that exists equally in you. 

Finally, intend in your mind or say it out loud:
"I fully accept all parts of myself, whatever they may be: when I'm kind and when I am malicious; when I am intelligent and when I am clumsy and blind; when I am polite and when I am vulgar; when I have a unique taste and when I have a lousy taste; when I love some animals and when I dislike them; when I want to help others and when I want to priorize myself; when I obey public order and morals and  when I want to spit and litter and jump in line and fight others and murder; when I want to accept myself and when I can't accept myself; when I am profound and when I am superficial; when I am fit and when I am fat..." etc.

Acceptance of all that is possible and impossible in your entirety, which is, one hundred percent unconditional acceptance of yourself. This is the prerequisite for love, or actually - love itself. You have taken an extremely important step by simply being willing to do this. You have to do it. You have no choice. You desire to do it. You've been wanting to do it like crazy, otherwise you wouldn't be afraid of the dark, you wouldn't have nightmares, or you wouldn't keep encountering annoying people and things that you loathe, and you wouldn't feel lonely and feel life is a struggle or see a world in wars. Our selves are always seeking, moment by moment, to be fully seen, understood, fully accepted by us, or - to be loved unconditionally. World peace lies in finally realizing that as humans, everything we have been fighting, hating, criticizing, condemning and wishing to annihilate in others are actually parts of our own selves that we don't want to recognize. You must start with yourself. Unconditional love comes from you.

(You can use the solution based on the same logic for dealing with your nightmares mentioned above: after you wake up, talk to the "ghosts" in your nightmare, and ask what they are and what they are for. Then you need to answer these questions youself. Answer the questions by intuitively writing out the answers, or imagine that you are the ghosts, and answer the questions as them. Imagine that you are now the ghost, facing yourself who's waiting for the answers, what would you want to say? What urgent demands and deep desires you have? You can practice this method also when you are afraid of the dark and "stuff" in the dark, talk to this "stuff" , and imagine that you are this "stuff", and then speak as them. Finally, when you understand what they are and what they want, you have to intend with all your heart: "I accept these parts of myself completely, and I embrace them with open arms and compassion." When you are willing to do so, you have already taken an extremely important step).

It is very shallow and even cruel to see anyone, especially oneself, in a dualistic way (e.g. good and bad, kind and evil, intelligent and stupid, etc.): for example, if you think someone is "kind", when they have to do something that isn't "kind" for reasons that you will never be able to understand because you haven't lived their life, you will instantly loathe them. This is because you have such a shallow, dualistic view of your extremely complex self and the selves of others. How can one ever expect to explain or describe complex and multi-dimensioned selves from the view of 2D? Maybe right here right now you have a sudden urge to condemn others or yourself for shallowness, or maybe now you feel superior to some people? Don't forget that the root cause of any of your non-acceptance, condemnation, or criticizing of anything in other people all lies in your unconscious unwillingness to accept yourself as such, so you subconsciously otherize them, and it's something you do all the time. Maybe you just did it again now. Similarly, when you are afraid of criticisms, judgements and attacks from others, aren't they actually the critisms and judgements that you have been making against yourself all along? Especially when you see yourself in the above-mentioned dualistic view, you are rejecting some parts of yourself all the time: if you think you are "kind", you are rejecting the parts of yourself that you believe are not "kind"; if you think you are "generous", you are rejecting the parts of yourself that you consider to be "mean"; if you think you are "intelligent", you are rejecting the parts of yourself that you think are "stupid", and so on and so forth. All of these "rejections" of yourself are accordingly reflected in your aversion to other people in your life.

When you fully accept all that you are, you will no longer loathe any other person. When you understand yourself completely, you will understand everyone. When you love yourself unconditionally, you will love the world unconditionally. World peace doesn't rely on any organization, campaigns, or politicians. Fully and completely, it relies on you. 







#psychology #science #philosophy #worldpeace 
#spirituality #music #writing #infj #idealism #psychoanalysis #enfj #enfp #love

Any parts that you see in others that you criticize and loathe are parts that exist in yourself that you refuse to accept.

Vim tias koj hauv koj lub siab txawj sawv daws tsis kam txais cov ntsiab lus no ntawm koj tus kheej, lawv muaj nyob hauv koj qhov pom zoo li cov ntsiab lus uas muaj nyob hauv lwm tus xwb. Qhov no yog vim li cas ntau tus neeg muaj kev npau taws txog cov dab uas saib lawv lossis dhia lawv: cov no kuj yog cov ntsiab lus ntawm peb tus kheej uas peb tsis xav txais, uas tab tom nrhiav kom pom, nkag siab thiab txais los ntawm peb, thiab vim peb qhov tsis kam txais lawv, peb pom lawv nyob hauv peb cov npau taws li kev ntshai. Qhov no yog qhov laj thawj tib yam li vim li cas ntau tus neeg ntshai ntawm qhov tsaus ntuj: lawv ib txwm xav tias muaj ib yam dab tsi nyob hauv qhov tsaus ntuj, saib lawv: cov hu ua "dab nyob hauv qhov tsaus ntuj" tsis yog dab tsi lwm tshaj yog ib feem ntawm koj tus kheej uas koj tsis xav txais.

Yog li nws pom tseeb tam sim no tias koj ntshai lawv tsis yog vim lawv yog ib yam "ntshai" tiag tiag, tab sis tsuas yog vim koj tsis kam pom thiab txais cov ntsiab lus no ntawm koj tus kheej, yog li koj "otherize" lawv tag nrho thiab tsis paub txog lawv txoj kev nrhiav kom tau txais koj li kev pom zoo li kev ntshai.

Qhov no kuj yog qhov ua rau koj txiav txim thiab txiav txim lossis ntxub lwm tus: koj tus kheej ntxub cov ntsiab lus ntawm koj tus kheej uas koj tsis txais, thiab vim koj tsis kam txais lossis pom tias lawv yog ib feem ntawm koj tus kheej, koj tsis paub txog lawv tag nrho. Yog li hauv koj lub ntiaj teb, cov ntsiab lus no ntawm koj tus kheej pom zoo li lwm tus uas ua rau koj ntxhov siab lossis ntshai hauv koj lub neej sawv daws, thiab li "dab" hauv koj cov npau taws. Peb txhua tus tau tsis kam txais ntau cov ntsiab lus ntawm peb tus kheej, thiab qhov kev coj ua no raug tshem tawm hauv qab lub siab, zais hauv lub siab tsis paub, kom cov kev xav ntawm lub ntiaj teb tag nrho tau tsim txhua hom "dab" kab lis kev cai, cov lus, cov dab neeg, kev ntshai thiab txhua yam txog cov dab, thoob plaws lub ntiaj teb.

Yog li koj tuaj yeem ua li cas?
Ib qho ntawm cov khoom uas kuv kawm thiab pom tias muaj txiaj ntsig heev yog los tsim ib daim ntawv teev cov ntsiab lus ntawm koj tus kheej uas koj txais. Koj yuav pom tias feem ntau ntawm cov no yog cov khoom uas koj nyiam txog koj thiab lwm tus (e.g., kev zoo siab, kev ncaj ncees, kev hwm, hwm rau tib neeg, hwm rau txoj cai, kev ntse, thiab lwm yam)  Teev lawv tag nrho.

Tom qab ntawd, qhov kauj ruam tseem ceeb tshaj: teev cov ntsiab lus uas tsis yog ntawm cov ntsiab lus ntawd. Txawm koj puas kam txais qhov no lossis tsis kam tam sim no, cov ntsiab lus uas tsis yog no yog cov ntsiab lus ntawm koj tus kheej uas muaj nyob hauv koj uas koj tau nyob hauv kev tsis kam txais thiab tsis kam pom. Lawv yog "cov dab" uas koj ntshai hauv qhov tsaus ntuj lossis thaum hmo ntuj hauv koj chav pw, thiab " lwm tus" hauv koj lub neej lossis hauv internet uas koj txiav txim, txiav txim thiab ntsuam xyuas. Koj yuav pom tias cov ntsiab lus hauv koj daim ntawv teev yog cov ntsiab lus uas koj ntxub hauv lwm tus. Koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov: txhua yam zoo uas koj pom hauv koj tus kheej muaj ib qho kev tsis zoo uas muaj nyob hauv koj.

Thaum kawg, xav hauv koj lub siab lossis hais nws tawm suab:
"Kuv txais txhua yam ntawm kuv tus kheej, tsis hais lawv yog dab tsi: thaum kuv zoo siab thiab thaum kuv ua phem; thaum kuv ntse thiab thaum kuv ua qias; thaum kuv hwm thiab thaum kuv ua phem; thaum kuv muaj kev nyiam tshwj xeeb thiab thaum kuv muaj kev nyiam tsis zoo; thaum kuv nyiam qee tsiaj thiab thaum kuv tsis nyiam lawv; thaum kuv xav pab lwm tus thiab thaum kuv xav ua ntej kuv tus kheej; thaum kuv ua raws li txoj cai pej xeem thiab kev cai thiab thaum kuv xav thuam thiab zais thiab dhia hauv kab thiab tua lwm tus thiab tua; thaum kuv xav txais kuv tus khe

Cov ntsiab lus twg koj pom hauv lwm tus uas koj txiav txim thiab ntxub yog cov ntsiab lus uas muaj nyob hauv koj tus kheej uas koj tsis kam txais.

#movies #films #art #intj #psychoanalysis #psychology #mbti

Fight Club and its moral lesson about the society we live in:

Tsev Hais Poj Niam thiab nws cov ntsiab lus moral txog lub zej zog peb nyob hauv:

R.M Drake always says it so well

R.M Drake yeej ib txwm hais nws zoo heev

I think all fields of psychology should be considered when analysing any concept from a psychological prospective, as they can all contribute with truthful information from different angles. I don’t understand where the desire to claim monopoly over psychology as a science by trying to exclude or discredit other fields comes from 🤔😳🥺

Why do some fields of psychology ignore psychoanalysis?

Kuv xav tias txhua thaj chaw ntawm kev xav yuav tsum raug suav nrog thaum tshuaj xyuas txhua qhov tswv yim los ntawm ib qho kev xav, vim lawv txhua tus tuaj yeem muab cov ntaub ntawv tseeb los ntawm ntau txoj kev. Kuv tsis to taub qhov twg los ntawm qhov xav tau kom tau txais kev tswj hwm ntawm kev xav raws li ib qho kev tshawb fawb los ntawm kev sim kom tsis txhob suav lossis tsis lees paub lwm thaj chaw. 🤔😳🥺

Vim li cas qee thaj chaw ntawm kev xav tsis quav ntsej txog psychoanalysis?

Freudians 🍻 🥲🍃

How many of u ..like this !!!

Puas muaj pes tsawg ntawm nej ..nyiam li no !!!

#psychology

#kev xav

It's an usual situation that men start thinking In working 25/8 :) for free...

Why do people think we are working on dates?

Nws yog ib qho xwm txheej tsis tshua muaj uas txiv neej pib xav txog kev ua haujlwm 25/8 :) dawb...

Vim li cas cov neeg thiaj xav tias peb tab tom ua haujlwm rau hnub?

Donald Winnicott

"Your anger is part of you that knows your mistreatment and abuse are unacceptable. Your anger knows you deserve to be treated well and with kindness. Your anger is a part of you that loves you, " and this hits different. I totally agree because our anger is a response to something that we don't want, and we know that we don't deserve it. It's toxic sometimes if we perceives but if we try to understand it, anger is self-love. You are disagreeing on something that you knew you don't deserve.

I never understood my anger until i saw this quote:

"Koob npau taws yog ib feem ntawm koj uas paub tias koj raug tsim txom thiab raug tsim txom tsis tsim nyog. Koj txoj kev npau taws paub tias koj tsim nyog kom raug kho zoo thiab nrog kev zoo siab. Koj txoj kev npau taws yog ib feem ntawm koj uas hlub koj, " thiab qhov no cuam tshuam txawv. Kuv pom zoo tiag tiag vim peb txoj kev npau taws yog ib qho kev teb rau qee yam uas peb tsis xav tau, thiab peb paub tias peb tsis tsim nyog nws. Nws yog toxic qee zaus yog tias peb pom tab sis yog tias peb sim to taub nws, txoj kev npau taws yog kev hlub tus kheej. Koj tsis pom zoo rau qee yam uas koj paub tias koj tsis tsim nyog.

Kuv tsis tau to taub kuv txoj kev npau taws txog thaum kuv pom lo lus no:

Its co-relation of mental processes and behaviour associated

Its studying the inside you to cultivate the best from within you

Many definitions come up when we describe something or some branch of science but exactly what.according to you matches best of the options below

What do you think is psychology?

Kev kawm txog lub siab thiab kev coj behavior

Nws yog kev sib txuas ntawm cov txheej txheem xav thiab kev coj behavior

Nws yog kev kawm txog sab hauv koj kom txhawb nqa qhov zoo tshaj plaws los ntawm koj

Tag nrho cov saum toj no (Koj puas ntseeg?)

Muaj ntau qhov kev piav qhia khiav los thaum peb piav txog ib yam dab tsi lossis qee qhov ceg ntawm kev tshawb fawb tab sis qhov twg yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws raws li koj pom ntawm cov xaiv hauv qab no

Koj xav li cas txog kev xav?

Anyone who says otherwise is coping (fake) and dont know what it actually is (fake)

Psychology is fake

Leej twg hais tias lwm yam yog kev txhawb (tsis tseeb) thiab tsis paub tias nws yog dab tsi tiag (tsis tseeb)

Psychology yog qhov tsis tseeb

What color would you wear on a first date?

Dab tsi xim koj yuav hnav rau hnub thawj zaug?

"You say you love rain, but you open your umbrella.

You say you love the sun, but you find a shadow spot.

You say you love wind, but close your windows.

This is why I am afraid when you say you love me."

"Koj hais tias koj hlub nag, tab sis koj qhib koj lub nplaim.

Koj hais tias koj hlub hnub, tab sis koj nrhiav ib qho chaw ntxaij.

Koj hais tias koj hlub cua, tab sis koj kaw koj lub qhov rais.

Yog li no, kuv ntshai thaum koj hais tias koj hlub kuv."

Tell me your last wacky dream.

Qhia kuv koj qhov kev npau suav kawg zais.

A Boo community for meeting other Psychoanalysis enthusiasts.

Psychoanalysis Community

Nplooj ntawv no

Xav txog kev ntseeg thiab kev tswj

Nplooj ntawv tseem ceeb uas tuaj kho qhov qhuab qhia ib feem ntawm txoj hnyav uas peb muaj nrog cov poj niam hauv psicoanálisis

Leej txiv ntawm kev tshawb fawb uas tau qhib qhov chaw zais ntawm psique

Cov kws tshuaj ntsuam siab loj hauv Brazil: Christian Dunker

Yog koj tsis tuaj yeem hloov pauv ib qho xwm txheej, hloov koj txoj kev pom ntawm nws. Nco ntsoov, feem coob ntawm koj txoj kev ntxhov siab tuaj ntawm txoj kev koj teb, tsis yog txoj kev lub neej yog.

Txij li Freud tau hla lub ntsiab lus psychoanalysis..

Tigger yog thiab yog kuv nyiam tshaj

"Constellation": ib qho sci-fi series hais txog gaslighting thiab niam-tub kev sib raug zoo

Kuv xav tsis thoob txog qhov ntau ntawm pseudoscience uas mus txog psychology hauv app no

Kuv Chav Ntawv

Sigmund Freud