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have a nice day, baby🌹😘

għandek jum sabiħ, babe🌹😘

When I reveal that I'm trans in my dating profile, I always get a ton of invasive questions or have to deal with chasers who want to fetishize me. 

If I don't immediately reveal it, then I risk having meaningful connections suddenly shutting down when the topic comes up. Or worse, I risk getting physically assaulted.

I get all these compliments on my looks and profile from guys who are suddenly offended by the fact that, once upon a time, my body didn't have the right gentilia for me.  

Where do I find the balance of disclosure in a way that both protects me, and also allows me to connect with nerdy guys for fun and dating?

Dating as a trans woman is so hard.

Meta nuri li jien trans fil-profil tiegħi tal-laqgħa, dejjem nikseb ħafna mistoqsijiet invażivi jew ikolli niffaċċja chasers li jridu jfetħu l-fetish tiegħi.

Jekk ma nuriħx immedjatament, allura niskanta li jkolli konnessjonijiet sinifikanti li jħallu f'waqtu meta tiġi trattata l-kwistjoni. Jew agħar, niskanta li nista' nkun attakkata fiżikament.

Nirċievi dawn il-kumplimenti kollha dwar il-ħarsa u l-profil tiegħi minn subien li jkunu suddenament offiżi mill-fatt li, darba, il-ġisem tiegħi ma kellux il-ġentilja t-tajba għalija.

Fejn nista' nsib il-bilanċ ta' rivelazzjoni b'mod li jipproteġini, u wkoll jippermetti li nikkonnettja ma' subien nerdy għall-divertiment u l-laqgħat?

Il-laqgħa bħala mara trans hija tant iebsa.

First Post anywhere here. So simple question 👉👈 I am blonde now and wanna do something about it. Here is some of my previous colours. Any suggestions are welcome. Red and brown are out of question haha

My shy start

L-ewwel Post x'imkien hawn. Mistoqsija sempliċi 👉👈 Jien issa blonde u nixtieq nagħmel xi ħaġa dwar dan. Hawn huma xi wħud mill-kuluri preċedenti tiegħi. Kull suġġeriment huwa milqugħ. Is-safar u l-kastanjett huma barra mill-mistoqsija haha

L-bidu tiegħi li jħossu skomdu

forever single I guess?

forever single ninsab?

I think it's important to show that I'm not ashamed to be trans (particularly so my students don't see it as something to be hidden).

Happy pride month!

Flying our colors at work 🏳️‍⚧️

Naħseb li hu importanti li nuru li m'għandix xejn x'niżżel biex inkun trans (b'mod partikolari sabiex l-istudenti tiegħi ma jarawhiex bħala xi ħaġa li għandha tiġi moħbija).

Xahar tal-ġieħ it-tajjeb!

In-nazzjon tagħna fuq ix-xogħol 🏳️‍⚧️

2015 -> 2025

🖤

I do not love men: I love what devours them.”

― André Gide, Prometheus Illbound

Selfie 💜

Ma nħobbx irġiel: inħobb dak li jiekolhom.”

― André Gide, Prometheus Illbound

ħelow

Even when I’m consider myself a femboy I’d like to transition

Happy pride month

Anke meta nikkunsidra ruħi bħala femboy nixtieq li nagħmel transizzjoni

Xahar tal-Pride Ferħan

🩷 I embrace femininity genuinely
🩷 I hold a Bachelor's degree in Mass Communication and currently working in Digital Marketing and Partnership
🩷 I enjoy reading books, applying skincare, working out
🩷 Caring my family and feeding stray cats are my happiness
🩷 I can cook and express affection towards you
🩷 Being a genuine person and living meaningfully are my values

Hi, I'm Mikaila

🩷 Inħobb il-femminilità b'mod ġenwin
🩷 Għandi grad ta' Baċellerat fil-Komunikazzjoni tal-Massa u bħalissa qed naħdem fil-Marketing Diġitali u f'Partnership
🩷 Inħobb naqra kotba, applikar il-kura tal-ġilda, u naħdem
🩷 Il-kura tal-familja tiegħi u l-ikel tal-qtates stray huma l-hena tiegħi
🩷 Nista' nkun nista' nikkontribwixxi u nesprimi l-imħabba lejnok
🩷 Li nkun persuna ġenwina u ngħix b'mod sinifikanti huma l-valuri tiegħi

Ħej, jien Mikaila

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In life at the moment I find myself having to fight within my gender. In an ongoing effort to make sense of who I am, and how I carried shame and self-hate over who I hid from myself. 

Wait… ‘hid’ is doing a lot of heavy lifting there. In moments of reflection, I look back on so many memories, and recognise that there were signs, all along.

I just didn’t have the awareness, I didn’t have the education, I didn’t have the recognition. I lived in a world where the ideas didn’t exist. Had there been more clarity about Trans lives I would have latched onto the terminology, the premise of exploring my identity and the pursuit of understanding myself.

I see a lot of push back, about queer representation in media, and the ‘trans ideology’ being taught to kids. But people think that educational content is what makes people trans… I think it’s the precise opposite.

I think the lack of such representation, forces trans kids, to live in an ignorance that causes devastating heart ache and self loathing. I should know - thats what it did for me.

So… I am not proud of my nature, I was denied the chance to grow up with that pride. To know my nature, and accept it. I grew up to be a (mostly) decent, supportive and well meaning guy. And the large majority of those traits were things I can be proud of still.
I’m still mostly who I was before. Before I started to recognise myself. Before I started to see the damages, done by  shame and self hate. I’m still who I became, I’m just pushing forward into who I was meant to be.

Proud in pride

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🏳‍⚧️🏳‍🌈💛
Fil-ħajja f'dan il-mument insib ruħi li qed niġġieled fil-ġeneru tiegħi. F'ħidma kontinwa biex nifhem min jien, u kif ħadt biża' u mibegħda lejn ruħi minħabba min ħbejt ruħi.

Stennija… ‘ħbejt’ qed tagħmel ħafna xogħol hemmhekk. F'mumenti ta' riflessjoni, nħares lura lejn tant memorji, u ninduna li kien hemm sinjali, minn dejjem.

Sempliċement ma kelli l-għarfien, ma kelli l-edukazzjoni, ma kelli r-rikonoxximent. Għexxejt f'dinja fejn l-ideat ma eżistewx. Jekk kien hemm iktar ċarezza dwar il-ħajjiet Trans, kont inkun nista' nħaddan it-terminoloġija, il-premessa li niskopri l-identità tiegħi u l-inkwiet li nifhem ruħi.

Nara ħafna reazzjoni, dwar ir-rappreżentazzjoni queer fil-midja, u l-‘ideoloġija trans’ li qed titgħallem lil tfal. Iżda n-nies jaħsbu li l-kontenut edukattiv huwa dak li jagħmel lin-nies trans… Naħseb li huwa l-oppost eżatt.

Naħseb li n-nuqqas ta' din ir-rappreżentazzjoni, jġiegħel it-tfal trans, jgħixu f'ignoranza li tqajjem uġigħ kbir u mibegħda lejn ruħhom. Għandi nafu - hekk għamlet għalija.

Allura… Ma jienx kburin in-natura tiegħi, inħarġetli l-okkażjoni li nikber b'dak il-kburija. Li naf in-natura tiegħi, u nacceptaha. Kbertx biex inkun raġel (aktar) deċenti, appoġġiv u tajjeb. U l-biċċa l-kbira ta' dawk il-karatteristiċi kienu affarijiet li nista' nkun kburin bihom għadni llum.
Jien għadni l-aktar min jien kont qabel. Qabel ma bdejt nirrikonoxxi ruħi. Qabel ma bdejt narah il-ħsara, magħmula mill-biża' u mibegħda lejn ruħi. Jien għadni min sirt, sempliċement qed inqum 'il quddiem lejn min kont maħsub li nkun.

Kburin fil-kburija

Trans woman for cis guy or gal if anyone is interested in US/Canada

Mara trans għal raġel jew mara cis jekk xi ħadd huwa interessat fl-Istati Uniti/Kanada

Assigned young at birth = AYAB

Assegnat żgħir twelid = AYAB

Happy Pride

Pride Hieni

Selfies from last night 💜

Selfies mill-lejl li għadda 💜

I've been really struggling with gender dysphoria and low self-esteem these past weeks, but I feel kind of okay with these pics, so I thought I'd share them before the self-hate kicks in.

Hey 💜

Ilni nistħarreġ ħafna bil-ġender dysphoria u l-istima baxxa f'dawn il-ġimgħat li għaddew, imma nħossni tajjeb bi dawn il-pics, għalhekk ħsibt li naqsmhom qabel ma tibda l-odju lejn lili nnifsi.

Hope to find some gaming friends on Fortnite, Phasmophobia, Stardew Valley, Escape Simulator, We Were Here series, Overcooked 2, or Honor of Kings (mobile)! Hit me up!

PC games, anyone?

Nispera li nsib xi ħbieb tal-logħob fuq Fortnite, Phasmophobia, Stardew Valley, Escape Simulator, We Were Here series, Overcooked 2, jew Honor of Kings (mobli)! Ikkuntattjani!

Logħob tal-PC, xi ħadd?

Being a genuine person and living meaningfully are my values. I focus on self-improvement and spread loves everyday 🩷

My values

Li nkun persuna ġenwina u ngħix b'mod sinifikanti huma l-valuri tiegħi. Niffoka fuq it-titjib personali u nippromwovi l-imħabba kuljum 🩷

Il-valuri tiegħi

1ON1 VIDEO CHAT

I've been isolating myself nowadays and it help me to value myself. Hi there, it's been a while!!

Hello Boo friends 🤗

Qiegħed inqiegħed lilna nnifsi f'dawn il-jiem u jgħinni nħossni ta' valur. Ħej, ilu ftit!!

Ħelow Boo ħbieb 🤗

When dysphoria kicks in my beautiful self is to the rescue 😅🤗

I am beautiful 🙃

Meta d-dysforja tidħol, jien is-sabiħa tiegħi qed tiġi għall-għajnuna 😅🤗

Jien sabiħa 🙃

I'm dedicated to growing in these areas of my life :

🧠 BRAIN
Bachelor's degree in Mass Communication • Digital Marketing & Partnerships Professional • Lifelong learner of linguistics, geography, anthropology, self-development, and wisdom.

🌸 BEAUTY
Nurturing myself through skincare, fitness, and healthy habits.

💖 SINCERITY
Living with kindness by embracing femininity, cherishing my family, feeding stray cats, and helping those in need.

Brain, Beauty and Sincerity

Inhobb li nikber f'dawn l-oqsma tal-ħajja tiegħi :

🧠 MOĦĦ
Grad ta' Bachelor's fil-Komunikazzjoni tal-Massa • Professjonali fil-Marketing Diġitali u Sħubijiet • Studju kontinwu tal-lingwistika, ġeografija, antropoloġija, żvilupp personali, u għerf.

🌸 BELLEZZA
Innurtura ruħi permezz ta' kura tal-ġilda, fitness, u abitudnijiet b'saħħithom.

💖 SINCERITÀ
Ngħix bil-ġentilezza billi nħaddan il-femminilità, inħobb il-familja tiegħi, infeddi qtates stray, u ngħin lil dawk fil-bżonn.

Moħħ, Bellezza u Sincerità

1on1 video call only for fun and pleasure with a trans woman

1on1 video call biss għall-divertiment u pjaċir ma' mara trans

🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍⚧️

So excited by the physical changes... And I feel my voice is changing...

Just done my T shot

Hawnhekk eċċitat mill-bidliet fiżiċi... U nħoss li l-vuċi tiegħi qed tinbidel...

B'hekk għamilt it-tir tiegħi

A Boo community for meeting other Trans enthusiasts.

Trans Community

Hi

għandek jum sabiħ, babe🌹😘

Il-laqgħa bħala mara trans hija tant iebsa.

L-bidu tiegħi li jħossu skomdu

forever single ninsab?

In-nazzjon tagħna fuq ix-xogħol 🏳️‍⚧️

Lgbt għinni

Huwa l-20 ta' Ġunju u għadni Proud!🏳️‍🌈

Ħbieb

ooh inħobb li nkun mara (trans)

Heyy