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relationship

If you expect nothing from somebody, you are never disappointed..

Lamun anjeun henteu ngarepkeun nanaon ti batur, anjeun moal pernah kuciwa..

❤️

F*ZKN BORRRRRRING!!!

Teacher

Guru

Hello

Halo

the british accent isn't a choice anymore 😭🇬🇧

aksen britania sanés pilihan deui 😭🇬🇧

Hi there ❤️

Halo di ditu ❤️

What do you think about a 'guest marriage'?
Living apart together

Living apart together

Naon pendapat anjeun ngeunaan 'pernikahan tamu'?
Hirup misah babarengan

Hirup misah babarengan

Good morning ❤️

Wilujeng énjing ❤️

My favourite place is home ❤️

Tempat favorit kuring nyaéta imah ❤️

I’m curious about how people get into relationships so easily. Lately, I’ve realized that I might be the problem. I can’t seem to get a boyfriend, even though I don’t think my standards are that high, and I don’t think I’m bad-looking either.

The biggest issue is that I’m not very good at communicating. I enjoy my alone time and don’t like talking or texting all the time. How can I handle that?

I’ve been feeling lonely lately, and I think I’m finally ready to have a boyfriend. But I’m worried that my communication style might make it difficult to build a relationship.

How Do People Get Into Relationships So Easily?

Kuring panasaran kumaha jalma asup ka hubungan ku gampang. Akhir-akhir ieu, kuring sadar yén kuring sigana masalahna. Kuring teu tiasa mendakan pacar, sanajan kuring henteu mikir standar kuring éta luhur, sareng kuring ogé henteu mikir kuring goréng katingalna.

Masalah pangbadagna nyaéta kuring henteu saé pisan dina komunikasi. Kuring resep waktos sorangan sareng henteu resep ngobrol atanapi ngirim pesen terus-terusan. Kumaha kuring tiasa ngatur éta?

Kuring parantos ngarasa sepi akhir-akhir ieu, sareng kuring pikir kuring ahirna siap pikeun gaduh pacar. Tapi kuring hariwang yén gaya komunikasi kuring tiasa nyusahkeun pikeun ngawangun hubungan.

Kumaha Jalma Asup Ka Hubungan Ku Gampang?

Where is my mosquito 😂😂😂

Di mana nyamuk kuring 😂😂😂

How do you feel about your girlfriend/boyfriend smoking? Is it a red flag for you? I’m just curious about how big a role smoking plays in today’s world 👐

🚬

Kumaha perasaan anjeun ngeunaan kabogoh/kolot anjeun nu ngaroko? Naha éta mangrupikeun tanda beureum pikeun anjeun? Abdi ngan ukur panasaran sabaraha gedéna peran ngaroko dina dunya ayeuna 👐

does anyone have any good advice to move on from an ex partner.

for reference. i have no other friends. we did everything together. we spoke everyday and met up several times a week. im left alone and all i want to do is lay in bed all day. i feel sick and can barely eat or do anything. he abandoned me just under a month ago. he was the reason for everything. he gave me purpose and life a meaning. we wore wedding bands because he promised he’d marry me when i got better. but my eupd took advantage and ultimately was the cause of him leaving me. i was trying to get better and get the help i needed by visiting the gp and applying myself for talking therapies.

naha aya anu gaduh nasihat anu saé pikeun ngalih ti pasangan ex.

pikeun rujukan. kuring teu gaduh rerencangan séjén. urang ngalakukeun sagalana babarengan. urang ngobrol unggal dinten sareng pendak sababaraha kali saminggu. kuring ditinggal sorangan sareng sadayana anu kuring hoyong laksanakeun nyaéta ngagolek di ranjang sadinten. kuring ngarasa gering sareng ampir teu tiasa tuang atanapi ngalakukeun naon waé. anjeunna ninggalkeun kuring pas kurang ti sabulan ka pengker. anjeunna mangrupikeun alesan pikeun sagalana. anjeunna masihan kuring tujuan sareng kahirupan anu hartosna. urang nganggo cincin kawinan sabab anjeunna jangji bakal nikah ka kuring nalika kuring cageur. tapi eupd kuring nyandak kauntungan sareng ahirna janten sabab anjeunna ninggalkeun kuring. kuring nyobian cageur sareng kéngingkeun bantosan anu kuring peryogikeun ku nganjang ka gp sareng ngalamar pikeun terapi ngobrol.

A man will never love the same after his heart is broken… not because he lost the ability to love, but because he lost the version of himself that loved without fear. 
Before the pain, he gave his time freely, trusted deeply, and believed in forever without hesitation. But heartbreak teaches lessons no one asks for—it shows him how real emotions can be taken for granted, how loyalty can be overlooked, and how love can be one-sided.
After that, he moves differently. He thinks more. He guards his heart. He doesn’t open up as fast, not because he’s cold, but because he understands the weight of what he’s giving. Now, if he loves you, it’s intentional. It’s careful. It’s real—but it’s never as innocent as it once was.

💯💯💯💯💯

Lalaki moal pernah bogoh deui saatos haténa pegat... sanés sabab anjeunna leungit kamampuan pikeun bogoh, tapi sabab anjeunna leungit versi dirina anu bogoh tanpa sieun. 
Sateuacan nyeri, anjeunna masihan waktosna kalayan bébas, percanten jero, sareng percanten kana langgeng tanpa ragu. Tapi patah hati ngajar pelajaran anu teu aya anu naros - éta nunjukkeun ka anjeunna kumaha émosi anu nyata tiasa dianggap enteng, kumaha kasatiaan tiasa diabaikan, sareng kumaha cinta tiasa hiji sisi.
Sanggeus éta, anjeunna ngalakukeun hal-hal kalayan béda. Anjeunna mikir langkung seueur. Anjeunna ngajaga haténa. Anjeunna henteu muka diri gancang, sanés sabab anjeunna tiis, tapi sabab anjeunna ngartos beurat naon anu dipasihkeun. Ayeuna, upami anjeunna bogoh ka anjeun, éta disengaja. Éta ati-ati. Éta nyata - tapi éta moal pernah sakumaha polosna sapertos saméméhna.

why does it feel like everyone here is just looking to have fun? it seems like no one wants anything serious? hmmm i really hope i’m wrong about that😌

just wondering

naha karasa sapertos sadayana di dieu ngan milarian hiburan? sigana teu aya anu hoyong hal anu serius? hmmm kuring bener-bener ngarepkeun kuring salah ngeunaan éta😌

ngan hayang nyaho

pov: you ended a relationship and your friend is trying to convince you to move to Spain HAHAH

it sounds very much like a story of a book

pov: you ended a relationship

pov: anjeun parantos ngeureunkeun hubungan sareng sobat anjeun nyobian ngayakinkeun anjeun pikeun pindah ka Spanyol HAHAH

éta katingalina pisan sapertos carita buku

pov: anjeun parantos ngeureunkeun hubungan

I often wonder how people cope after someone who has been a significant part of their life for so long is suddenly no longer in it. Regardless of the kind of relationship they shared, how do they come to terms with never talking to or seeing that person again?

Kuring sering heran kumaha jalma-jalma ngatasi sanggeus batur anu geus jadi bagian penting dina kahirupan maranéhanana salami lila tiba-tiba teu aya deui. Sanajan jinis hubungan anu maranéhna bagi, kumaha maranéhna bisa nampa yén maranéhna moal bisa ngobrol atawa ningali jalma éta deui?

For real 🥲

Sakumaha nyata 🥲

Don’t lie to yourself about preferring to be single. Of course there are exceptions, but we are all mostly trying to seek meaningful connections and human beings are gregarious by nature. It’s just exhausting when we keep trying and conversations with potential friends or mates seem to get nowhere, right? 😮‍💨 

Remember this cliché saying! First impressions DO matter! And don’t forget that the initial “interview” with someone goes both ways. 😉 

If a conversation with someone seems to be stalled, remember that you can always “string” the conversation by applying your 5 W’s to different statements. For example:

Her: “Oh, last year I went on a skiing trip in Europe!”

You: Really, amazing! Did you go with family? (Who). Where did you go? Europe has great places to go skiing (Where). 

Don’t forget that people have time zone differences, work schedules, and hobbies/goals to fulfill outside of the app. Others have different communication preferences and communication styles. Not all stalled conversations are “lack of interest” or “rejection”. And yet other times you just need to be patient and engage enough to find that point that just “clicks”. 

What’s most important is for you to continue to present yourself in the best light, be respectful and honest. Nobody has time for these games where “if you don’t ask me, well then, I just won’t ask you!”.  At the end of the day, follow your heart and you will have done your best and nobody can discredit you for that. 

Bye 😘

Don’t lie to yourself

Ulah bohong ka diri sorangan ngeunaan milih pikeun jomblo. Tangtu aya pengecualian, tapi urang sadayana biasana nyobian milarian hubungan anu bermakna sareng manusa sacara alami sosial. Éta ngan ukur ngaleungitkeun nalika urang terus nyobian sareng paguneman sareng calon sobat atanapi pasangan sigana henteu aya kamana-mana, leres? 😮‍💨 

Inget ieu ungkapan klise! Kesan kahiji PASTI penting! Sareng ulah hilap yén "wawancara" awal sareng batur lumangsung dua arah. 😉 

Upami paguneman sareng batur sigana terhenti, inget yén anjeun salawasna tiasa "ngait" paguneman ku nerapkeun 5 W anjeun kana pernyataan anu béda. Contona:

Manéhna: “Oh, taun kamari kuring indit ka perjalanan ski di Éropa!”

Anjeun: Sakedik, hebat! Naha anjeun indit sareng kulawarga? (Saha). Di mana anjeun indit? Éropa ngagaduhan tempat anu saé pikeun ski (Di mana). 

Ulah hilap yén jalma-jalma gaduh bédana zona waktos, jadwal kerja, sareng hobi/tujuan anu kedah dilaksanakeun di luar aplikasi. Batur gaduh pilihan komunikasi sareng gaya komunikasi anu béda. Teu sadayana paguneman anu terhenti téh "kurangna minat" atanapi "penolakan". Sareng kadang-kadang anjeun ngan ukur kedah sabar sareng terlibat cukup pikeun mendakan titik anu ngan "klik". 

Anu paling penting nyaéta pikeun anjeun teras nampilkeun diri anjeun dina cahaya anu pangsaéna, hormat sareng jujur. Henteu aya anu gaduh waktos pikeun kaulinan ieu dimana "upami anjeun henteu naros ka kuring, yah, kuring moal naros ka anjeun!". Di akhir poé, turutan haté anjeun sareng anjeun bakal parantos ngalakukeun anu pangsaéna sareng teu aya anu tiasa ngagugurkan anjeun pikeun éta. 

Dadah 😘

Ulah bohong ka diri sorangan

Do you think it's possible for a man to have a platonic friends-only relationship with a woman? Why or why not?

Question for the guys

Naha anjeun pikir mungkin pikeun hiji lalaki gaduh hubungan ngan babaturan platonik sareng awéwé? Kunaon atanapi kunaon henteu?

Patanyaan pikeun lalaki

What's a non-negotiable for you in a relationship? Something that will make you automatically shut the relationship down, even if you find the person physically attractive or they check all your other boxes.

Non-negotiable

Naon anu teu bisa ditawar pikeun anjeun dina hiji hubungan? Hal anu bakal nyababkeun anjeun otomatis ngeureunkeun hubungan, sanajan anjeun mendakan jalma éta fisikna pikaresepeun atanapi aranjeunna nyocogkeun sadaya kriteria anjeun anu sanés.

Teu bisa ditawar

Loyalty is so rare these days.

Kasatiaan ayeuna jarang pisan.

Cut them off silently..

Cokot aranjeunna sacara sepi..

What do Australians and Americans think about Brazilian women and dating one?

Naon anu dipikiran ku urang Australia sareng Amérika ngeunaan awéwé Brasil sareng pacaran sareng salah sahiji?

Hubungan

They shared that their children are grown now, life has settled into a routine, and traveling together is one of the ways they keep things from feeling too repetitive.

I joked, “Then maybe you should travel every day.” We all laughed, and then they asked me framed with genuine curiosity as a younger person, whether long term relationships inevitably become boring over time.

I smiled and said, “That’s a big question.” His wife added that they were both researchers by profession and enjoyed hearing different perspectives, which set a thoughtful tone for the exchange.

I explained that novelty can absolutely make things feel more alive in the short term, largely because it engages the brain’s reward system and creates a sense of stimulation. However, psychology suggests that novelty alone doesn’t resolve deeper relational issues. When boredom becomes persistent, it is often less about routine itself and more about emotional distance, unresolved tension, unmet needs, or two people gradually evolving in different directions without fully noticing it.

From that perspective, the more important question isn’t simply, “What new experience can we try together?” but rather, “What is causing us to feel less connected in the first place?”

At the same time, when emotional and physical attraction have both been absent for a prolonged period, and neither person feels a genuine desire to reconnect, boredom is rarely the core issue. It tends instead to signal that the relationship has significantly weakened or, in some cases, already ended in emotional terms. In such situations, change depends less on adding novelty and more on whether both individuals still feel enough connection, commitment, and willingness to rebuild what has been lost.

I’m only speaking from observation and reflection, not experience I’m still single and haven’t yet found love, so I probably can’t say much beyond that.😅😅

I just happened to meet a foreign couple at a tourist spot and we started talking. The conversation naturally turned toward their relationship.

Aranjeunna ngabagi yén anak-anakna ayeuna parantos dewasa, kahirupan parantos asup kana rutinitas, sareng perjalanan bareng mangrupikeun salah sahiji cara pikeun ngajaga hal-hal supaya henteu karasa teuing repetitif.

Kuring ngaguyon, "Jadi meureun anjeun kedah perjalanan unggal poé." Kami sadayana seuri, teras aranjeunna naros ka kuring kalayan rasa panasaran anu tulus salaku jalma anu langkung ngora, naha hubungan jangka panjang pasti janten bosen sapanjang waktos.

Kuring seuri sareng nyarios, "Ieu mangrupikeun patarosan anu ageung." Istri na nambihan yén aranjeunna duaan mangrupikeun peneliti ku profesi sareng resep ngadangu sudut pandang anu béda, anu nyetél nada anu dipikirkeun pikeun pertukaran.

Kuring ngajelaskeun yén hal anyar tiasa nyababkeun hal-hal karasa langkung hirup dina jangka pondok, utamina sabab éta ngalibatkeun sistem ganjaran otak sareng nyiptakeun rasa stimulasi. Nanging, psikologi nyarankeun yén hal anyar sorangan henteu ngalereskeun masalah hubungan anu langkung jero. Nalika kabosenan janten terus-terusan, éta sering kirang ngeunaan rutinitas éta sorangan sareng langkung ngeunaan jarak émosional, ketegangan anu teu direngsekeun, kabutuhan anu teu kacumponan, atanapi dua jalma anu sacara bertahap mekar dina arah anu béda tanpa bener-bener nyadar éta.

Ti sudut pandang éta, patarosan anu langkung penting sanés ngan saukur, "Naon pangalaman anyar anu tiasa urang coba babarengan?" tapi langkung, "Naon anu nyababkeun urang karasa kirang nyambung ti awalna?"

Samentawis, nalika atraksi émosional sareng fisik parantos teu aya salami waktos anu lami, sareng henteu aya jalma anu ngarasa kahayang anu tulus pikeun nyambung deui, kabosenan jarang janten masalah inti. Éta langkung condong pikeun nandakeun yén hubungan parantos sacara signifikan melemah atanapi, dina sababaraha kasus, parantos réngsé dina istilah émosional. Dina kaayaan sapertos kitu, parobahan langkung gumantung kana naha duanana individu masih ngarasa cukup sambungan, komitmen, sareng kahayang pikeun ngawangun deui naon anu parantos leungit.

Kuring ngan ukur nyarios tina observasi sareng refleksi, sanés pangalaman kuring masih jomblo sareng acan mendakan cinta, janten kuring sigana henteu tiasa nyarios seueur salian ti éta.😅😅

Kuring ngan saukur patepung sareng pasangan asing di tempat wisata sareng kami ngamimitian ngobrol. Obrolan sacara alami ngalih ka hubungan maranéhanana.

One  guy approved by brain but not by heart...

Another guy approved by heart but not by brain ....

😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
What do I do now?

Salah sahiji lalaki disatujuan ku otak tapi henteu ku hate...

Lalaki anu sanés disatujuan ku hate tapi henteu ku otak ....

😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Naon anu kedah kuring lakukeun ayeuna?

Not everyone who wants a relationship is ready to give up the comfort of solitude.

Teu sadayana anu hoyong hubungan siap pikeun nyerahkeun kanyamanan nyalira.

I was just honest and was curious about that guy attitude and mindset and he just blocked me because I didn’t want to sexting with him. Oh my gosh, is it a real world I am living in? Prove me wrong

About honestly

Kuring ngan saukur jujur sareng panasaran ngeunaan sikap sareng pola pikir lalaki éta sareng anjeunna ngan ukur ngeblok kuring sabab kuring henteu hoyong sexting sareng anjeunna. Oh my gosh, naha ieu dunya nyata anu kuring cicing di jero? Buktikeun kuring salah

Ngeunaan jujur

I've lost a potential perfect partner, and it's why I'm even on Boo now, trying to find new friends, maybe even a potential partner just to get over this heartbreak, but so far, I've not been cutting it. How did y'all get over heartbreaks?

How do people get over heartbreaks?

Kuring parantos kaleungitan pasangan anu poténsial sampurna, sareng éta sababna kuring ayeuna aya di Boo, nyobian milarian rerencangan anyar, meureun bahkan pasangan poténsial pikeun ngaliwat patah hati ieu, tapi dugi ka ayeuna, kuring henteu acan hasil. Kumaha anjeun sadayana ngaliwat patah hati?

Relationship Community

Lamun anjeun henteu ngarepkeun nanaon ti batur, anjeun moal pernah kuciwa..

❤️

F*ZKN BORRRRRRING!!!

Guru

Halo

Guru

Hubungan kuring

Anjeun ngawangun hubungan ngan saukur tina napsu

🤍

Hı

Taktik manipulasi naon anu anjeun alami dina hubungan anu anjeun hoyong ngingetkeun batur ngeunaan éta?