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Being the “bigger person” is exhausting.

Why do I have to deal with some people’s projections and let things be? I hate being told to be the “bigger person” I find it very frustrating to hear that and tbh? sometimes it feels very dismissive. But then my logical side interferes. Okay, I give them a reaction, then what? I might be... read more

Me in a dress

I dont wear dresses much, I wish I could, but I never find ones that I actually like on myself. But here's one I tried on recently and am thinking I might wear it on Valentines Day. Should I? Or should I try a pink outfit (maybe a skirt?) Let me know in comments 😁

Q for My Ladies: Marketing & The Dating Game

A few years ago, my understanding of dating changed when I realized apps were basically marketing — with myself as the product. Some folks are my target audience and others aren’t. Not that far off from being in public and style. When you’re looking at profiles, what do you look for? Are there... (edited) read more

Food Diary # 633

Breakfast with a stranger.. when I got back to London, Wednesday morning, it was 5.30am and super cold. An elderly gentleman was sitting in the cold, just waiting around, it seemed, so I struck up a conversation with him, turns out he had recently lost his home and was down on his luck, after... read more

My simplicity makes me feel confident.

Being the best version of myself everyday.

After several takes got a pic I liked

After I saw myself alone the mirror thought I looked cute. My short emo hair is just one that fits me. I pushed some away from my eye tho (edited)