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Lazy Saturday decisions

Settling in for some self care. Heated neck massager, cozy blanket, and now: the movie Studio Ghibli: I'm debating between Nausicca Valley of the Wind, and Whisper of the Heart. Help?

A note to self :-

"Smile: it's free therapy"

What does one do when you want to be alone and not?

Like I want to hug and cuddle and then like don't talk to me and I want to be alone. Let me sleep and do my own thing. But then want it. Therers also the fact I have like no self esteem if they say cutey I'm like agree to disagree. Eventually they'll leave and well sorry I hate myself. Not... read more

Why single?

Not looking for a romatic connection (I am happy and content about my decision ) but if i do (hopefully in the future), my man is the kind of soul who moves with honesty and intention. He doesn’t hide things or play games his words are clear, and his heart is open. With me, he is never hesitant or... (edited) read more

I don't even know

I'm just feeling extremely low and myself self esteem is at rock bottom. I've been feeling lonely and unloved for so long. I finally gave in and got some dating apps, this included. And I have literally had nothing or get ghosted. I feel like an idiot buying stuff to send like 'super' likes to... read more

Self awareness.

Yes im ugly, unattractive. I dont let my judgement take hold of me, it's not what makes us as human but what makes us more comfortable in our own skin. Never doubt yourself because you can't look like someone's gf or bf, but only respect yourself for what makes you you, the you'll come to find out... read more