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Are american men okay!? Most of the time I find American men in their 40s and 50s telling in comment section of memes I share that I'll end up with cats and bla bla bla! Like sir, get a job!! Stop harassing women half your ages!

“yall broke up?” 

me: he broke. im up

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It's just so sad that the boys I met here just want to have some short term fun. They just want to see bodies, and not hearts.

Disappointed

I mean I am a delight🤣😩

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Do y’all think society has ruined dating, or do you think people just don’t know how to communicate anymore? I’m curious what others are experiencing today. Or Is it the apps or the culture?

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Happy Thursday

Rare..

She cheated on me because i loved her, so I am going to meet her 
I was like

Today I met a guy 22 year old.here and he said he had breakup in Oct.I was feeling sad because he said he loved her a lot.then i asked why u guys breakup.he said because she cheated on me.then I was like.that's sad and then he saying.today I am going to meet her.I asked why, she cheated u, he saying

Best proposal doesn't exi-

What implicit stigmas exist around dating someone with a disability? Or dating as someone with a disability

Honestly so exhausting that every person except one that has swiped yes on me haven't read my profile. For example, several places in my profile, it says I don't want kids. They all want kids. My profile says I'm a masculine woman that might change gender in the future, yet these guys are completely straight. One of them even wanted a traditional housewife and mother. This guy didn't just swipe yes, he messaged "hi"! I'm tired.

I don't know, I might be overreacting, but I needed to vent somewhere 🥹

Do people on here read profiles?

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Oh yes!

3 month rule = no sex, or close intimacy or established exclusivity until we've been dating for AT LEAST 3 months (my preference is 6). This gives time to learn WHO that person is, observe their actions, behaviours, intent and see who they REALLY are  before becoming exclusive and then considering a relationship/sexual intimacy. It was about 5 months before my partner and I became exclusive. 

Values are aligned = I'm a healthcare scientist/woman in STEM, a feminist, I believe in free healthcare, a mental health advocate, I am pro choice, I support the LGBTQ+ community, And while I am in touch with my faith, I don't think religion should govern a country/state. If their beliefs dont align at this fundamental level there is major incompatibility.

No kids/no big wedding = at most I wouldnt mind a small ceremony or elopement but I do not see kids in my future given my close-nit relationship with my family already caring for my ill parents and younger disabled brother, and I hate big weddings they unsettle me. I like the idea of marriage but its not a necessity. 

Must be comfortable with my multilinguistic background: I speak Gaidhlig, Scots and Scottish english sporadically throughout my life (family, friends, loved ones) if my partner dared tell me (can you only speak in english when im around, your heritage and identity make me uncomfortable) they arent for me and not smth i should accept in my life. Mach à seo!

My boundaries that helped me learn who and what I wanted in a partner

Me every single time I get a "match"

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IF YOU'RE NOT GOING TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY, DON'T TALK TO ME.

Okay, so look..

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I really don’t need much..

Looking back now, the girl I dated really fooled me. I thought she was the biggest green flag, everything I wanted in a woman. Then the moment life got heavy for me, she bailed. And the wild part? She left knowing from day one that in my life everyone has a door to enter and a door to leave… and she chose the exit. Then tried to flip it on me like I was the problem. Classic.
Back then I actually convinced myself she was at least loyal. Yeah… that was the joke of the century. When she finally admitted she cheated, she tried twisting the whole story( like she is being 🍇) to win sympathy and beg for a redo. A year later I see her happily posting with the same dude (🍇 ist) she tried to play victim about.
That taught me a tough lesson: some people can act so well you start doubting your own reality. No wonder the old folks say even the devil got tricked by a woman once.
P.S. This isn’t me generalizing women, I love and respect the good ones. They’re just rare. And now I know: not everything that shines is real gold

Have you ever had someone you genuinely thought was ‘the one’  your perfect match, the person you pictured a future and a family with  only to realize they were the biggest betrayal and the harshest life lesson you’d ever get?

Do you think intelligence is an important factor?

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We all have busy lives and packed schedules, but when the right person shows up, you find the time you didn't think you had.

Suddenly, you have free time

Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen...

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Got my nails done today

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Is a red flag better than a green flag? 🤔

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Use this, gonna get you points fr 😆

What are the chances of a guy like you and a girl like me ending up together?

I think we can all agree at this point that dating has been destroyed and mangled to be something that wastes people's time. Before anyone says, "oh, but not everyone is like that!" It is not possible that I keep hearing similar experiences from those around me and online. A precedent has been set in recent years that has disfigured the purpose of dating. 

Therefore, I'd like to you hear from you. Why do you date?

What exactly is the point of dating these days?

I ran out of toilet paper can somebody please bring me some napkins,or an old sock, a wig, the inside of a pants pocket, a losing lottery tickets, anything plz...

Iso male or female to help...

Mosquitoes in the morning. Loving the humming sound near my ears in the early morning.

Dating...

Dating is art of stress reliving from boring life.

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Are american men okay!? Most of the time I find American men in their 40s and 50s telling in comment section of memes I share that I'll end up with cats and bla bla bla! Like sir, get a job!! Stop harassing women half your ages!

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Disappointed

I mean I am a delight🤣😩

🤣🤣🤣 at this point

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