Dating Community

Do you feel like having a higher stone status on here means you’ve actually increasing your dating opportunities ?

I’m someone who has been on and off this app quite a few times. Personally, I feel weird having it when I’m dating someone seriously or in a long-term relationship. So needless to say, my old account is gone and now I have this new one. A part of me wants to try to get one of the higher color... read more

Dating and talking flippantly feels cheap with all of this political unrest...

I feel mentally worn down and can't do anything that I previously used to do to make myself happy. I know time will pass and others have it worse. But if anyone else feels the same, I'm just putting it out there you're not alone.

All these dating apps got me thinking…

Do similarities matter? Would our mirrored interests, our shared routines, bring us closer? Would they be enough to chain us down for life, enough for you to want eternity with me? Would it matter that you tick all my boxes? Would it matter? Would it be enough? Could this be a fantasy I could... read more

ADHD partner left suddenly

First, please excuse my lack of knowledge, I've been trying to learn more. My ex was in her early 30s with unmedicated ADHD, we were together for 2 years but known each other for over a decade. We were like yin and yang, her energy was explosive whereas I was more grounded and realistic, we... (edited) read more

When you and her have been dating for 3 weeks

If anything, I hope you're okay with ending up alone because the dating scene is wild these days.