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Don’t try to be happy.

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If snakes can mate for life, then why don't you? 🤔

A man who sits with his pain learns to master his emotions

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I know most of us have never dated, but if you get your chance...order pizza, use my advice and "fake it till you make it".

Why is it that people fall in love faster if they share the same taste in pizza toppings?

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Marry the man who calls you back after an argument not to win, not to prove a point, but to whisper that your bond is bigger than the moment, stronger than the silence, and far more precious than pride.

Marry the man who reminds you, even on the hardest days, that love is not about walking away when storms rise, but holding on tighter.

Marry the man who chooses you in anger, in confusion, in hurt, in every version of tomorrow because to him, leaving you has never been an option.

That is the kind of love that stays. That heals. That becomes a lifetime.❤️

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Being single again at 35 is way more crazier than I ever thought. Imagine introducing myself again to strangers and sharing my favourite colour.😂😂

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Which place is best for first date??

Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them on the table of thine heart: Proverbs 3:3kjv

Now that's some fine jewelry

Talk to solve the problem not to prove a point

Relationship advice

Truth hurts

The journey will always have ups and downs left turns, right turns but you will always be there. Even when you must turn around and go back the way you came. You will always have the choice to see what is good or what is bad. Look for the good and keep hope that just around the next turn you will find more of what ever keeps you going. The power of positivity and the power of attraction will pull to you what is inside of you

Don't quit on yourself

It's a real thing. It doesn't only come from childhood trauma and parents. 

If your partner or potential partner tells you they have it (or symptoms because they don't realize it's an actual thing), believe them. Support them. 

This is me healing from my marriage of 16 years with a narcissistic cheater ex husband who broke my trust in a million different ways, mostly tiny, mostly never seen or heard or often witnessed by anyone else because he was so good at hiding it and being "such a nice guy" who would do anything to help anyone... until I was the person asking for help

CPTSD

What do you do to even peak a females intrest

Dating

Hi, so I've been single for awhile now. Any tips? I just started using Boo.

What do men actually want 😂😂

Don't just hear, but understand what the other person is feeling. Sometimes it's not the solution that matters, but support.

Listen to each other

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I just broke up with my boyfriend, and I really need to know if I did the right thing. Please, someone, help me make sense of this.

So, he used to have this girlfriend he’d been with since high school — 14 years together. During the pandemic, they even got married over Zoom, but later the marriage was declared invalid. Their relationship was always on and off throughout those 14 years. At some point, they both cheated on each other. She later filed for divorce in another state, claiming a “putative marriage,” but she lost. Now they’re in the middle of dividing their assets.

Before all that, they agreed that she would keep their two dogs, and he would keep their two cats. It’s been about two years since he last saw the dogs, but he always said he trusted her to take good care of them. She lives about a six-hour flight away from him now.

Recently, though, he started saying he wants to do video calls with her so he can see the dogs — and even fly all the way there to visit them. He’s talking about setting up some kind of shared custody arrangement. And honestly, that’s when I hit my breaking point.

I told him that this situation made me really uncomfortable — that it felt like he was still emotionally attached to her, using the dogs as a reason to stay connected. Flying six hours just to see the dogs? Calling her every time either of them misses the animals? It just didn’t sit right with me. I couldn’t shake the feeling that he’s not ready to let go, that maybe he still has feelings for her and doesn’t even realize it.

When I told him how all of this made me feel, he said he didn’t care — that the dogs come first. And that honestly broke me. I felt like his love has layers, and that I’m somewhere below the dogs he shared with his ex.
And plus, I still think in middle of process he can feel somethint and cheat me wirh her or broke with me cuz of her 
So… did I do the right thing by ending it?

I did right?

In the journey of life sometime we realise even having so many people around us still found our self alone
It's feel like to have someone to share our laughter.... Joy part of happiness...
Who can hug 🫂 us and say everything is fine I am their with you

Have you ever feel this ?

The kindest thing that you can do for yourself is to let people go when they want to go no chasing no begging let it hurt and then let it heal when we stop forcing people to choose us we make room for the people that were made for us.

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My bf told me he's been thinking about breaking up with me for weeks. We have been together 3 years. He said he doesnt love me then he's like I do stay. Hes avoidant and im anxious so we have very different coping mechanisms and idk how to deal with it. All our arguments are me just being like can we talk can you care can u tell me something positive and he cant because thats how he is and idk maybe I just need a different person but when I love someone I dont like to give up on them because I wouldnt want them to give up on me

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You try to be good to people but they keep doing you dirty

Dating is exhausting

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So I run into this problem dating where, I get told or asked to say how I feel. Point and case last one where he basically wanted the first date as a hang out and jump into my bed. 

But if I say I'm uncomfortable or don't like/want that kind of first date- I'm insulted. Last time I was called a needy b***h 🫠 do boundaries mean we act like children when we don't get our way?

Tell me how you really feel

Heaven knows..

Agree 👍🏻

Someone posted: “single until a man tells the whole world he can’t breath without me”

And I just gasped in agreement, then realized it’s pretty toxic. But hey dark romance girlie here, I wants him obsessed with me.

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Don’t try to be happy.

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If snakes can mate for life, then why don't you? 🤔

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How to slow down your heartbeats? Recently I seem to have come across a person who increases its speed... this is not me. I can't do this. Stop it.

I “miss you” season is right around the corner, stay woke ladies! 🖤

If you keep telling people you're not good enough, they might start repeating it to you. Don't put yourself down and definitely do NOT allow others to, either. Champion yourself and the right people will champion you. Be kind to the person in the mirror. 🙏🏽🌻

"Love is union under the condition of preserving one's integrity." - Erich Fromm

Plenty more fish in the sea? Maybe less than we thought:)

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