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I'm trying to get in touch with ian@arbitraria I lost your number and I can't figure out how to message you on this app.

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Love me at my very worse time.

That's My Advice! 🙃💀

I never leave when it gets hard, I leave when it gets disrespectful.

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I know a guy that has 3 accounts with different name here why,who are you bruh should I tag you so girls can beware of you you definitely unreal. Delete them b4 i tag you.

I’m new to dating. Is there any advice you can give me that would be awesome?❤️

For Men and Women

How do I get over someone I was never with? :(

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Remember...😏

I’ve been feeling a bit lonely lately, so I went out for an afternoon walk. Spotted this graffiti wisdom on my path. 

Sometimes, our loneliness isolates us. It’s easy to just stay isolated and protect ourselves. But maybe love begins when we can be vulnerable and admit we need someone in our lives.

Never Stop 🩷ing

Genuine question to the ladies, more so the really pretty ones but all input is welcome: what exactly do you not go for the men with lower ratings in looks?

I know, it's a matter of perspective, people have preferences, eta eta. But I Genuinely want to know your reasoning of why you don't give average looking men a try. It honestly doesn't make sense to me: all women 1-10 will only pick 7 and higher unless they've known then since forever, and then get unhappy when said high rollers only pick the 10s. Then they complain of where have all the good men gone, and why is no boys approaching me, only to hiss at anyone under 7 that approaches them. 

As far as I know, 95% of the time the so called "good men" aren't in the 7 and higher area (not to say there isn't good guys up there, they are all just already taken, leaving the playboys and influencers left). The actual good men though? They are actually in the lower numbers, and 9/10 times they'll also marry you for life, take care of you and your kids, and treat you with equality and respect.
Most of the lower numbers aren't even that ugly: at worst they look average. And their more likely to actually have something interesting to talk about and engage in, and actually want to hear about your day and your interests.

So why in heavens name are you only going for the high numbers? Best case scenario you get the unicorn and a rich athletic model and be set for life, at worst you'll be girl #20 he takes out, hooks up with, then dumps in like a month, or worst, keep you as a side piece when his main girl isn't around. So why only go for them if you have a literal .5% chance of finding the one?

Heavy hitter

Women are scared to tell men they are in love with them,immediately you tell them they start ghosting you,true or false 🤔

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The only people who deserve to be in your life are........

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(This is a bit of a rant/ramble)      
    
           When I was growing up, my parents taught me to be kind to others and treat them the way you would want to be treated. I've followed that mantra for a very long time, and yet, it doesn't seem to make a difference. I'm always kind and open minded when speaking with people, but who ever I talk to just ends up being extremely rude or brush it off because they think that I am faking being kind. Who ever I talk to seems just so eager to tear me down. I can't get through a conversation without an insult thrown my way, a judgement of my character, or try to change my lifestyle to suit theirs. At this point I fear opening up/meeting people in person because they might use what I say against me, I have become very reclusive towards people. I don't know how to properly handle this situation and it's really starting to wear me down. What should I do?

Do people truly care about kindness?

Let them take it and be in suffer
Let them bleed you and be in pain
Let them hurt you and be in tears
Be in storm and let rain wipe it all your tears
Be selfless now and let tomorrow will take all your sorrows.
Be alone and let someone come and take your sadness. 
 Dont settle for less. For me this is what i can say.

Be wise to choose to be with. Let people go if that is what makes them happy. if you are really meant for each other destiny will find its way but if its not i believed in God's plan.

My advice to everyone is if youre tired then give up rawr.

Rawr 007

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About me!

If your friend had just found their significant other cheating on them, what would you say to your friend to console them?

Advice

poetry

by 🌹 

I’m always here, your quiet spot,
A space you turn to, when she's not.
You come and go, then drive away,
I’m left behind at the end of the day.

You see me only when you’re lost,
A place to rest, no heavy cost.
But I’m more than just a stop for you—
I wait, unseen, my feelings true.

I wish you'd stay, but then you leave,
I hold my breath, though I can't breathe.
I’m just your lot, your empty ground,
A place you find when she’s not around.


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Parking Lot

Please....; some good-natured Arkansas women; help this poor man on the journey of a good; wholesome, loving date... I will get down on my knees to go on a fine hike or a dinner date; Theater - what show do you want to check out or watch?  You name it.  I'm there.  Where have all the good mid-western girls gone?

p.s: 
This is the sole decision that I will not be held liable to strict agreements "said upon by all "USA East or West Coast girls at this time - all time & rights reserved - davidsmithandrew@gmail.

Good Arkansas Women!

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Love —> Someone who loves you ! ❤️

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What I am saying with is basic is we all have issues and problems everyone has been burned by the fire of life however if one partner is doing all the caring and reaching out all the acts of love while the other barely shows that same effort it won't happen, that's because we as people in different ways majority like to know we are cared about and have someone in our corner that way we know we can improve and move further in life with plans we didn't even know existed

If they aren't willing to meet you halfway through your issues it won't work

Just a few statistics and opinions here. There is some truth here though. Coming from a shorter dude myself 5'7", one of the simple answers i can give you to support this claim is self confidence. We know we have a disadvantage from our taller brethren, so if we are fortunate enough to have earned love and have a partner we put in extra effort to keep that love. It didn't come as easy for us. We are not as concerned to cheat/mess around with others bc of the difficulty it took us to get someome we love. We are usually just so happy and thrilled to have you as our partner. Nobody else matters and we won't risk what we got. We feel valued and seen but a part of us will always have a low key insecurity that we could lose you to a more masculine man. That's why we try harder, bc we have to. Also we can mess up relationships from trying to hard. Yup.. short dude problems 😆 
Woman are also more likely to cheat on a shorter man. One main reason is taller men often pursue shorter women. Often much shorter that actually fit a short man well. We all know wedding rings do not keep lustful people away. They want what they want . Even though height doesnt matter it is still prefered the man be the same height or taller and statistically speaking majority of woman are  more attracted to taller men. Now again this is just some statistics and everyone is different. Dont beat me up for speaking freely and from my life experiences. First dude, my ex wife cheated on me with was 6'2" and she was 5'0" 😆. Gotta laugh about it now and why I understand/ believe there is truth here in this. I know a little thing or two bc I have lived a thing or two. All I am saying is this is more accurate then people want to admit or agree with and also I'm just here as a voice for my short brother's who get what I'm saying.

Ladies, If you have an issue with cheaters after cheater or too much money, give a short dude a chance 😂 he will offer more loyalty with less money 💰 I am being a bit silly and honest here folks. There are very loyal tall men too. Don't get offended please but feel free to share your thoughts too. More then welcome to say your experiences, opinions and such.

Thanks for stopping by to read this. Danny deVito approved this message btw 😆 jk

Tall men vs Short men

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A letter for you....

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A dream..

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You want somebody, she pisses you off alot. How to go about it

Love

I've asked multiple married couples of their experience within their relationship between 5 years and 50 years of successful life together.

Do you have separate accounts or merge Banks into one? (Merge Banks)

How do you both overcome difficult situations like arguing?

 (Listen to your partner. Not just hearing them but ask questions and make sure you both are on the same page. Do not be dismissive but make sure you both understand him/her, always)

What kept your marriage together? 

(Don't stop dating. Both will be busy but always take time to spend with your partner doing activities like it was your first date)

All of them that I ask questions have this in common. 

Work it out, negotiate, compromise, go all in, communicate and helping each other to become the best version of each other. Even through the hard times.

Sounds basic, but it's actually the challenging part when put into practice. 


But as the saying goes.

 "Team work, makes the dream work."

Team work makes the dream work

As I begin to let you go.
it makes me think about you, and who you really were. My mind wants to think about all the good parts - the parts that I'll miss the most. I focus on that so much that I forget why I am letting you go. I forget how you kept me waiting for hours. I forget how you made me feel like I meant nothing to you. I forget how you had no problem hurting me. I forget how you had no problem leaving. I forget the things I need to remember.🥀🌷

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Love me at my very worse time.

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I never leave when it gets hard, I leave when it gets disrespectful.

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What would you rather be?

Never ask for attention

The importance of setting boundaries..

Leo

If Your Absence Doesn't Bother Them, Then Your Presence Never Matter To Them First Place. The Truth Is Still Truth, Even If No One Believe It. A Lie Is Still A Lie, Even If Everyone Believes It. Dtay Focused 🙏🏼

All she needs is a shoulder to cry on sometimes.......