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Navigating the complexities of human connections? You're not alone. This forum is a sanctuary for anyone who believes in the transformative power of relationships. From saving a relationship teetering on the edge, to recognizing relationship red flags early on, we explore the labyrinth of love and companionship. Whether you're in the throws of a long-distance relationship, or looking to improve communication in relationships closer to home, we've got you covered. This space is about more than just advice—it's a community of empathetic souls sharing wisdom, experiences, and insights. You'll find open dialogues on every relationship issue imaginable: the struggles of dating, the keys to successful partnerships, and even navigating the world of online dating. So go ahead, ask the questions that have been keeping you up at night, or share that insightful article you found on maintaining long-term connections. With a blend of personal stories and expert advice, let's work together to better understand the intricacies that make relationships both challenging and rewarding. This is your forum to engage in meaningful conversations that can shape your relationship goals and enrich your life. Whether you're single, committed, or somewhere in between, let's empower each other to form deeper, more fulfilling connections.

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Cassie Maria

22h

INFJ
Pisces

Lazy

I don't have any energy to reply messages and to introduce myself for sure, so lazy.... i am literally expecting dorothy in oz, someone that literally falls from sky puffffft 😆

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Nicole

10h

ENFP
Scorpio

Online dating or face to face dating?

Recently I talked to a guy here and he say he can't do online dating and would opt to meet up first but as a introvert myself I tend to be insecure about myself and always worry a lot since I have bad experiences with dating. Kinda going with the flow right now but I guess he ghosted me?

Online dating or face to face dating?

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Kimberly

8h

INTJ
Taurus

8w7

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Dating tip #1

🙈😂🤷🏽‍♀️

Dating tip #1

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Kendreya

4h

INTP
Pisces

Do modern men prefer women making the first moving? I've noticed that guys on here almost never start the conversation with me. Is it fear of rejection? I'm just curious

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Beverly

17h

INFJ
Gemini

Does it get better with time???

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💕L-Y-N💕

15h

INFJ

Can you assure me that you'll be my final partner? I've made a commitment to myself that I won't embark on another relationship if things don't work out between us. We'll work through any challenges together, okay? I envision spending my forever with you and only you. I love you.

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Jessica

9h

INFJ
Scorpio

8w7

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Touch, effort, chance, possibility 🤷🏼‍♀️

It's just one touch to open, one touch to close One touch to show me not all minds are cold One touch to loosen, loosen the hold One touch to free me from falling down on my own From falling down on my own Just one touch to open, one touch to close One touch to show me not all minds are cold One touch to loosen, loosen the hold One touch to free me #liquiddnb #dnb #edm #desire #want #please #hybridminds #ukf

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Reia

19h

ISTJ

5w4

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😊

😊

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Wilfred🇵🇷

12h

ESFJ
Virgo

6w5

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Keep that in mind ppl👌🏻

Keep that in mind ppl👌🏻

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Dion

18h

ENFP

6w7

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Unpopular Opinion. More than Looks

Okay, you're beautiful. We've seen your face and then some at 1,00000 different angles. What's next? The problem with swiping isn't that they're too many options but that people are reducing their values to the most mundane superficial of things. You catch the same type of fish that you bait with.

Unpopular Opinion. More than Looks

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Jordan

2h

INFP
Sagittarius

On Height...

I am genuinely curious about women who prefer tall men. Is there a secret reason for this? Is it some sort of insecurity where a woman believes society will not accept her with a shorter partner? Do they think tall men are well endowed? Do they like having someone who makes them feel small? I am sure everyone has their own reasons. For all the women who write that height is a factor in their selection process I have rarely been sought out for that quality. As a taller man myself (6'4") I can only think of a handfull of women who actually admitted to me thats what they were after, and even then I just wonder if there is some alternate reasoning for being attracted to that quality.

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Penelope

6h

INFJ
Gemini

4w5

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I Cannot Fail

I hope that people realize that there are individuals out there who cannot afford to fail. Because they are their own back-ups. They do not have parents, partners, children, relatives or friends to back them up financially or catch them if ever they feel like they want to give up or needed a break. They are their own support system and there would not be any one else that they can rely on. I wish that people would not be quick to judge if their are certain individuals that are high strung and are perfectionists… If some over think too much. Do not immediately assume that they are just super negative or over the top dramatic. They just care too much and passionate about their work, because it is their bread and butter. There is nothing else. I wish people would understand that to some, work is not just work but their life line. It is not only about their dreams but their family’s as well. And that is why they cannot afford to fail, even if sometimes they just want to fade away and just give up.

I Cannot Fail

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Ernest

16h

ENFJ
Capricorn

1w2

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Who knows you?

Who really knows who you are? Cherish them….

Who knows you?

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Sharlotte

15h

ESFJ
Libra

It's hard to say ok when it's not💔

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Jessieannie Santiago

1d

ENTP
Scorpio

I’m single

I am looking for a serious relationship💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

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Ernest

16h

ENFJ
Capricorn

1w2

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Priorities

Does he or she prioritize you? Or are you just an option?

Priorities

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Anele

11h

ENFJ
Taurus

Guys I'm in a relationship with someone that I lov the most

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Tyler

5h

ISTJ
Cancer

6w5

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Biggest pet peaves/ red flags

What really irritates you that some people do?

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Mel

9h

INFJ
Capricorn

9w1

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Tired of so many dry conversations that go nowhere. Like we matched, what's the point in not responding or just not being invested in the convo lmao 😬

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Sharlotte

15h

ESFJ
Libra

🥺💔😭

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Dakota Cassidy

3h

INFJ
Libra

2w3

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Anybody have some openers that they know work?

I'm absolutely struggling getting people to text back and I have no idea what to say/send, any ideas (18m)

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Taylor

1d

INTJ
Taurus

6w7

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Once more from the top

If you could speak to your younger self at the start of your first real relationship, what would you say? (Let's try and keep it positivity focussed, maybe we can grow from this instead of just trying to avoid pain x)

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George

13h

INFP
Taurus

Relationship and physical sex advice

So in my job role I sell adult toys and these 3 questions always get asked by customers so what is your opinion? 1...... does size really matter? 2..... why aren't chubby men attractive to women.... 3.... most men don't know a woman's body like they think they do.

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Adelia

23h

ISFJ
Scorpio

Love & laugh

“We cannot really love anyone with whom we never laugh.”

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Tommy

3h

INFP
Cancer

6w7

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How I relate playing guitar to a healthy relationship.

So you have the left hand and the right hand, the left hand does the melody, while right hand controls rhythm, both are very different from eachother but come together to create a beautiful song, same with relationships, we need to celebrate differences and come together rather than chastise and divide.

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Josephine Bontilao

14h

INFP
Aries

Need advice

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S

6h

ESFJ
Aquarius

💞💕

What is the most important factor in maintaining a healthy relationship?

A) Constant communication

B) Unconditional love

C) Complete honesty

D) Personal space and independence

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Jenny

15h

ISTP
Aries

3w4

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LIMITATIONS

👍🏻

LIMITATIONS

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Joan

19h

ISTP
Gemini

What has helped you heal from a heartbreak in the past, besides time and meeting someone new?

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Joan

5h

ISTP
Gemini

Are you looking for a distraction or a real connection?

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Sharlotte

2h

ESFJ
Libra

💞

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KESHAVA S A

3h

ENTJ
Scorpio

What's your view on body count !? Will you marry a person who has body count !?

Yes

No

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Joan

21h

ISTP
Gemini

What advice would you give a friend or loved one going through a similar situation as you?

Healthy love exists. Remember that. ✨

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George

19h

INFJ
Virgo

9w1

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Let's continue cheering those that have achieved 👏🏾 before us. Our time will come.

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Joan

1d

ISTP
Gemini

What was the biggest turning point in your dating life?

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Dr. Hamid

5h

INTJ
Taurus

2w3

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Lesson for life

Lesson for life

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Leokhan313

12h

INFJ
Leo

9w1

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How to Deal with heart broken?

Dealing with heartbreak can be incredibly challenging. Here are some steps you can take to start healing: 1. **Allow yourself to feel your emotions**: It's important to acknowledge and process your feelings rather than bottling them up. Allow yourself to cry, be angry, or whatever else you may be feeling. 2. **Reach out for support**: Don't hesitate to lean on friends, family, or a therapist for support. Talking about your feelings with someone you trust can help you feel less alone and gain perspective on your situation. 3. **Take care of yourself**: Make self-care a priority. This includes getting enough sleep, eating healthily, exercising, and engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation. 4. **Set boundaries**: If staying in contact with your ex is making it harder for you to heal, consider setting boundaries or taking a break from communication until you feel ready. 5. **Focus on personal growth**: Use this time to reflect on yourself and your needs. Consider what you've learned from this experience and how you can grow from it. 6. **Seek professional help if needed**: If your depression persists or becomes overwhelming, don't hesitate to seek help from a mental health professional. They can provide you with additional support and guidance through this difficult time. Remember, healing takes time, and it's okay to not be okay. Be patient with yourself and trust that with time, you will start to feel better.

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Momen

16h

ENTP
Capricorn

I'm looking for a transwoman partner but it seems so hard to find! anyone open to DM me ill respond !

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Luke

8h

INFJ
Aquarius

4w5

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Personalities

I think people should take the time to make sure they're taking the personality test seriously and answering honestly. My test results aren't completely accurate mind you. However many of the descriptions are spot on. I've noticed how some people on this app are lying to themselves and other people. It is pointless to do so and we should try our best not to contradict ourselves. So in turn we can make the most of our time.

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Joan

4h

ISTP
Gemini

Who makes you feel loved, even when you don't feel lovable?

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