Universes

Relationshipadvice

relationshipadvice

😏

🤭

Loyal and dedicated to a man for two years just for him to say he can’t do it anymore smh

😀🤣😅😂 Beware 😜😜 maybe 😎😎

😅😅😅😅

You been single as it impacted you in any way

❤️

👌

I faced this a few days ago in a conversation. A situation where I am currently going through my paces of self care, identifying issues that I have, addressing them and working through. But the conversation shifted to their wants and intentions. Because my pace is to build with someone, and work through these goals I have, they wanted to stop communicating. The frustrating side is that, these goals are entirely internal through help, therapy, and activity. But they dont have to be done by myself, they can be done through time and process. It seems that any more, everyone wants a finished product, they dont want to work toward something, to go through the proper steps. Why is it that we get so blinded by instant gratification that we forget the journey.

I have built my life, have no kids, have virtually everything except someone to do things with at this point. But live by even if we don't like today, doesn't mean we shouldn't look forward to what tomorrow brings.

Am I wrong in thinking communication shouldn't stop if we are taking it a little slower and bettering ourselves through the way? 

Is it conceited to say that when I choose a partner they will have security and stability, but I dont want them to just instantly get to take all of the work I put into that?

Building or taking

Translation of the video...

It took a long time to realise it: what other people want has nothing to do with me, and what other people like has nothing to do with me. Maybe I am a sunrise, and you are a sunset kind of person. It’s popular to have this mentality that "I was too good for them," or "they didn't deserve me," or "I am too much, go find less." But the truth is, I wasn't what you were trying to find. That’s fine. I don't need to chastise you for having preferences, and I don't need to forgive you for not choosing me. I hope that you find your sunset.


To all the lonely souls who feel worthless, not everyone is your sunrise. Don't feel bad...🫂

I hope you find your sunset

#idontlikedramatoo😅

No matter what happens, promise to yourself that you will find ways to make it work.

Love me

What’s your go-to conversation starter when talking to someone new? Curious.

Sadly, we always choose people who never choose us..

🫰

Is it wrong if I want someone to love me...
I'm tired with toxic relationships especially friends with benefits...

🥲

😆

What a world you can unlock when I feel safe with you

Safe = soft

Saw this on another feed.  Thought I'd share.

Wise words

Smile even when your dying inside!! This pain is killing me now.. I just want to Be Strong while facing my problems... Can someone save me from drowning?

Just Smile

👇

rather than looking at attractive guy I prefer to look at beautiful women and immediately think "wow she's so beautiful i would like to date her" im straight unfortunately lmao

What do you think about this?

Be honest, guys and gals and pals... Have you ever seen a post here (or any other site) of a person that you thought, "Damn, this person is really attractive. They seem genuinely amazing. I wish i could be friends (or more) with them."

But then you decide to just scroll away because deep down you feel like they likely get way too many messages to even care about your attempts to make a move. That you feel like they are just out of your league and that there's no chance in hell of ever getting anywhere with them.

It happens to me every time I open this app... 😅

Social anxiety is not fun. It recontextualise everything throught lense of "am i bothering them with this?"

Too shy to even try

A relationship requires sincerity, loyalty, and communication.

love

Here I am, posting after a VERY long time. Everything has been messed up for me through out the past three months. but there was something, one small source of light, in all that darkness. 
Someone, to be exact.
Someone I was giving up on finding. 
Someone I was convinced was just a fairytale.
Someone I can confidently call my "soulmate" now.
I found my person right before falling into an endless dark hole. He grabbed me by my wrist and held it so tight that I forgot how it felt to be left to fall. 
I don't know who to thank for finding him; myself from the past life, a god, my luck or just the app devs (hehe). But I know for sure I'm gonna be thanking him for the rest of my life for holding me and not letting go. 
I love you, you know that right? 
(No, I love you more.)

Finally, it happened.

📌

I'm curious, is this true?

At the end both lead to the same place🥀

Treasure vs Treasure

Everybody

Next year......

Wasted energy

❤️‍🩹

For me, it’s a genuine connection that matters more. From there you would know if you share the same values. If the other’s character is worth spending many years with.

Would you agree?

Stability vs Connection

I may not be fluent in English, but I know exactly where I stand. Let me be clear about relationship statuses:
​Single: It means you are not dating or in any 'complicated' situation. If you’re married but living separately, you are NOT single. Legally, you are still married. Please be honest.
​In a Relationship: It means you are with someone special. Don't go messing with others; that's just being unfaithful.
​Divorced: You used to be single, but if you’ve been married and then split, your status is 'Divorced.' Many people I've talked to hide this until I ask. You should be proud that you once had love; don't hide the past just to start a new chapter unfairly.
​Widowed: Whatever the case, everyone deserves to live in the truth.
​I’ve met so many people who live in denial. To me, lying to yourself isn't attractive. Be proud of your journey, no matter how it ended. Honesty is everything. You can't change the past, but you know the truth. If you want a sincere relationship, start by being sincere yourself. Only then will you deserve it.
​And just so you know, I won't accept sweet words from someone already in a relationship. I’m not the type to hide in the shadows. I am straightforward, clear, and I have standards

Be clear pls

A Boo community for meeting other Relationshipadvice enthusiasts.

Relationshipadvice Community

😏

🤭

Loyal and dedicated to a man for two years just for him to say he can’t do it anymore smh

😀🤣😅😂 Beware 😜😜 maybe 😎😎 (edited)

😅😅😅😅

❤️

The biggest lie in dating: "I’m just too busy." 🤫

🎼 'Cause the power you're supplying it's electrifying 🎶

Her pain, my pain...

When she said she likes feeding her man...

WORK

Divorced couple how did you deal with your divorce especially if you were the one not wanting to get divorced?