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Dating myself 🤭

Change your approach

Instead of saying stuff so blatantly "Bored, want to chat" or "No one want to talk" Try: "What's your opinion on..." Or: "Today X happened..." YOU have an interesting life, and are attractive to someone but you have to avoid making posts boring, or pity plays, or without any "hook". When you… read more

Red Flags 🚩

What are your red flags in relationships or getting to know somebody? I'll start. When somebody communicates indirectly rather than directly. What about yours?

Green Flags 📗

What are your green flags in relationships or getting to know somebody? I'll start. When the person has emotional awareness and is aware of their emotions. What about yours?

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Reciprocation

I wish men made more effort to communicate and initiate conversations. To the men reading, what stops you from trying? How can I help you so you can be the best for another lady!!

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Consistency is the quality of a relationship. When you give your time to something, you are giving your value to it.✨👍

What does 'valuable time' mean to you? For me, it’s about having conversations, communicating, and showing love and care to the people I care about. It’s traveling, doing volunteer work to give back to society, helping others, and enjoying delicious food—it doesn't have to be expensive. It’s doing… read more

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experience is a teacher

things i’ve learned from relationships: love yourself before trying to love someone else. love alone isn’t enough. apologies mean nothing without changed behavior. communication shouldn’t feel like pulling teeth. and being comfortable isn’t the same as being happy. most importantly, pay attention… read more

Self_Love

"Nobody's life is ever all balanced. It's a conscious decision to choose your priorities every day."

Crush

👀 Who's got a crush on a crush? 👀 You don't have to say who, unless you want to share!!! 😁

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Which would you do?

Let's say your partner is busy attending some major event like a wedding or funeral or school reunion...

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Motivation

Hardwork brings rewards

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Idk, this seems odd....

Opinions please

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Introverts in relationships, I have a question 😊 How do you navigate being shy/quiet with someone you genuinely love? Like, you may care deeply, but you’re not naturally talkative, you need time to open up, and sometimes you’re perfectly happy just being together quietly.

Sometimes I wonder… what is one thing you’ve learned about love that you wish someone had told you earlier?

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What is the expectation?

We can't expect a single like or comment or award to be enough to convince someone to be a part of our lives, right? If I'm wrong, great! I'm honestly...honestly...happy for anyone who makes a friend or a partner, however it happens. However, expectations are the issue in my estimation. Posting… read more

If you could experience yourself as a partner, what would you appreciate most? And what would drive you insane?

I've heard “Would you date yourself?” or similar a few times. But would you actually want to date yourself if you were someone else? Would you date someone exactly like you? What would you love about them? What would you hate? What are your best qualities and what are your worst? And ultimately:… read more

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Why does grief hurt so much when we least expect it? I feel so alone right now

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