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What do you think is the most important thing to make a relationship work?

Is love only meant to be about physical intimacy? And what about emotions? Share your thoughts🥺

Be with someone who understands how rare your love is !

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What do you expect from your partner, and what do you value most in a relationship?  
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Maybe lol…

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I have realized that part of the whole missed connections thing is not having the nerve to leap into a DM or not knowing how to virtually banter.

So comment on this post and tell people what would intrigue you or how you want that first conversation to go, just in case your next BFF, BF, GF, or any of those other things is watching!

Tell people how to introduce themselves to you

What does it mean if a girl says she's liked me for a while, says she wants to go out, we plan a date, then the day of she cancels the date and blocks me.  I'm so confused

I don't understand girls

Healthy relationships aren’t about perfection or never arguing; they’re about choosing each other even when it’s hard. They grow when both people listen as much as they speak, respect boundaries, communicate honestly, and care about each other’s feelings. Real love shows up in patience, trust, and the willingness to grow together rather than trying to change one another.

Healthy relationships

The lowest cost...😎

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Love and consistency...

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We need more women think like this!!!

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Lone distance love turnes real in 2028 😄🤭😁

So soft for this world 💯

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I don't know why people always ask for something long term... Something that will stick with them forever.... And the second that person becomes part of their daily life they just be like their relationship “lost its spark”. I mean when will leke understand love is not always about sparks and excitement and movies stuff... But rather most of the time it's about being their.. The peace.... How secure you feel....

Makes me question

Can anyone suggest me how to improve my profile. I just wanted to find someone here, but despite everyone having written that they want a deep communication, authenticity, loyalty, no one is even replying. I mean how any of us are going to know about a person if we don't even talk. Or I'm missing, that it's all about looks here???

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Who all believe that every relationship in our life is sheer Fate and not our efforts?

Fate

What makes someone cheat? And if you guys continue the relationship; how do you guys give them a second chance and truly believe in them?

What makes you guys believe they wont be shattered your heart twice?

Cheating

Let’s talk about a quiet, pervasive filter in modern dating—one that rarely gets said out loud but shows up in study after study, and in the quiet confessions of dating app algorithms.

It’s not about height, education, or even politics this time. It’s about a specific, glaring prejudice: the significant reluctance many straight women have to date bisexual, pansexual, or otherwise queer men.

On platforms built on compatibility, it might be the most illogical compatibility fail of all.

We’re not talking about a mild preference. We’re talking about a pattern so strong it forms a dating barrier. And the reasons, when unpacked, reveal less about these men and more about deep-seated insecurities and unexamined stereotypes straight culture needs to confront.


The Usual Suspects: Stereotypes in a Swipe 

When asked, the justifications form a familiar, flawed list:

· “He’s just confused / actually gay.” (Dismissing an entire identity as a phase.)
· “He’ll be more likely to cheat.” (A baseless myth, as if attraction breadth dictates loyalty.)
· “It’s a health risk.” (A stigmatizing stereotype conflating identity with behavior.)
· “I just wouldn’t feel secure.”

Ah, there it is. Security. That’s the core of it, isn’t it? 

The “Unbeatable Competition” Anxiety 

Here’s the uncomfortable, gendered logic. In a heteronormative script, a woman is taught to view other women as her “competition.” She knows that playbook. She believes she can be funnier, smarter, or more attractive than another woman.

But a partner who is also attracted to men? That introduces a rival she can never be. She cannot be “the best man.” This shatters the traditional, subconscious rulebook where her value in the relationship is tied to fulfilling a singular, gendered role. Suddenly, the “competition” feels infinite and unnavigable. The insecurity isn’t about his fidelity—it’s about her own perceived replaceability in a system she no longer understands.

It’s a fear that his queerness makes her own womanhood somehow insufficient. And that’s a painful, scary feeling. But here’s the hard truth: making his identity the problem for her insecurity is the definition of prejudice. 

It’s Not You, It’s Patriarchy (Really) 

This isn’t some innate flaw in women. It’s a learned response from a culture that still equates masculinity with straightness and treats male bisexuality as a joke or a threat. Often, a woman’s fear is less about her partner and more about the social degradation he might face from other straight men—and, by extension, she might face. She fears the homophobic taunt (“So your boyfriend’s gay?”) because we still live in a world where that’s meant to wound her status, too.

She’s not just evaluating a partner; she’s unconsciously evaluating her future social shield. And that’s a heavy, unfair burden to place on a queer man’s identity.

Seeing the Person, Not the Prejudice 

Platforms like Boo are built on the promise of deeper connection—of matching personalities, souls, and minds beyond the superficial. This is the next frontier of that mission.

The queer men on this app who love women aren’t a “risk.” They are often more empathetic, more self-aware, and more deliberate in their communication because they’ve had to understand their own identity in a judgmental world. They haven’t just followed a default script.

To the amazing, insightful women on Boo: that man who lists “bisexual” or “pansexual” in his profile isn’t offering you less security. He’s offering you more honesty. He’s trusting you with his full self from the jump. He is likely challenging rigid gender roles in beautiful ways. He chose you not from a narrow lane, but from the vast spectrum of human attraction. Isn’t that a more profound compliment?

Have you experienced or confronted this bias? How can we build dating cultures that see queerness as depth, not a drawback? Share your thoughts below.

The Invisible Wall Why Some Women Swipe Left on Queer Men

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Dm me

What if all dating apps didnt require personal photos or selfies?

Kinda u just match with the character, how people respond, how people bring up any topic, zodiac/mbti (who believe those things for match up), not only by their look

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Is love only meant to be about physical intimacy? And what about emotions? Share your thoughts🥺 (edited)

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I “miss you” season is right around the corner, stay woke ladies! 🖤

"Love is union under the condition of preserving one's integrity." - Erich Fromm

Plenty more fish in the sea? Maybe less than we thought:)

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