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Navigating the complexities of human connections? You're not alone. This forum is a sanctuary for anyone who believes in the transformative power of relationships. From saving a relationship teetering on the edge, to recognizing relationship red flags early on, we explore the labyrinth of love and companionship. Whether you're in the throws of a long-distance relationship, or looking to improve communication in relationships closer to home, we've got you covered. This space is about more than just advice—it's a community of empathetic souls sharing wisdom, experiences, and insights. You'll find open dialogues on every relationship issue imaginable: the struggles of dating, the keys to successful partnerships, and even navigating the world of online dating. So go ahead, ask the questions that have been keeping you up at night, or share that insightful article you found on maintaining long-term connections. With a blend of personal stories and expert advice, let's work together to better understand the intricacies that make relationships both challenging and rewarding. This is your forum to engage in meaningful conversations that can shape your relationship goals and enrich your life. Whether you're single, committed, or somewhere in between, let's empower each other to form deeper, more fulfilling connections.

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Aina

1d

INFP
Capricorn

2w3

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Getting old with one person is so rare in this generation😩

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Shiney Anne

15h

INTJ
Cancer

Am a little bit bored with relationships like am tired of starting over being asked silly questions sometimes I feel it's better I remain single forever finding a soulmate it's not easy task 💔

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Improving 👼

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INFP
Leo

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I am so glad someone put it in sentence describing why burn out happen?

Emotional support guys! Don’t let your girl handle life alone. Wish I have a partner that is so understanding. So, next time when you see someone thriving and you can’t, don’t compare. Because they may have the support that you were never given.

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Zlata

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INFP
Leo

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Bruh

Is there a way to make yourself care less about a person?

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Kai

9h

ESTP
Capricorn

Has anyone actually found anyone on a dating site or is it just me I can’t even get a date 😂

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Tyler

20h

ENTJ
Taurus

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Kinda true...

Kinda true...

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Adi

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INTP
Sagittarius

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Idk

Met this cute girl, we be hitting it off. Fantastic conversations. Jokes and laughs all the way. Singergy compatibility, values all that stuff on point this on the online. We met today. Evreything was exactly as on online 10 out of 10. But/then/at a moment/ i find out that the girl walk bearfoot evreywhere. Like naked feet full of dirt evreywhere. Does not matter, mall, street&park evreywhere bearfoot. I mean ... I can't Venting session off

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Christy

16h

ISFJ
Leo

Bitterness never attracted anyone

Don't let your complaints overshadow your light. If you radiate positivity people come 😁.

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angelia.brigitha

54m

INTJ
Libra

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❤️‍🩹

#respect #love

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Chinmai

16h

INTP
Cancer

3w4

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Touch

Is physical touch necessary in a relationship?

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✨ℳ𝒾𝒹𝓃𝒾ℊ𝒽𝓉✨

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ESTJ
Leo

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💯

💯

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angelia.brigitha

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INTJ
Libra

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are you with the right partner?

During a seminar, a woman asked The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner? "In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind. Here's the answer. Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love. People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU. Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown. The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found. People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this): The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it! Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable. Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling. Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! Written by Crown Malone

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Madhu

4h

ENTP
Pisces

Hope, we all experience in our life !!

Hope, we all experience in our life !!

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Lily

1h

ESFJ
Aries

When do Japanese people say "I Love You"?

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Coco

6h

INFJ
Taurus

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How do you feel about this?

Do you guys feel like labels are a trap? Like do y’all feel like once you put a label on something between you and the person you’re seeing it gets complicated?

How do you feel about this?

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S😇😇😇😇😇

1d

ENFJ
Leo

Agree? It's for both man and woman

Be very clear with your intentions. Don't play with human feeling. 😇

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💖LYN💖

6h

ISTJ
Virgo

I have Pain Killer 😃

I have Pain Killer 😃

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Julio

8h

ISTJ
Cancer

6w7

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To lead or to follow

In a relationship, do you prefer to lead or to follow? As for me, follow suits me better, guess is due my personality. Would be househusband.

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Nina

8h

ENFJ
Gemini

#TheOne

I'll be praying and cheering for you all!! 🫶

#TheOne

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Mila

6h

ISFJ
Cancer

You are not for everyone

You are not for everyone

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Kingdom

50m

ENFP
Cancer

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Where are all the good ones?

Whenever you find yourself asking where the good ones are, remind yourself that the people around you are a reflection of you. If you were a person of good character you would be a better judge of character. If you were a better judge of character you would attract people of good character. A person of poor character is a bad judge of character & only attracts similar people of poor character. You are in fact getting what you deserve.

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Kingdom

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ENFP
Cancer

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If you feel the need to weaponize your partner's love language then you have no business being in a relationship...

People do it all the time... "They" deny their partner psychical affection because "they" are upset they didn't get "their" way. "They" stop being available for quality time unless that quality time is spent doing what "they" want. Suddenly acts of service become a burden unless "they" are getting something in return. Giving gifts becomes a comparison of whether it was enough to satisfy what "they" wanted. Words of affirmation suddenly become words of malice or nothing at all because "they" don't feel you "deserve" it... All of those things happen when "they" don't get what "they" want. If that sounds familiar in your partner, leave them: you don't deserve to be in a relationship with someone like that. If that sounds familiar about yourself, you need to be honest with yourself & get the help you deserve before being in a relationship of any kind. Anybody who would weaponize love language towards their current partner because of things their past partners (THAT YOU CHOSE) did, does not belong in a relationship & I sincerely hope you get the help you deserve.

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Vaughan

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ISTP
Taurus

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Dating shouldn't create more problems than it solves.

Dating shouldn't create more problems than it solves.

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Luis

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ENTJ
Libra

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The secret for a long relationship it's a good communication!!!

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Erpa

21h

ESFJ
Aries

Wholesome Communication

Communication as “the imparting or interchange of thoughts, opinions, or information by speech, writing, or signs.” Communication therefore involves a sharing of sentiments and ideas. And wholesome communication entails things that are upbuilding, refreshing, virtuous, praiseworthy, and consoling.​ Wholesome communication helps bind hearts in lasting love. It takes two loving people who really work together to unlock the door to a successful marriage by mastering the art of wholesome communication. 😀 Do you want to do this?

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Sandrelle

21h

ENFJ
Scorpio

Daily motivation

I am not where I want to be but I am not where I used to be.

Daily motivation

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Marilou

2h

ISFJ
Cancer

9w1

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The best advice💯

The best advice💯

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Vanshika Garg

1d

ISTJ
Cancer

🤷How Do I Handle Cruel People?

💁 Do You Agree? 🙍 "How Can I Handle Cruel People?" 💕 "Close Your Eyes And Literally Send Them Love". 💕 🤷 Not everyone is kind. 🫴 You will meet people in this life who don’t treat you the way you should be treated. 🤷 I know this might be hard to hear, but you need to to send these people love. 🤔 You might be wondering... 🤔 but how? ➡️ Whenever someone treats you poorly for any reason, close your eyes and literally send them love. ✊ You have the power to do this at any moment in time. 🤷 from wherever you are in the world. 🙈 Close your eyes and intentionally send out love. 🫴 This is how you can help those who are hurting from afar while protecting yourself at the same time. 😍 There’s a beautiful quote by the Dalai Lama that explains this well:- 🦋 “We’re born to help people. And if we can’t help them, let’s at least not hurt Them". 🦋 💁 We’re all here to do our best and spread love, healing, and positivity. 🤷 And if for whatever reason we can’t do that..... 👉 The very least we can do is not hurt others. ❌ You don’t have to like everyone. 🫶 But you can always try to love them. ➡️ Your decision to choose love(even when it’s hard, even when you don’t want to is your greatest purpose. 🤷 So, the next time someone is unkind to you in any way, close your eyes and send them love. 😊 You won’t just be helping them, but helping yourself as well. 💁 If we all tried our best every day to send love throughout the world we could make this place something beautiful beyond our wildest dreams. 🫴 That’s the whole point, isn’t it? 🌐 To leave this world a better place than when we found it. #anamify #consciousrelationships #loveandpeace #howdoihandlecruelpeople #loveisthekey #singleparentjourney #singleparentcoach

🤷How Do I Handle Cruel People?

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www 🤔

15h

INTP
Aquarius

8w7

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Invest in yourself

Did you know that about the uncle Scrooge by Don Rosa 👀?

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Ayush Chatterjee

13h

INTP
Leo

3w4

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Stay toxic, kings.

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Jen

4h

ISFJ
Libra

1w9

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Loyalty

Loyalty

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JRz 👻🖤😈

3h

INFJ
Scorpio

9w1

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A little toxic 🤭

I got your back shawty 🖤 #funny #memes #dating #romance #love #relationship

A little toxic 🤭

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Chris

5h

ENTP
Virgo

2w3

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Hang up

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Sūrjît

16h

ISFJ
Leo

1w2

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The more you are available to the masses for validation, The lesser you become!

It will be too late by then!! ✌️✌️

The more you are available to the masses for validation, The lesser you become!

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Lee

12h

ISTP
Aquarius

8w7

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Vibe

Vibe

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Bunny

18h

ENFJ
Sagittarius

Is there anyone who cando productive talks?

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Jan-Niklas Čulo

1d

INFJ
Taurus

3w2

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Why do I often attract women into my life who are interested in me, but I am not interested in them? And why do I find women attractive, but I have to put a lot of energy into getting their attention in the first place?

Is my taste in women broken? 😅

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Rose

1d

ESFJ
Scorpio

7w8

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good luck boy🤣

good luck boy🤣

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Elly

1d

INFP
Cancer

2w3

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We've all been there :)

Never chase someone, who isn't worth your time.

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