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How do we accept the shadows in other people, while not enabling them? I'm learning to take responsibility only for my own side of things. How do we deal with the other side? Thoughts?

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Imagine you’re in a long-distance “relationship.” You like each other, you’re compatible, you text every day, video call, voice call, share your lives… everything feels real.

But there’s one tiny detail: **you’ve never actually met in real life.**

Then suddenly, money enters the chat. Maybe she asks directly. Maybe it’s the classic “I’m struggling right now…” story designed to make you offer it yourself.

So what do you do?

**Send the money because you trust her? Or keep your wallet firmly closed until you’ve actually met the person behind the screen?**

Personally, if we’ve never met face-to-face and money is already becoming part of the relationship, my alarm bells aren’t just ringing...they’re filing a police report. 😂

Would you consider asking for money before ever meeting a **major red flag**, or do you think there are legitimate situations where you’d still help?

Let’s hear the honest opinions.

Long-Distance Love or Long-Distance ATM?

What’s the most unhinged reason you’ve ever stopped talking to someone?

How to love

You cannot force someone to care for you
You cannot force someone to show up
You cannot force someone to bear with you
The bad, the ugly, and your dust
You cannot force someone to love you
To trust you, to embrace you, to look at you the way you look at them
And you cannot force the whole world to understand 
The way you love..... 🥀

You cannot force.... 🥀

When it comes to a sincere and honest relationship, strive first to remain true to your own self. If you do not understand the reality of another person, you have failed regarding your own self.

Break your bones...

Be kind

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Give it a try!

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I'm beginning to think I'm not cut out for relationships of any sort. When I find a connection, something isn't right on the other person's end, or I just... lose interest. I'm not really interested in sex, and that seems to be ok with most of the people I meet.

Most recently, I met someone at a bar where I like to do karaoke, and we hooked up. I thought we actually had a connection when we were getting to know each other, but I guess age was/is a problem. And that actually was the first time it ever genuinely made me feel like I'm getting old. 

Dating is so complicated, it's hard to find a connection, and I just don't feel like I'll find someone for me after all the stuff I've been through.

Dating is... hard

It's me ☺️

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Don't fall in love when you're starving emotionally
Don't fall in love when you're in pain
Don't fall in love just to prove yourself to others
Don't fall in love when you're angry
Don't fall in love to fill a void.....

Don't fall in love

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Thought provoking quote

Is it possible to be friends with the opposite sex and not catch feelings for them??

Is it possible ?

Truth

Why do some men are so excited to be in a relationship with a woman who is gonna love him deeply and truthfully but pulls back when life gets hard?

Will a man truly provide emotional safety, assurance and genuine love even when life gets hard?

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I have absolutely nothing against long-distance relationships. In fact, I think they're one of the best filters out there. If two people can stay loyal, communicate, and build trust without constant physical contact, that's actually impressive.What I do have a problem with is when a long-distance relationship suddenly comes with a monthly subscription fee."I'm looking for a provider."Provider? We haven't even met. We haven't gone on a single date. I haven't even held your hand, and somehow I'm already expected to finance your life?😅😅 That's not a relationship...that's remote banking with emojis.Call me old-fashioned, but I believe you earn the privilege of taking care of someone after you've built love, trust, and commitment. Not because they matched with you online three weeks ago.A real partner wants your presence. A user wants your PayPal.💲🤑💸Ironically, refusing to send money in a long-distance relationship is one of the best loyalty tests there is. The people who genuinely like you will stay and build something real. The ones who disappear the moment you don's sent them cash...They were never interested in you,they were interested in your wallet.If someone says, "You need to financially support  me if you want to be with me," thank them. They just saved you months or years of wasted time . The trash took itself out

Relationship, not Sponsorship

So, there ya have it

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Nothing is a coincidence. Every soul you meet is written into your destiny to teach you, to heal you, or to love you.

Never regret the love you give. It always comes back to you.

Actions speak louder than words, but consistency speaks louder than both.

Sometimes you have to give up on people. Not because you don’t care, but because they don’t.

You deserve someone who thinks you’re too important to lose and proves it with consistency, consideration, and respect.

You deserve someone who thinks you’re too important to lose and proves it with consistency, consideration, and respect.

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