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I just want to share this as a reminder for every woman: never love someone so much... that you forget to love yourself. If one day they stop respecting you, stop seeing your worth, disregard your feelings, and leave you to suffer alone—walk away. Don't devalue yourself just hoping that one day they will finally appreciate your goodness. Because someone who truly knows your worth... will never make you fight to prove it alone

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For the Men out there

“Always read a message twice before replying. Most fights start from a misunderstanding “.

Carefully think of reply. Don’t be quick to click.

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It wasn’t that long ago that online dating became a thing. Whether it was plenty of fish, Match, OK Cupid, Zoosk, it opened up ways for people to connect to one another with their lives being busy with work or other matters.

There’s one thing that was consistent with all of this: intent. 

You knew what you were signing up for when you created an account for those sites and others knew what you were looking for. There was more transparency.

Now?

It’s the exact opposite. There’s no intention at all or if there is, It’s hidden behind ulterior motives.

What was once a way to connect others with the purpose of fostering a long-term relationship became an easier way to deceive and practice short-term strategies, leaving both parties unfulfilled after their “party phase” of their lives was over.

Now, there is nothing wrong with a casual relationship if that’s what you want. The issue lies within deception and the normalization of all of this among those who want genuine long-term relationships.

Those that are looking for worthwhile connections are drowned out by those who seek a thrill, leaving them wondering: “what’s the point?”

Most of them could quite possibly just go about their life, finding a person through their everyday life maybe at work, or an event but that endeavor grows increasingly more difficult as life becomes more time consuming and costly.

I made a post about ghosting and honesty, how the things that we’ve normalized have ruined us.

While it may be easier said than done to change the culture around dating.

It can start with one person and it starts with being intentional and clear about what it is we want.

What Happened To Intention?

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Idk if it's just me, but I see a lot of men adding "open relationship" in their tags, like, do you even know what that even mean?! Just a hint. You can't add a "monogamous" tag and add the "open relationship" tag at the same time in your profile. No. It doesn't work that way, sir. Idk. Just google it or chatgpt it first if you dont know what it means, geez. 🙄

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Moving forward

The kind that chooses commitment over convenience, patience over perfection, and genuine intentions over empty words. A love strong enough to cross cultural and social barriers, overcome distance and challenges, and inspire two people to give their all for one another. Perhaps, somewhere in the world, two people still believe in that kind of love, even though they haven’t found each other yet. Maybe, when the time is right, life will quietly bring their paths together.

Does Old fashioned LOVE still exist?

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What the biggest red flag you have seen in the first date?

Hi, all! I was way too overwhelmed the last time that I was here. It didn't help to have learned that my best friend from elementary school died during the middle of it all. I'm one further class down toward my master's degree, though! I only have four classes left!

I'm definitely still looking for a partner of some sort. I have it in mind to leave New Jersey someday. I'm not ready for that now, and I won't be ready for it for a while, but I'm going to get there eventually.

P.S. I'm not into deleting posts to try to curate what people see about me, so even though I was feeling overwhelmed, I'm keeping all my posts up.

I'm back!

She gave me her number like 5 mins later am I still good to try and be with her or should I cut my losses

Saw A Girl asked for her number she couldn’t speak english

The hardest part isn’t finding someone. It’s finding someone who means what they say

I need the men on my feed to settle a debate for me.
Is it actually 'normal' for a guy to go live with a single female friend because she's giving him a ride to a job( no driving license he couldn’t drive his car 
) just because 'she’s like a sister'? Or is my boundary meter working perfectly?

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I need cuddles and kisses so bad rn I miss being touched and loved on fr fr

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🌻He takes responsibility for his words.
When he makes a promise, he keeps it. He doesn't say beautiful things at night only to forget them the next morning. His words carry enough weight for you to trust him every time.
🌻He doesn't run away from problems.
When things get difficult, he stays and talks things through with you instead of disappearing and returning as if nothing happened. He faces problems with courage and works to solve them.
🌻He knows how to apologize.
When he's wrong, he admits it. He doesn't shift the blame onto you until you feel like you're always the one at fault.
🌻He respects your time.
He doesn't leave you waiting without an explanation or disappear expecting you to simply understand. He knows your time is just as valuable as his.
🌻He is genuine.
He doesn't create a perfect image at the beginning only to become someone completely different later. The person you meet is the person he truly is.
🌻He plans a future with you.
He sees you as part of his future instead of just living day by day and letting the relationship drift without direction.
🌻He can control his emotions.
When he's angry, he doesn't take it out on you or use hurtful words. He understands that a moment of frustration should never damage the person he loves.
🌻He's proud to have you in his life.
He doesn't hide you like a secret. He's happy to introduce you to the people around him because he wants them to know you're someone important in his life.
🌻He supports your growth.
He celebrates your success instead of feeling threatened or left behind. He wants to see you thrive just as much as he wants to succeed himself.
🌻He loves you consistently.
Whether you're looking your best or feeling exhausted, he's still there. His love doesn't depend on what you can do for him or what you have to offer.

Choose to love a man, not a boy.

We can grow together, become better people for each other, and support one another. But we should never have to stop respecting ourselves or lose who we are just to make a relationship work.

If you lose your sense of self and your confidence in the process, that's not a healthy love—and that's not what a good partner should ever ask of you

A healthy relationship should never come at the cost of your self-respect.🤗🌻🙏💖

Let them lose you. Let them chase the version of you that they lost. 
Know your worth! 🩷

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Reminder before marriage

Don't force anyone to do something for you.

If they truly want to, they'll do it on their own.

Love is meant to be given freely, not begged for.

TRUE

It’s ironic that exactly one year ago today, I told him I loved him, but today I told him I hate him. 🥲
That’s how feelings change

I don't fall for flirting anymore. I fall for consistency.

Anyone can shower you with attention in the beginning. Anyone can make you feel like you're the only person in the room. The compliments, the long conversations, the excitement—it all feels real until, slowly, it isn't.

What I don't understand is why people create expectations they never intended to maintain.

If you truly like someone, don't make them fall for you with a version of you that only exists for the first few weeks. Be the same person after the butterflies settle. Because while you're just "getting to know someone," the other person might be building trust, lowering their guard, and believing every effort you're making.

Yes, life gets busy. Situations change. Nobody expects perfection.

But inconsistency and lack of effort are different from genuine circumstances.

Sometimes it feels like people stop trying not because they can't, but because they're always wondering if there's someone better waiting around the corner. In a world full of endless options, consistency has become rare.

And that's exactly why it's so attractive.

Because staying, showing up, and choosing the same person every day will always mean more than the loudest words or the sweetest flirting.

The right person won't just make you feel special once—they'll make sure you never have to question where you stand.

Consistency is attractive ❤️❣️

Odio se tan introvertida, insegura y con autoestima súper baja 😓

I hate being so introverted, insecure, and with super low self-esteem 😓

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For me, a long-distance relationship is not an obstacle at all; otherwise, I wouldn't be here. It’s because I want to explore the big wide world and make friends from all over the globe, and more importantly, I want to find my soulmate. I used to date someone who proved to me that long distance or physical separation doesn't matter as much as the feelings between two people. Even though we lived in different countries nearly 10,000 kilometers apart, he made the effort to come and see me. Actions speak louder than words, and he actually did it.

​The important thing is what we choose to prioritize—the hardships, or the desire to see each other's faces; a longing that is greater than any feeling of discouragement. I have already written down my ideal type and most of my personal traits in my profile. So, please read through my information before you consider being my friend or wanting to change our status from friends to something more.

​I don't expect anything more than the mutual love and effort of two people. If you ever feel that it's too difficult or you don't want to take the risk, please do not step beyond the boundary of friendship. I cannot take responsibility for anyone else's feelings. Be honest with yourself. When you are clear with yourself, you will see the destination. But when you lack clarity, don't dive into deep water because you will never know what lies beneath—you might encounter something terrible, or you might find gold. Only you and I can determine that.

​Oh, and by the way, I never mentioned physical appearance anywhere in my profile because I value the heart and mindset within much more than external looks. Thank you for reading this far. I wish everyone—including myself, who is looking for someone genuinely interested in a serious relationship, a like-minded life partner, and someone with equal or greater positive energy—finds each other very soon.💖🤗✨🙏🌻🎁

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For the Men out there

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What Happened To Intention?

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Her pain, my pain...

The biggest lie in dating: "I’m just too busy." 🤫

When she said she likes feeding her man...

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