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Let them lose you. Let them chase the version of you that they lost. 
Know your worth! 🩷

Don’t let them dim your light. 
Shine brighter 🩷

Let this be a reminder for all of us. 
Good morning! 🩷

Because everything I was afraid of happening… happened.

𝐈’𝐦 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐝 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐰. 𝐈𝐟 𝐚 𝐬𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞 ‘𝐇𝐢,  , 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐦𝐞 𝐬𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐞, 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐚 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 ‘𝐇𝐢,’ 𝐨𝐫 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐨𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐲 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐬𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝?” ❤️

I'm sorry, but that's exactly my situation. Write something in the comments that people don't know about you.

You don’t deserve breadcrumbs! 
Never settle for less 🩷

Drop one song in the comments. No cheating, just the last one you listened to on repeat. Let's see if your personality matches the music.

Tell me your favorite song right now;

If cancel so what we do in this case, So that it doesn't seem strange to the other person.

If I ask someone out, but due to personal reasons I have to cancel 2–3 times, would that be seen as a red flag in dating?

We often hear the word unconditional when we’re talking about love.

I have a problem with this word, However, the issue is not what some may think.

The reason I have an issue with this word is because when it comes to relationships, we all have things that we won’t tolerate, we call those boundaries.

In a way, Those are conditions that we set to make it clear as to what we want within a relationship so that it remains stable, safe, and healthy within romantic dynamics.

The only way in which I could see the word unconditional applying is with pets and children. Your parents love you, no matter what. It’s rooted in their identity. You’re their child. A dog will love you until the day it dies, pets don’t keep score. 

Now there are exceptions of bad parents or bad pet owners, but generally, those are the behavioral patterns we’ve come to expect within those dynamics.

I think adult to adult romantic dynamics is a bit more involved.

Adult love is not unconditional, it is conditional by way of reciprocity. It thrives on trust, respect and shared effort. It’s not “I did X, So you give me Y.” The difference is obligation vs choice. Expectation vs generosity.

The key lies within The practice of scorekeeping. When every act of kindness turns into something that is measured. That kind of conditioning reduces love to a ledger.

Healthy conditions that we call boundaries is different. It protects the relationship from turmoil. Conditional through reciprocity just means both parties give freely while maintaining boundaries with no underlying motives. 

This kind of love is something I think most would strive for but Unfortunately, We’ve allowed it to become conditional through expectation, obligatory and not voluntary.

And, that destroys any potential of something worthwhile.

Conditional But Reciprocal

We can grow together, become better people for each other, and support one another. But we should never have to stop respecting ourselves or lose who we are just to make a relationship work.

If you lose your sense of self and your confidence in the process, that's not a healthy love—and that's not what a good partner should ever ask of you

A healthy relationship should never come at the cost of your self-respect.🤗🌻🙏💖

Don't force anyone to do something for you.

If they truly want to, they'll do it on their own.

Love is meant to be given freely, not begged for.

TRUE

Respect is the key to opening the door to dialogue. The principle of reciprocity applies here as well; if you slam the door in someone's face, there will inevitably be a reaction. That is why you should always think before shaking hands with someone else.

RESPECT OR REFLECTION!

Protecting my peace and choosing myself now. 🩷

Because if a man truly loves you, he will make a way to prove that. No matter what. If not, then they don’t deserve the love that you can give.

Another wasted two months 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

Wasted time

Do you want to be my sweetheart 😘?

It’s all about Communication

You’re not too much. You’re just with the wrong person. 

Always remember - you are someone’s dream. 🩷

What's the most Important thing? Honesty or Loyalty? Choose and comment your thought.

I wish someone can look me in the eyes, 
the way he looks at me. ❤

Staaree...

For me, a long-distance relationship is not an obstacle at all; otherwise, I wouldn't be here. It’s because I want to explore the big wide world and make friends from all over the globe, and more importantly, I want to find my soulmate. I used to date someone who proved to me that long distance or physical separation doesn't matter as much as the feelings between two people. Even though we lived in different countries nearly 10,000 kilometers apart, he made the effort to come and see me. Actions speak louder than words, and he actually did it.

​The important thing is what we choose to prioritize—the hardships, or the desire to see each other's faces; a longing that is greater than any feeling of discouragement. I have already written down my ideal type and most of my personal traits in my profile. So, please read through my information before you consider being my friend or wanting to change our status from friends to something more.

​I don't expect anything more than the mutual love and effort of two people. If you ever feel that it's too difficult or you don't want to take the risk, please do not step beyond the boundary of friendship. I cannot take responsibility for anyone else's feelings. Be honest with yourself. When you are clear with yourself, you will see the destination. But when you lack clarity, don't dive into deep water because you will never know what lies beneath—you might encounter something terrible, or you might find gold. Only you and I can determine that.

​Oh, and by the way, I never mentioned physical appearance anywhere in my profile because I value the heart and mindset within much more than external looks. Thank you for reading this far. I wish everyone—including myself, who is looking for someone genuinely interested in a serious relationship, a like-minded life partner, and someone with equal or greater positive energy—finds each other very soon.💖🤗✨🙏🌻🎁

Long Distance Relationship: for me🌍🌎🌏

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Odio se tan introvertida, insegura y con autoestima súper baja 😓

I hate being so introverted, insecure, and with super low self-esteem 😓

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I need cuddles and kisses so bad rn I miss being touched and loved on fr fr

Cuddles and kisses

I live here

🌻He takes responsibility for his words.
When he makes a promise, he keeps it. He doesn't say beautiful things at night only to forget them the next morning. His words carry enough weight for you to trust him every time.
🌻He doesn't run away from problems.
When things get difficult, he stays and talks things through with you instead of disappearing and returning as if nothing happened. He faces problems with courage and works to solve them.
🌻He knows how to apologize.
When he's wrong, he admits it. He doesn't shift the blame onto you until you feel like you're always the one at fault.
🌻He respects your time.
He doesn't leave you waiting without an explanation or disappear expecting you to simply understand. He knows your time is just as valuable as his.
🌻He is genuine.
He doesn't create a perfect image at the beginning only to become someone completely different later. The person you meet is the person he truly is.
🌻He plans a future with you.
He sees you as part of his future instead of just living day by day and letting the relationship drift without direction.
🌻He can control his emotions.
When he's angry, he doesn't take it out on you or use hurtful words. He understands that a moment of frustration should never damage the person he loves.
🌻He's proud to have you in his life.
He doesn't hide you like a secret. He's happy to introduce you to the people around him because he wants them to know you're someone important in his life.
🌻He supports your growth.
He celebrates your success instead of feeling threatened or left behind. He wants to see you thrive just as much as he wants to succeed himself.
🌻He loves you consistently.
Whether you're looking your best or feeling exhausted, he's still there. His love doesn't depend on what you can do for him or what you have to offer.

Choose to love a man, not a boy.

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It’s ironic that exactly one year ago today, I told him I loved him, but today I told him I hate him. 🥲
That’s how feelings change

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Let them lose you. Let them chase the version of you that they lost. Know your worth! 🩷

Don’t let them dim your light. Shine brighter 🩷

Let this be a reminder for all of us. Good morning! 🩷

Because everything I was afraid of happening… happened.

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Her pain, my pain...

The biggest lie in dating: "I’m just too busy." 🤫

When she said she likes feeding her man...

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Divorced couple how did you deal with your divorce especially if you were the one not wanting to get divorced?