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why do people completely change after a month?

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If they lack...

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Cast out line after line, and not one single bite.

Man this is depressing.

What kind excuse do you use when they realize?

What's the best way to ghost someone?

... is for men to start listening to US about what we want, and not to other men who also don't have two sweet clues... 😏

What women want...

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So here's a funny story and I would say 3 weeks time I've talked to 3 different women and I've walked away from all 3 women for the same reason. They did not keep their word. Now I don't know if I'm attracting women who purposely do not keep their word or I'm being tested with being patient and allowing them to not keep the word but still not walk away. I'm not quite sure the lesson that I'm supposed to learn that I'm sure I'm going to repeat again. I'm sure there's going to be another woman that I'm going to talk to and she's not going to keep her word for whatever reason and I'm going to be faced with this dilemma again. I've been racking my brain all night trying to figure this one out. It's bigger than flour or any of the other ones. It's more about me because it's not just those three women that I've walked away. For that reason I've walked away from Reyna. I've walked away from Rebecca all for the same reason. Not keep your word. More importantly, not calling when you say you're going to call and not texting when you say you're going to text and that being the catalyst behind it which then in turn makes me feel rejected so because I feel rejected and ignored. I just was self-sabotage unfortunately and just walk away from it all. I throw out the baby with the basket.

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One day, my cousin’s little son asked me, ‘Bhaiya, what is love? I think I’m in love with a girl from my school.’
So I asked him a simple question: ‘Tell me—what do you feel when you see her, and what do you feel when she’s not around?’
Because somewhere in that answer lies the real difference between attraction and love."

Attraction is when someone makes you smile, feel excited, or curious.
It’s strong, quick, and often based on how someone looks, talks, or behaves.
It’s real, but it’s usually moment-driven—like a school crush.
It feels big, but it doesn’t necessarily stay.

Love, on the other hand, grows quietly.
Love is when you don’t just like someone—you genuinely care about their happiness, even when they’re not with you.
Love has attraction too, but it is built more on respect, patience, comfort, and peace.
In love, you don’t just want the person… you want to become better for them.

So I told that little kid,
"What you feel right now isn’t wrong—it’s just the first chapter of love, not the whole book."
Attraction pulls you towards someone,
but love shapes you into someone better.🫂🤝

Difference between Love and Attraction?

What are your relationship advice?

Just because you don't give up, it doesn't mean you can make it🥲

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Love yourself

It's hard to find your ideal girl on here or someone whose interested what should I do

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What's everyone's thoughts on dating multiple people at the same time? 
Personally, it's a major red flag to me.....

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What killed your feelings for someone you were once madly in love with ? 

Me: being treated like an option and not a priority
You:?????

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Should I stay or walk away? My ex boyfriend just admitted to me that he is still in love with me but he is also love with his girl best friend, who before he met me and fling with but almost a relationship until something f***Ed it up. He isn't ready to date but he doesn't know who he loves more. He would hate for us get back together without him knowing what could happen between them. He keeps saying I'm not a second choice. If she doesn't want to be with him then he got his answer but he wants to figure everything out with her. I can't message him when is around her out f respect. This whole thing is just f***end up and I don't know what to do m I don't want to walk away from him because I love him and I want him back one day but I can't keep dealing with this and waiting for him to figure out who he actually want. I understand the part where he wants to start loving himself and get his life together but everything else hurts so much. I'm so hurt and just torn 😭 I don't want anybody else. I feel like he is my soulmate and no matter how badly I know I need to walk away from him I just can't . There's something about him I can't let go of.

Need help.

Why are people always attracted to the individuals who don't want them? Myself, included. I always fall for the person who doesn't want me back.

Irony? Madness?

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This or nothing 🙌🏻

I find both hard. I mean it's hard to break up with someone without getting hurt. It's also hard to reject someone without the other person getting hurt. So, usually, if I find someone interested in me and I don't like him, I would be giving hints that I don't like him or avoid him. Also, I find breaking up draining, so, I don't enter or start a relationship when I see no future with him. Like if I find a spark with someone but I can't see myself settling down with him, I will distance myself with him to avoid the drama of falling in love and breaking up. I just want us to spare ourselves from getting hurt. Though there are times I regret it, but, thinking of giving or having false hopes, not ending up together, or breaking up... I'd rather swallow myself with loneliness that getting us both hurt. And what makes breaking up or rejecting harder is... I have to make sure the guy won't cling to me. I have experienced wherein I rejected a guy multiple times and he keeps on coming back because he thinks that if I won't like him today, maybe I will like him tomorrow. 🤦🏼‍♀️As much as I don't want him to get hurt. It seems like he doesn't understand. So, I really went to the point of cursing him, blocking him, and praying that we will never cross paths again. It's exhausting to the point that it's already scary.

Which is harder? Breaking Up or Rejecting a Confession

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anyone else?

For all the romantics 💜

Why do cheaters cheat?  Despite having someone loving, caring, and highly valued?😐

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And in the end, not everyone is willing to fight for a relationship. I feel my heart is really hurt and disappointed because of the high expectations I had for someone. Is it really that hard to maintain a relationship?

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Man this is depressing.

How to slow down your heartbeats? Recently I seem to have come across a person who increases its speed... this is not me. I can't do this. Stop it.

I “miss you” season is right around the corner, stay woke ladies! 🖤

"Love is union under the condition of preserving one's integrity." - Erich Fromm

Plenty more fish in the sea? Maybe less than we thought:)

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