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Sometimes we all need this reminder

CONTINUE TO HEAL AND MOVE FORWARD IT MAY NOT LOOK SEEM OR BE EASY BUT LOVE YOURSELF ALWAYS

I have to appreciate there loss

Some people think finding someone special means finding perfection. A face worthy of a magazine cover. They're wrong.

Someone special is the person who chooses to be part of your life.

Not the one who only texts when they're bored.
Not the one who disappears until everyone else ignores them.
Not the one who treats you like a free therapist, dumping their problems on you, then vanishing when they're okay.
Not the one who only remembers your existence when their self-esteem needs a boost.
And definitely not the one acting like they work at Area 51 every time you ask why they can't spare five minutes.

Nobody is that busy.

People make time for what matters. Everything else is just an excuse wrapped in a pretty lie.

And don't be fooled by the people who suddenly reappear the moment you start succeeding. They weren't absent because life got in the way. They were waiting to see if you became worth their attention.

Find the people who stay when you have nothing to offer except yourself. Your time. Your loyalty. Your love. Your presence.

Money comes and goes.
Success comes and goes.
Status comes and goes.

Character doesn't.

People will come.
People will use you.
People will leave.

The rare ones will prove they're different without you having to beg for consistency. Those are the people worth keeping. Everyone else is just a lesson disguised as a blessing.

When you're a priority, You'll Know

Difference between love & ego✨

One day you will look back and think, it was worth the wait.

One day

I think so

What kind of manipulation tactics have you experienced in a relationship that you want to warn others about it?

What the green flag in a perdon that is actually a hidden red flag once you get to know them?

What's your biggest green flag in a relationship? 💚

Your Turn

You’ve got to love me for what I am,
For simply being me,
Don’t love me for what you intend or hope that I will be,
And if you’re only using me to feed your fantasy,
You’re really not in love,
So let me go, I must be free.

Hahaha now that got me singing. Happy Tuesday y’all!

As the song goes-

It’s better for me cause I knew you never loved me

Love ❤️ 😍 💖💫

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To be someone Magnum opus!

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This too shall pass

Jesus Christ this is awesome advice

If you could describe or explain one simple rule that you have when making and maintaining a connection/relationship what would that be?

Connection Requirements

Why men love beautiful women but hate her when they know she's smart 🤓

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Green flag ✅💚LDR: We share moments with each other because we want the other person to know that, no matter what we are doing, we are always thinking of them—even if we are on different continents or on the other side of the world.✨🙏💖🌻🤗

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If you are in relationship and you had very poor communication with your partner,what would you do?

I need the men on my feed to settle a debate for me.
Is it actually 'normal' for a guy to go live with a single female friend because she's giving him a ride to a job( no driving license he couldn’t drive his car 
) just because 'she’s like a sister'? Or is my boundary meter working perfectly?

AskMen

I need cuddles and kisses so bad rn I miss being touched and loved on fr fr

Cuddles and kisses

I don't fall for flirting anymore. I fall for consistency.

Anyone can shower you with attention in the beginning. Anyone can make you feel like you're the only person in the room. The compliments, the long conversations, the excitement—it all feels real until, slowly, it isn't.

What I don't understand is why people create expectations they never intended to maintain.

If you truly like someone, don't make them fall for you with a version of you that only exists for the first few weeks. Be the same person after the butterflies settle. Because while you're just "getting to know someone," the other person might be building trust, lowering their guard, and believing every effort you're making.

Yes, life gets busy. Situations change. Nobody expects perfection.

But inconsistency and lack of effort are different from genuine circumstances.

Sometimes it feels like people stop trying not because they can't, but because they're always wondering if there's someone better waiting around the corner. In a world full of endless options, consistency has become rare.

And that's exactly why it's so attractive.

Because staying, showing up, and choosing the same person every day will always mean more than the loudest words or the sweetest flirting.

The right person won't just make you feel special once—they'll make sure you never have to question where you stand.

Consistency is attractive ❤️❣️

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For me, a long-distance relationship is not an obstacle at all; otherwise, I wouldn't be here. It’s because I want to explore the big wide world and make friends from all over the globe, and more importantly, I want to find my soulmate. I used to date someone who proved to me that long distance or physical separation doesn't matter as much as the feelings between two people. Even though we lived in different countries nearly 10,000 kilometers apart, he made the effort to come and see me. Actions speak louder than words, and he actually did it.

​The important thing is what we choose to prioritize—the hardships, or the desire to see each other's faces; a longing that is greater than any feeling of discouragement. I have already written down my ideal type and most of my personal traits in my profile. So, please read through my information before you consider being my friend or wanting to change our status from friends to something more.

​I don't expect anything more than the mutual love and effort of two people. If you ever feel that it's too difficult or you don't want to take the risk, please do not step beyond the boundary of friendship. I cannot take responsibility for anyone else's feelings. Be honest with yourself. When you are clear with yourself, you will see the destination. But when you lack clarity, don't dive into deep water because you will never know what lies beneath—you might encounter something terrible, or you might find gold. Only you and I can determine that.

​Oh, and by the way, I never mentioned physical appearance anywhere in my profile because I value the heart and mindset within much more than external looks. Thank you for reading this far. I wish everyone—including myself, who is looking for someone genuinely interested in a serious relationship, a like-minded life partner, and someone with equal or greater positive energy—finds each other very soon.💖🤗✨🙏🌻🎁

Long Distance Relationship: for me🌍🌎🌏

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Odio se tan introvertida, insegura y con autoestima súper baja 😓

I hate being so introverted, insecure, and with super low self-esteem 😓

Control Alt Delete

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How you can trust someone? What if you gave a reason to overthink.

Advice??

I just started online dating again a few weeks ago after taking a 6-month break following a 2-year relationship. I’m finding the sheer number of profiles a bit overwhelming, and I’m also running into some mental blocks around the logistics of it all—especially when I come across someone who seems interesting but lives quite far away. Do you have any suggestions for navigating this new dating landscape and avoiding some of the common pitfalls?

Online dating vs Real life dating

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Sometimes we all need this reminder (edited)

I have to appreciate there loss

When you're a priority, You'll Know

Difference between love & ego✨

One day

I think so

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