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Luckily I laugh at everything, but I really wonder what goes on in people’s heads. Also because some use superlove. Also because it's not the only boundary I've written in my bio. But above all: they use coins to do so 🌚

It’s funny, but it also makes you think

Made a top out of a thrifted scarf , thought I looked super cute.

Felt cute 🤷‍♀️

A cute guy who's family oriented, sweet, kinky, nerdy, poly pansexual and someone who's politically left wing- and most importantly- LOCAL? At least within 100 miles??

Does he exist?

I'm finally ready to start dating and seeing other people again... Nothing too serious.

Just... I want to explore a bit.

I got dressed up cute yesterday and went to an event. I talked with a very pretty lady, but didn't work up the courage to exchange info.

Still, it felt good just to know I was out and open to the possibility. Poly is work and that work is hard and healing from bad experiences means opening up to new ones!

Out and About

Dia dificil...

Gostaria de encontrar um casal HM ou MM para uma amizade sincera e/ou relacionamento sério :)

Olá :)

Luna is

Çiftlere tek erkek olurum burada nasıl nasıl çiftlerle eşleşildiğini bilmiyorum

Tek erkek

Hey! 💗✨

Is it possible to find a spontaneous soul here who would like to join us in spending time, traveling, and having fun together?

Trouple

Been wanting to try and start an ENM poly relationship. My wife (hetace) is supportive yet hesitant in this endeavor. I'm not looking to move too quickly, just find somebody to talk to about it. Live in Southern Ontario. We both work and dont have kids but are hoping to in the near future. I'm the cook so dont worry about that😋

Partnered M looking for F

Cosas de cuck

Middle Tennessee couple looking for female that is open minded looking for friendship that could develop into more.

Kitchen Table Poly

I'm just wondering how same sex marriage was legalized before Polygamous marriage 🤔 

The only reason my wife and I can't pursue our dream of filling a planet with our offspring is because it's illegal. 

Why?

How that first but not this?

Do you think you could stay friends with someone you care about when they broke up with you, but they are leaving the ball in your court weather you want to be friends?

Need some perspective

How do y'all share your time between partners and friends? How many of each?

Personally I kind of run a tight ship for now, enough so I couldn't really fit a new partner or free time at the moment although I need either pretty bad. Got involved with too many friends in long games and I'm too stubborn to drop off out of the blue. Probably did this to distract myself from the pain of mono relationships while in love with several people...

Open question - Poly scheduling

Since time and touch are my love languages, I like to do both. Chat with my boo while I paint her. I got you boo

I bring skills

Whoever is seeking for an additional partner in an existing poly relationship in Puerto Rico AREA OESTE let me know. 

Hard age limit 35

I can't tolerate regueton 🤮

Open For Healthy Poly

How many partners do you have?

I’m just wondering if there’s anyone around Red Deer and Innisfail area

Looking for people near me

Feel frew to add you thoughts, and also check our profile and message us if it peaks your interest :3

Pros and cons of polyamorous relationships?

So my partner and I have had a few failed attempts at dating over the last year, both together and separate...we prefer kitchen table becauseits what works best for us but is not a requirement..but they have shown me what I need out of another partner. And I would like honest opinion on what I have on my profile and I will explain the reasonings I have them, ive been told they are unrealistic.

Rules I have for dating new partners
* They must have a stable living situation (bonus points if you can host overnights)
* Must have their own consistent means of transportation 
* Have a stable job of some sort
* (If relevant) have a stable childcare situation 
* (If relevant) the child should be a mostly separate part as I do not want to be in a parental role until the relationship is stable.

My nesting partner has a very low social battery and we dont have space for everyone to be in separate areas.
I was stuck doing all the driving, picking them up and bringing them home, I dont mind once in a while, but it takes its toll.
I cannot sustain paying all my bills and the monetary demands of another, I can help now and then, but until we live together, your bills are yours and mine are mine.
Quite simple, when we go out, my nesting partner and parents are not free daycare.
And finally, I love kids, but I dont want to grow attached to them or them attached to me while we are still figuring how things work and if we are going to work.

Thoughts and comments?

A question for the masses

I’m interested in a relationship with 2 women who are looking for kind, genuine male partner who can provide love and care to both of you equally

Just want a gf to keep me company my bf works a lot it would be mainly solo dating he’s not around a lot he would only be here occasionally

Looking for a gf/3rd

On one hand poly has a potential to have a lot of love in one's life, but on the other hand if you have just a secondary partner who lives elsewhere,  its not enough human contact to meet emotional connection needs. Trying to find a primary partner who poly can be increasingly harder. But you don't want to give up on your secondary partner even though they can't give more time together.

Is poly a double edge sword?

Let’s talk facts + sociology:

Interracial relationships are statistically more common in ethically non-monogamous (ENM) communities than in monogamous ones. Why?

✨ 1. Intentionality > Tradition
ENM folks often reject default norms—including racial and cultural ones. When you're already questioning monogamy, you're more likely to question everything society calls "normal," including who you're “supposed” to date.

🌍 2. Exposure = Opportunity
ENM spaces often overlap with queer, progressive, and alternative communities—groups that are more racially diverse and socially integrated. That means more cross-cultural connections, both socially and romantically.

💬 3. Communication Culture
ENM relies heavily on consent, boundaries, and emotional labor. These skills make it easier to navigate the unique dynamics of interracial relationships, including discussions around race, privilege, and cultural difference.

🧩 4. Less Pressure to Be “The One”
Without the need to find one partner who meets every social and familial expectation, people often feel freer to connect based on values and chemistry—across racial lines.

📊 Studies back it up: People in open relationships show higher rates of racial diversity in their partner choices compared to monogamous counterparts.

🔄 Your turn: Have you noticed this in your circles? Does non-monogamy shift how you think about dating across cultures?

🖤 Why Are Interracial Relationships More Common in Ethical Non-Monogamy? 🧠

So the real question would ya rather be Invisigal or Blonde Blazer in this situation

Definitely Goals

My fiance and I have recently decided to open our relationship to a third person.  We have been open to it for years, but our match has eluded us.  Now we are actively looking and her family is in an uproar.  She was married to a woman for over 10 years before they divorced, but she has now been with me for over 15 years.  It isn't like being with a man for a long time made her not miss being with a woman.  So instead of her stepping out on me, we just decided to share a girlfriendif we can ever find one that can handle us.  The concept of a thrupple isn't new.  There have been many successful, stable, multiperson relationships.  With love and trust mixed with open honest communication, it doesn't matter if there are 2 or 3.  Maybe even 4 or 5.... As long as everyone is an equal part, why does it matter to anyone else?  We hope we eventually find our missing puzzle piece and we also hope you all find what you are looking for.

What is so hard to understand?

Old friends? On and off relations? A new flame? A coworker? How did you end up meeting the ones who joined your polycule? How difficult was it to get them to swallow the idea of polyamory or were they already amenable to the idea? How do your families take to the idea? Just seeing what people have to say.

How did you meet the third in your thruples?

I'm looking to meet new people in the poly community near me. It's kind of hard to put myself out there physically because I'm shy so if anyone else is willing to talk to me hmu

East Washington State

Me and my wife are trying to find someone to join but its so hard can anyone give us any ideas how we can find someone

Is it a particular hobby, mannerisms, intelligence and so on. Im curious if there is a common thread besides open communication.

What attracts you the most with new potential partners?

I need friends in our community to talk to and swap stories that only we would understand. I'm not even looking to date, I'm set, but friends? Get over here! 😅😁

Polyam Pals

Look for Prince Charming to rescue you now
Wanting The One to just take a bow
Kissing a stud or is it a toad
Someone to keep or to send on the road 
Against loneliness, properly raged
It's hard to see that love isn't caged
Expecting that one will be all you see
Why stop at one? Try two and try three
Each one is different and playing a role
Giving the love and filling a hole
Time is quite precious when giving for free
The time set for you, the time set for me
Ninety percent of all stress is now gone 
A new day is coming, the breaking of dawn
Open and honest respecting each other
Giving of space so love doesn't smother
In order to love, avoiding the worst
Be sure you've spent time to love yourself first

Love isn't Caged

I love hearing people's stories! What were your first dates like?(yes, after you realized you were poly)

First dates

My wife and I are new to being poly and want to meet someone what advice would you give us?

A Boo community for meeting other Polyamory enthusiasts.

Polyamory Community

It’s funny, but it also makes you think

Felt cute 🤷‍♀️

Does he exist?

Out and About

Dia dificil...

Olá :)

Hey Polies Let's chat why you're here and how it is polyamory and not monogamy?

Best advice I got from family and friends (bcs I'm the youngest one in both my Dad and Mom sides) : The world is getting crazy. Never getting married without a prenup. If he, or she marry you with good intentions, they will have no issue with a prenup before the wedding.

Polyamory

Polyamory vs Monogamy

Do you think anxious people turn to polyamory so they can balance it out by having 5 avoidant partners at the same time?

Open marriage / Polyamory