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What do you do when someone tries to match with you but they have monogamous in their profile (Especially when you have polyamorous in yours, and it's in your non-negotiable)?

What do you do when...

With no shame to anybody, it feels very odd being poly but also not being, say, very active in kink or in some kind of political extremism. I feel like the odd duckling. I don't need those kinds of things in my life necessarily, but also I just like people too much to be mono.

Does this resonate with anybody? Again, not knocking anybody's interests.

Poly but fairly tame in Seattle

We haven't been on here lately because we met a woman a while back. We both like her but aren't sure how to ask if she'd be interested in a poly ship with us.she likes us, possibly liking Jenny more than me (which I'm fine with) and she supports the LGBT+ community, but she isn't great at giving straight answers when we hint at dating her. I don't think she's doing it as a dodge, she does that with any conversation lol

Any tips?

Seeking advice

Made a top out of a thrifted scarf , thought I looked super cute.

Felt cute 🤷‍♀️

Gostaria de encontrar um casal HM ou MM para uma amizade sincera e/ou relacionamento sério :)

Olá :)

Looking for partners preferably female or non-binary please read my bio 💕😁

Been a while, but just to update:

We had our third kid in October and have been focusing on him.

We also made a new friend who's fun to be around.

I've also been working on some new puppets and drawings while Jenny's been trying to get some crochet projects done.

We are still interested in starting a polyamorous relationship if any women are interested 🙂 if not, that's fine, but if so, feel free to leave a comment telling us about yourself 😊

Back again 😊

Hello.. i am looking for cuckqueen for a lifelong relationship.

Looking for...

A cute guy who's family oriented, sweet, kinky, nerdy, poly pansexual and someone who's politically left wing- and most importantly- LOCAL? At least within 100 miles??

Does he exist?

I'm finally ready to start dating and seeing other people again... Nothing too serious.

Just... I want to explore a bit.

I got dressed up cute yesterday and went to an event. I talked with a very pretty lady, but didn't work up the courage to exchange info.

Still, it felt good just to know I was out and open to the possibility. Poly is work and that work is hard and healing from bad experiences means opening up to new ones!

Out and About

Luckily I laugh at everything, but I really wonder what goes on in people’s heads. Also because some use superlove. Also because it's not the only boundary I've written in my bio. But above all: they use coins to do so 🌚

It’s funny, but it also makes you think

Poliamor es mucho más que tener veias parejas

Hay gente de Santiago de Chile interesada en poliamor ?

Santiago 👀

Where are the interesting people at 🤨

I'm just wondering how same sex marriage was legalized before Polygamous marriage 🤔 

The only reason my wife and I can't pursue our dream of filling a planet with our offspring is because it's illegal. 

Why?

How that first but not this?

Entre conexão, respeito e intensidade… nós dois seguimos abertos para viver algo real com alguém que combine com nossa energia.

Poliamor

Dia dificil...

Do you think you could stay friends with someone you care about when they broke up with you, but they are leaving the ball in your court weather you want to be friends?

Need some perspective

Since time and touch are my love languages, I like to do both. Chat with my boo while I paint her. I got you boo

I bring skills

Whoever is seeking for an additional partner in an existing poly relationship in Puerto Rico AREA OESTE let me know. 

Hard age limit 35

I can't tolerate regueton 🤮

Open For Healthy Poly

How many partners do you have?

Luna is

I’m just wondering if there’s anyone around Red Deer and Innisfail area

Looking for people near me

Feel frew to add you thoughts, and also check our profile and message us if it peaks your interest :3

Pros and cons of polyamorous relationships?

So my partner and I have had a few failed attempts at dating over the last year, both together and separate...we prefer kitchen table becauseits what works best for us but is not a requirement..but they have shown me what I need out of another partner. And I would like honest opinion on what I have on my profile and I will explain the reasonings I have them, ive been told they are unrealistic.

Rules I have for dating new partners
* They must have a stable living situation (bonus points if you can host overnights)
* Must have their own consistent means of transportation 
* Have a stable job of some sort
* (If relevant) have a stable childcare situation 
* (If relevant) the child should be a mostly separate part as I do not want to be in a parental role until the relationship is stable.

My nesting partner has a very low social battery and we dont have space for everyone to be in separate areas.
I was stuck doing all the driving, picking them up and bringing them home, I dont mind once in a while, but it takes its toll.
I cannot sustain paying all my bills and the monetary demands of another, I can help now and then, but until we live together, your bills are yours and mine are mine.
Quite simple, when we go out, my nesting partner and parents are not free daycare.
And finally, I love kids, but I dont want to grow attached to them or them attached to me while we are still figuring how things work and if we are going to work.

Thoughts and comments?

A question for the masses

I’m interested in a relationship with 2 women who are looking for kind, genuine male partner who can provide love and care to both of you equally

Just want a gf to keep me company my bf works a lot it would be mainly solo dating he’s not around a lot he would only be here occasionally

Looking for a gf/3rd

Hey! 💗✨

Is it possible to find a spontaneous soul here who would like to join us in spending time, traveling, and having fun together?

Trouple

On one hand poly has a potential to have a lot of love in one's life, but on the other hand if you have just a secondary partner who lives elsewhere,  its not enough human contact to meet emotional connection needs. Trying to find a primary partner who poly can be increasingly harder. But you don't want to give up on your secondary partner even though they can't give more time together.

Is poly a double edge sword?

Let’s talk facts + sociology:

Interracial relationships are statistically more common in ethically non-monogamous (ENM) communities than in monogamous ones. Why?

✨ 1. Intentionality > Tradition
ENM folks often reject default norms—including racial and cultural ones. When you're already questioning monogamy, you're more likely to question everything society calls "normal," including who you're “supposed” to date.

🌍 2. Exposure = Opportunity
ENM spaces often overlap with queer, progressive, and alternative communities—groups that are more racially diverse and socially integrated. That means more cross-cultural connections, both socially and romantically.

💬 3. Communication Culture
ENM relies heavily on consent, boundaries, and emotional labor. These skills make it easier to navigate the unique dynamics of interracial relationships, including discussions around race, privilege, and cultural difference.

🧩 4. Less Pressure to Be “The One”
Without the need to find one partner who meets every social and familial expectation, people often feel freer to connect based on values and chemistry—across racial lines.

📊 Studies back it up: People in open relationships show higher rates of racial diversity in their partner choices compared to monogamous counterparts.

🔄 Your turn: Have you noticed this in your circles? Does non-monogamy shift how you think about dating across cultures?

🖤 Why Are Interracial Relationships More Common in Ethical Non-Monogamy? 🧠

My fiance and I have recently decided to open our relationship to a third person.  We have been open to it for years, but our match has eluded us.  Now we are actively looking and her family is in an uproar.  She was married to a woman for over 10 years before they divorced, but she has now been with me for over 15 years.  It isn't like being with a man for a long time made her not miss being with a woman.  So instead of her stepping out on me, we just decided to share a girlfriendif we can ever find one that can handle us.  The concept of a thrupple isn't new.  There have been many successful, stable, multiperson relationships.  With love and trust mixed with open honest communication, it doesn't matter if there are 2 or 3.  Maybe even 4 or 5.... As long as everyone is an equal part, why does it matter to anyone else?  We hope we eventually find our missing puzzle piece and we also hope you all find what you are looking for.

What is so hard to understand?

Old friends? On and off relations? A new flame? A coworker? How did you end up meeting the ones who joined your polycule? How difficult was it to get them to swallow the idea of polyamory or were they already amenable to the idea? How do your families take to the idea? Just seeing what people have to say.

How did you meet the third in your thruples?

Me and my wife are trying to find someone to join but its so hard can anyone give us any ideas how we can find someone

Is it a particular hobby, mannerisms, intelligence and so on. Im curious if there is a common thread besides open communication.

What attracts you the most with new potential partners?

I need friends in our community to talk to and swap stories that only we would understand. I'm not even looking to date, I'm set, but friends? Get over here! 😅😁

Polyam Pals

A Boo community for meeting other Polyamory enthusiasts.

Polyamory Community

Me being me

What do you do when...

Hi

Poly but fairly tame in Seattle

Seeking advice

Felt cute 🤷‍♀️

What do you think about polyamory?

Hey Polies Let's chat why you're here and how it is polyamory and not monogamy?

Polyamory

Do you think anxious people turn to polyamory so they can balance it out by having 5 avoidant partners at the same time?

Open marriage / Polyamory

Curious