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🥺 am I cute or what? 
Been feeling self conscious lately and could use the mood boost! 

Preferred Pronouns they\them plz.

Fishing for compliments! 🎣

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Glad to see a site support like minded individuals

Show me your beautiful and loving poly selves! Post a selfie and share a compliment to boost someone’s day!!

Poly Selfie Thread

Still hoping people know this part about me when they like me on here, cuz I want it to be out there, and it's not a negotiation

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Finding someone on a dating platform to be a part of a closed poly relationship has proven to be nearly impossible.  Here's what our experience has been

1 girl wants to experience a fantasy-not sure about long term
2 girl only interested in me/or my partner
3 girl has never tried it but is curious but unsure
4 girl wants to be poly but is never available to meet 
5 girl wants to get to know us,  takes 3-5 business  days to respond

It's proven way more difficult to find someone that meets our vibe then it is to find someone that wants a fantasy.

Are there even poly girls in south africa? Lol

Navigating poly relationships

Surprising to find so much difficulty building a family on this lifestyle. What's interesting is there seems to be no shortage of folks you can find that wish to be unethicle, or malicious in achieving romantic sexual goals. But when one openly explores relationships outside of a marriage all the sudden the opposing sex has issues with it. They don't care if you treat your current wife like dirt, if you play victim and act like they are the savior. No tell this aspiring new lover you actually care for your spouse, a d will or could equally care for them and there needs and all the sudden they have zero interest in you. I do t know if women feel this same struggle I. This lifestyle or if it's just me but god certainly hasn't placed me or my family in a path with the correct women persons to build our community with.

Lost Soul

Poly in WV / OH area

What's the difference between Polyamrous and Open relationship? 😅

2+1 for real fun

Beach daze

How do you get over love lost?

I feel Co is the least poly state but I haven't been really anywhere else since I moved to this country

Any poly people in the northern Colorado area?

Respect to poly people. I'd be afraid of STDs, being third wheel, and potentially getting stuck with buddy that don't wash they ass. All is well until all three of y'all start cuddling and you get a hint of asparagus and onions

Brave

.. a much better chance of it occurring than in monogamous pursuits. 

Just sayin'.

Opinions, or experiences?

Not always true, but

I want to be in a poly relationship, looking for a woman who is as chaotic and dark and gothic mommy. I'll be your good girl.

Hey guys

When it comes to dating in this lifestyle, it can make us feel a type of way but it's best to not give up

Where are my fellow polyamorus people at? I need new people to talk to and relate to, I'm autistic with some damags to my brain since birth and I also have a huge phobia of abandonment and rejection and extremely fragile and easily breakable emotions that I can't control sometimes, I hope y'all understand where I'm coming from

Need new people to talk to

Date night

Ok so I’m asexual and married.  My wife has a boyfriend in another state.  So we still live together.  I’m guessing if I did want a girlfriend, they should be asexual( a must) and poly?  I just think it would work better.

Question to the poly’s

Hello lovely individuals, 

I'm just posting here because I'm finding it very difficult to make connections to poly people. 

Do any of ye have some advice on how I can find more people to join the polycule or even just make some friends.

I appreciate any advice or criticism.

Thank you, 

Regent

Struggling to find partners

I imagine a poly relationship ending when someone gets voted out of the group, like survivor

Survivor

Polyamorous and bassed in London, would love to meet more people and see where it goes.

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We wanna chill hoping for more trans masc or masc nb vibes but also ok with cis guys too :) we aren't very sexual so don't hit me up if that's what ur lkn for

Lookin for poly smkrs

Hi. I'm new to polyamoury. Here's a poem I wrote for my Wife of 13 years, shortly after we made went poly!.. it's called Nest.

NEST

A single moment can make you forget the simple things...

The primary colours
Which ones mix together
to make the secondary ones...

It's time to experiment...

As my son is discovering all the wonders
Of sound, shadow, shapes and shades
I'm reflecting on my younger days...

Remembering all the first times...

The thrill of the chase
Holding hands
Kissing in the rain
Diving right in to love
Not knowing how deep it goes
or what it all means
Just jumping right in
With no storyline in mind...

Now I've written a book
Memorised every single line
Drafted and edited every page
A thousand times....

Yet here I sit, lost at sea
Feeling sort of aquamarine
Not quite sure what I'm supposed to do
I just meditate to the midnight blue
With faith this ain't me losing you...

I'm hanging on to every syllable you gift
Coz you've just revealed the plot twist
Whilst i'm stuck on the first page
Scouring the waves for new words...

How can I keep this under wraps
When all I want to do is shout it loud
Standing proud on the bow of the ship
With open arms, no fear of the backlash.

Shipmate, I want to see you flourish
To be the epitome of happiness
For you deserve all the joy there is
And so do I....

So let's fly the crow's nest
Unfurl each other's wings
Give our blessings to let them soar
And feel the warmth of the sun's rays
On every feather...

We're strengthening our masts:
Love, respect, communication, trust...

Safe in the knowledge we always reunite
With brand new ways to reignite the zest
We slowly lift our heads above the crest
As you place yours gently on my chest...

Then we anchor down to get some rest...

In our perfect little imperfect primary nest.

Poly poem I wrote

Been on the app lurking in the shadows now it's time to say hello to the community!!

Hello all!

Hey new poly couple here. Any advice from those who have been in the lifestyle for a while? We are really excited to meet new people but want to know if there are any pitfalls to avoid. Thank you and I hope everyone has an amazing day!!!

Introduction to Poly

To vibe with and be friends , see where things go if ur down, mostly want like minded people to chill with

Looking for other polyam folks

My gf is bi, I'm hetero. 
It's so obnoxiously hard to find a unicorn. 
Neither myself or gf are looking to date other people ourselves. But we are looking for a life partner to take over the world with. 

Are we weird for wanting to be a throuple? 
We're interested in finding a woman who fits us and can maybe move in with us on our fairly decent plot of land and be all homey and cuddly with. Have a few kids and just be comfortable in this hellish world scape. 🙃 I know I'm not a 10 in looks. But am I crazy? Is it possible to find this 🦄? 
Who knows but it can't hurt to post this in poly and see if any crazy ppl know someone who would be interested 😆 here's for trying!

Where are the unicorns!

A Boo community for meeting other Poly enthusiasts.

Poly Community

Fishing for compliments! 🎣

💕🖤

Glad to see a site support like minded individuals

Poly Selfie Thread

Still hoping people know this part about me when they like me on here, cuz I want it to be out there, and it's not a negotiation

😭😭

Who is in an open or poly relationship out there?

Why do people choose open relationships?

My relationship...

I wished I could control who is allowed to send me messages and likes...

If I wanted to be with a guy who I wanted him to be okay with me cheating, I would get into a poly “fakelationship”. 😂

Being Poly on Dating Apps is Hard!