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Gemini

Hello world!

Hello peoples. Reddit said there was a good ace-spec community here so I wanted to hop over to have a look for myself. Hope we're all doing well. :) I'm 34, cis male, from the UK, and I float somewhere in between gay and asexual (probably anegosexual). Houseplants, cats, piano, linguistics, languages and low-level techiness are my favourite things.

#sexuality

Eng. Zorz

24d

Capricorn

6w7

Before the big match

This is the type of attaction.

#sexuality

Jennifer

1mo

4w5

Public figure

I put myself out there. I will not be afraid to express who I am. Or wear what i want. (within reason in public space because, kids and consent). I am not ashamed of who I am or what communities I am a part of. I want someone who isn’t ashamed to walk by my side.

#sexuality

1mo

7w6

😮

Edit: 😂😂😂 at all the men who are feeling personally attacked, is this not telling of what even the implication of ‘gay’ for yourself implies?

#sexuality

Jennifer

1mo

4w5

Me

This is my profile on Fetlife

Image: Toy gray tiger kitten on rainbow surrounded by pink fluff.
Words: GrayTigerKitty 47F in an open relationship

#sexuality

Stormy

1mo

Sagittarius

Femboys

Just an appreciation post for the femboys out there.😍

#sexuality

Jonathan

1mo

4w5

Puras lagrimas

Llegan a reclamar en ocaciones

#sexuality

2mo

7w6

When did you begin to realize you were demisexual or sapiosexual?

#sexuality

Erica

3mo

6w7

Curious

Would you date someone that isn't straight, but you are straight? 🤔

#sexuality

Matheo

2mo

Gay 🔥

#sexuality

Serjo

2mo

ENTP

2w3

What do you think about Demisexual?

I’ve heard about both sides. What do you think about?

{"options":[{"text":"It’s valid","numVotes":22},{"text":"It’s not valid","numVotes":4},{"text":"Demi Lovato?","numVotes":6},{"text":"I have just searched and I think I’m too now 🫠","numVotes":4}]}

It’s valid

61%

It’s not valid

11%

Demi Lovato?

17%

I have just searched and I think I’m too now 🫠

11%

36 votes

#sexuality

Moshe

3mo

4w5

Religion and Sexuality

In the religion I grew up in, sexuality was very repressed, and expressing it openly in any way was forbidden. What do you think about this topic? I think for the most part religion has created a lot of unnecessary shame around this important part of life.

#sexuality

Prantak Singh

3mo

ESFJ

1w2

watch or do?

{"options":[{"text":"watch","numVotes":4},{"text":"do","numVotes":13}]}

watch

24%

76%

17 votes

#sexuality

Samson

4mo

ESFP

Sagittarius

Night love

#sexuality

6mo

7w6

Can we talk about being feminine and masculine?

How are you even defining these words? Is it based on what’s socially associated more with women and men? Do any guys claim to be more feminine dudes? And any women more masculine females? Do you think in the best friendships and/or relationships there is a balance of feminine and masculine energy no matter the sexes?

#sexuality

Yılmaz

6mo

Aquarius

7w6

Okay

#sexuality

Rodrick

7mo

ISTJ

Capricorn

:-)

A 14yr old boy ran into his house yelling "mom mom come quick, I have great news!" The mother asked "what is it, what's so exciting!" "I had sex for the first time today!" replied the boy The mother gasped, raised her hand and slapped the boy across the face. "get up to your room and stay ther until your father gets home!!" yelled the mother. An hour later the boys father arrived home, got the update from the mother and went upstairs to talk to the boy. "So I hear you had sex for the first time today" said the father "Your mother is upset, but I think this is something for a father and son to celebrate! What do you say we go and get you that motor-bike you've been asking for?" "wow, answered the boy, "But do you think we can wait until tomorrow, my ass is still killing me!!"

#sexuality

8mo

7w6

Sapiosexuals/Demisexuals

Let’s connect, I need more of my kind in my life plzzz. I can’t have one more rusty convo/connection that’s killing my soul. 💀

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#life

Devin

ESTJ

Gemini

8w9

What are some ideas that someone may use to define themselves and can be worked on or explored in the physical...

Some examples are looks, sexuality, but I want more that I can independently study

#relationship

Richard Phoenix

5w4

Huge red flag for me expecting attraction without commitment

One of the biggest red flags for me in any getting to know each other situation is expecting me to become attracted without any commitment whatsoever I have no ability of doing such a thing being as my sexuality being demisexual but so many people expect me to be open and ready to be attracted to...

#romance

Renaud

18d

8w7

Have you ever seriously questioned your sexuality and whether it was different from what you first...

#boo

𝐑𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐲 👀

21d

9w1

Sexuality Should Be Optional to Display on Profiles 🙆🏽‍♀️

And search or be shown to when matching. I would love to be friends with others on the same sexuality spectrum as me. 🖤🤍💜

#books

Kaila

15d

6w7

Bridgerton books got me fvcked up rn 😅

My sexuality is fictional men, preferably written by women………..do I find that on Amazon or 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

#friends

Rashida

25d

9w1

In Search of Friends

All genders and sexuality is welcomed! I don’t mind religions as long as you don’t try to push your beliefs on me! If you like Anime Horror Movies ( especially possessions ) Pokémon Disney Marvel KDramas BlackPink Sims Animal Crossing Aliens 420 Friendly ( if not that’s okay too ) And/or Also...

#funny

Devin

ESTJ

Gemini

8w9

Hims and hers projecting gender stereotypes

Anyone ever see the commercials? The hims commercials advertise ED, sexuality, and confidence The Hers commericals advertise mental health, anxiety, and instability This is funny and messed up as it just projects negative stereotypes that all men care about us sex and all women are mentally...

#art

Sergio

14d

Soares dos Reis museum 🇵🇹

This type of art shows the unconceiius of the painter, this one it's my favorite, cause we can take a lot of diferent opinions about this! Phycological speaking, what do you think about this painting? What was the thoughts of the painter? Depression, sexuality issues, dreams, traumas????? Let's...

#bisexual

1mo

ESFP

3w4

Happy bisexual visibility month

September is Bisexual Visibility Month! Bisexual folks are a huge part of the LGBTQ+ community, but unfortunately often experience erasure. This month (and all the time), remember: Bisexual people’s orientation and sexuality are real and valid. A bisexual person in a relationship with a...

#gay

Alex

11d

7w8

Viennese Handman's Tale

For all the others that cannot live their sexuality freely, season 6 of the Viennese Handman's Tale is for you:

#lgbt

Maze

1mo

Pansexual and journey

Throughout my life I have experienced trauma with both male and females though I have more experience with males due to proximity in my experience. I would run into is women not being with me because I lack the experience. The females interactions I had in life was a moment not a choice( when I...

#poetry

Ian

1mo

2w1

Poem entitled Me

Back when I fully came to accept my sexuality for what it is, I wrote a 100 stanza poem entitled Me. These are the first 24 lines of it. Let me know if people would like the rest, or even the other poems I have written.

#psychology

Dex

1mo

Pisces

Why boys?

A very common concept I see with women, even those who are practically Femcels, if given the choice of having a single child(or their first); want boys. Why?? We live in a world where more and more men are lonely and becoming obsolete in a social sense: Beyond the necessity of being a hard...

#lgbtq

Brooke

1mo

Sometimes explanation don't get you much.

Trying to explain pronouns and Cis to religious is a hard thing I swear. Or to women who feel they are being erased "having" to go by Cis. I'm like first of all you don't have to, its just to help identify, which y'all have no issue doing to us (LGBTQ+). Like nobody is trying to erase you, I think...

#sex

Renaud

1mo

8w7

Have you ever seriously questioned your sexuality and whether it was different from what you first...

#drawing

Kane

1mo

ISTJ

1w2

My Non-Binary OC, Blaze

Meet Blaze: Full name: Blaze Rivers Gender: Non binary Pronouns: They/Them Sexuality and romantic attraction: Androsexual (a person who is attracted to men. Most commonly used by non binary people) and Minromantic (attracted to masculinity). Height: 186cm (6'1") Relationship status:...

#feminism

Kwaku Anansi

1mo

2w1

The Manosphere/Red Pill and Liberal Feminism are two sides of the same coin.

The Manoshphere/Red Pill: “Avoid early marriage; work hard at staying in shape; focus on your career goals; earn lots of money. And, most startlingly of all: neuter yourself in your twenties. A high-value male, then, is a rich, workaholic, commitment-phobic gym-rat who can’t give you...

#philosophy

SingleMom_Meg

1mo

ENTP

Pisces

8w7

{"100":1}

1 Award

Modern Philosophy on Love

Leave it to a pop star to introduce me to deep philosophy on the modern world. I've been thinking these things for a while but this author has thought things out way better than me. I feel overhwelmed with thoughts after this book. While I agree with him on previous thoughts, he has also changed my...

#ddlg

Contritum

1mo

I know it's a bit cheesy😅

I just wanted to say, and I don't know who needs to hear it- But their out there. And most of all remember our past mistakes don't define our future. Don't settle for less, or change yourself trying to be accepted. There are still some people who don't believe sexuality to be the most...

#tarot

♠️Dana♦️

1mo

ISFJ

8w7

♠️card of the day ☕

Lack of sexuality, passion. Better not to talk much, especially about someone's secrets. Pay attention to intuition, dreams.

#romance

Jithus

1mo

Your sexuality is God's love letter to you.. a miracle of biological engineering that could have been devised only by a...

#sexology

Has

1mo

ESFJ

1w2

What sexologist say

Don't be afraid. Don't be ashamed. Don't ever apologize for your sexuality. Just be you.

#mentalhealth

Dalton

2mo

4w5

Religious trauma

Does anyone here deal with religious trauma? I grew up in a very strict church that gave me several issues I still face. I still live in a really religious area so I dont have many friends outside therapy that I feel I can talk about this with. Mostly I struggle with always finding a reason to...

#kink

Kaushik

1mo

5w4

West is Wasted in both Masculine and feminine aspects

Women in the West and Indian women who carry western mindset don't understand Art of Domination, really well, they think it's all about replicating sexual behavior that is shown short films, graphic novels, manga etc. Sexuality should be from within, it should be natural. Which western people can...

#books

Kwaku Anansi

2mo

2w1

One of the wittiest line I’ve ever read.

‘You’re only a rebel from the waist downwards,’ he told her. - 1984 Part 2 Chapter 5 In context this line had me laughing out loud because Winston was dead on the money. Your sexuality is anarchist but you just as conformist as everyone else.

#kink

2mo

ENTP

Aquarius

4w5

Unveiling The Secrets of Symphorophilia Can Be A Disaster

we are back with another exploration into a unique and lesser-known paraphilia (check out more here) the one we are going to look at is known as Symphorophilia. This is what you get for hanging around on Fetlife and seeing people’s intriguing fetishes come up as this one did today it delves into...

#relationshipadvice

Majon

2mo

Capricorn

Sexuality

Doesn't matter what your gender is or who you identify as as long as you are happy with yourself and those around you. Peoples thoughts and opinions of you are irrelevant because you're living for yourself and not them, yea theirs those who breathe hate but you'll always have people in your corner...

#romance

Subin

2mo

Pisces

2w1

Almost every woman i have ever met has a secret belief that she is just on the edge of madness, that there is some...

#love #relationshipadvice #love #music #romance

#romance

Mary

2mo

Sagittarius

6w7

😔

I mean I struggle with my sexuality. I'm so CONFUSED.

#lgbt

Fendi

2mo

My Identity, Sexuality, Childhood And Ongoing DA, I Require My Independence, Own Space And Privacy, I Wish To Also...

I was born Female and attracted to only girls, I came out as Lesbian when I was 6, I dressed and had my hair shaved to look Masc like a boy, I got badly bullied for it throughout nursery, primary and secondary school and my parents and family always DA'd me for it, when I turned 10 I started to...

#mentalhealthawareness

Nadelia

3mo

Aquarius

We all are fighting a battle that never seems to end and we feel like we are never winning any of those...

They say you are never alone but it sometimes sure feels like it. Everyone is going through a struggle regardless of gender, race, sexuality, etc... Just know you are not alone and someone is there to listen.

#lgbt

Erica

3mo

6w7

Don't Be Shy 💖

As I am a LGBTQ+ positive person and this is strictly a safe space. What Is your sexuality? If you don't feel comfortable coming out there will of course be that option as well. Hopefully people can create a positive outlet on this post. Because we all need someone to talk to that understands us....

{"options":[{"text":"Heterosexual","numVotes":17},{"text":"Lesbian","numVotes":15},{"text":"Gay","numVotes":12},{"text":"Bisexual","numVotes":22},{"text":"Queer","numVotes":2},{"text":"Asexual","numVotes":3},{"text":"Pansexual","numVotes":10},{"text":"Polysexual","numVotes":0},{"text":"Demisexual","numVotes":11},{"text":"I have not come out yet","numVotes":2}]}

Heterosexual

18%

Lesbian

16%

Gay

13%

Bisexual

23%

Queer

Asexual

Pansexual

11%

Polysexual

Demisexual

12%

I have not come out yet

94 votes

#anime

Calyx

3mo

5w4

Given edit

Happy Last of Pride everyone... don't ever be ashamed of your sexuality. You are appreciated and loved.

#thoughts

ℜ𝔞𝔤𝔢 👸🏾

3mo