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All women this or all men that…

I chuckle and remember these people aren’t here to date…

They are here to hate.

Poor hurting souls.

 Othering another is the act of othering self.

Whenever I see a post thats

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That bullying over race, religion, class, gender, sexual orintation, weight….

AND MENTAL/PHYSICAL HEALTH

Are all the same level of harmful to humans? 

Cause like… I am so tired of seeing people feeling entitled to telling people struggling to stfu and sit alone until the pain passes….

Thats not how pain works in so many cases. 

And real talk… people being silent about their very real struggles is how systemic abuses based on those other things are maintained. 🤷‍♀️

Can’t think positive out of ableist environments and they are part of the equation.

Be a better one. 

Watch the pulled linch pin build a better world. 

#mentalhealth #humanrights #selflove

Can someone please acknowledge

Is the evidence that proves a person is not seeking connection outside or inside of self.

After all, nothing grows without some sort of sh!t to sit in. Lmao

Accountability is the fertalizer baby!

The avoidance of accountability for impact of self

Me, a neurodivergent: Um Nope. You can check your discomfort for different in the same place you do the privliges of a system that keeps minorities from meeting basic needs. 

Socially, colonials have no right to control.

I mean the people upholding the same belief sets are now known as the kkk/alt right… why would anyone validate/join their narrative? There is no way for anyone to be the same. 

Its bad enough they puppet people for income in corporate voids draining the whole planet for a sparse few’s limitless luxury. 

Accept differences. Not causing you harm? Learn to understand why its helping another.

And don’t you dare come at me with the narrative that it was your intention to help someone while actively choosing oppression and shame of their natural differences that hurt no one.

Society: if you’re different from whyte colonial society, you have to compromise your identity.

I have stronger opinions but this is also true

Tell me your unpopular opinion about anything, I'll answer with one for each!

After a while I'll stop telling you my chronic illness isn't going anywhere and that a flare is happening atm and instead I'll advise you to Google it Because im tired of explaining

This is so exhausting

Makes me chuckle cause you know they have wifi to conduct business. Those new fancy pads with cubes sure aren’t more cost effective connected to individual service. 

At the same time, I support it. Really into being with the people I am with. Sure I use my phone for fact checks etc but the concept of talking to eachother or trying to connect with someone not present seems to skip right by the point of being there at all. 

That is not to say that when I am in the company of a group for extended period that I won’t use my phone for commecting with people outside of that experience. Just to say that precense is for connecting.

Found this in a coffee house today.

I think a lot of people think that their privileges are rights. When their rights allow them to have privileges

Rights verses privileges

Its because you’re not mature enough to accept differences.

People blocking others over music opinions… like seriously, no one can connect when people block anyone that doesn’t match their belief sets entirely. 

Leave people alone. Learn to see things you don’t agree with. Handle the internal conflict that not everyone will agree with you. This is health. Not avoidance and blocking. Just speaks to how little you share your own differences out of fear of the same treatement.

If you’re blocking everyone that has a different perspective

Anime is better than most movies and reality shows now a days. Mostly due to the fact that anything can happen in them.

I think that

If people ‘hope’ for the collapse of civilization

Are doing so because it means they get to murder and steal, ie regress socially entirely,

Which is a known path making it seem easier

Than building something new which requires choosing to tolerate the risk of different.

Tldr? Maybe they want society to fall because then there’s no more threat to their way of living: demanding everyone agrees with and serves them or they don’t get to exist. 

I used to think if we started over we would do better but historically thats disproven. The start over is a full restart through all the dumb abusive human sh!t… we need to build from here.

I’m starting to wonder

Its not the empath and the narcissist.

Its the covert narcissist and the entitled narcissist. 

The person that was never valued with the person that was over valued.

Neither gained the capacity to value self as one was made to take all the accountability while the other never had any.

They reflect eachother. Are drawn to eachother. And torture eachother. Manipulate eachother. Control eachother. 

One represses their awareness of self while the other their awareness of others. Neither meeting their own needs while both sacrificing what they think will equate getting needs met. 

Covert narcissists think if they martyr (this is where the empathy is used as a tool of deception) themselves enough someone will decide to do the same for them. While the entitled narcissist demand their needs met without concern of another’s. 

A true empath (if people are capable of being exclusively anything which is unlikely in imo) wouldn’t be with a narcissist… they would sense the lack of self love and know their is no way to love someone out of that. 

Either have to choose to take the appropriate amount of accountability which means finding a way to develop self love without the parental coregulation that we evolved to develop it. 

Also, unlike psychology, I do not agree that these labels are a life sentence of permanence. Villianizing and creating permantent problems out of learned behaviors is truely evil. People can change. They just have to choose awareness and to care about others enough to push through… and if they have never seen that happen, will they ever know how to? 

!¡This is not an endorsement to tolerate abuse of any kind from anyone¡!

 This is a perspective that removes the villian and replaces it with a reality both people can improve upon.

 If these ‘empaths’ were real then why do I find racists, ableists, and classists among them? 

People who feel the pain they cause don’t validate causing the pain.🌈

Gunna make people real mad:

I honestly think Sunday -wed are the best shifts and the overnight ones are the best.

Work week schedles

I am going to share this life hack!

Me: Its literally whats been wrong with our society for centuries but sure… lets maintain the same standards. I’m sure you will get different results than the billions before you that were actually self sabotaging and preventing their own growth and improving the development of our whole society. /sarcasm

People:

Being called " nice " or " cute" is so cringe

It feels like a reset for me kinda refreshing sometimes I like it idk

Mondays ain't that bad

One of my most common ways of looking at life is that the world would be a better place if we were not put in a society. Now, you may or may not agree with me on this; that is your choice, and I cannot make it for you. But to tell you my side of the situation, I honestly believe that society is one of the most evil things in the modern day. Society keeps us in boxes. As soon as we're able to have a rational thought in our heads, we are put into a society where we are put in boxes. We cannot see the boxes, but they are always there because you're always surrounded by four walls. Some are lucky to have more than that; some are not. But in my opinion, I think society would be better left in the past. It is a past invention that has been going on for far too long. Why should we have to live the way that we are expected to? To pay bills that don't matter, to pay for payment's sake, to work just to work, just to work, just to die? Why must we do that? Why must we only look at situations in a negative light and only talk about pointless things like war, sports, or politics? Where is the originality in this? So I say my unpopular opinion: society shouldn't exist. We should be able to have open minds from the day we are born to the day we meet our makers (if that's how you live) or until you join the life cycle once again. I look forward to seeing how people discuss and converse about this subject because I have stated my case. Now it's your turn to state yours.

The world would be a better place without society

I wish I was born within another country!

somedays.
Most days...

Half the people in America equate to a tub of lard, 
Extra large...


The other half confusing ding dongs for hohos,
noone knows...


It's feels like there's noone here who notices them hunting, 

Somedays,

Most days...

AI is the new first-world boogeyman.

People can abuse others by forcing their own drinking problems on others.

Don't abuse me with your alcoholism.

SCENARIO:
You wake up to a house fire; smoke bellowing from every crevice. 
You're newborn child is sleeping in the next room and your family pet of 5 years is trapped upstairs. 

You can ONLY save ONE. 

Who do you save?
Who do you save?

People who have to teach themselves and still proceed have more potential and dedication than those who go to classes that teach the same skill.

I'd rather be working.

Unpopular opinion:

There really isn't someone for everyone. Some people really should be alone.

Some people will never be cut out for relationships

We men also like cute things....

I can understand using it for legit medical reasons but other than that the sight and smell of it grosses me out.

420 is gross & overrated

Petite fetishism is cringe 😬

Edit: I said what I said. All of you running to my comments to complain are hilarious.

Calling someone fun-sized is cringe.

Septum rings are to more easily control and direct stubborn beasts of burden.

Overthinking

Isn't beards just makeup for guys? It hides jaw line and other facial structure really well 🤔

Beards and makeup

I am child free, and it disgusts me that other CF people use these terms so freely and nonchalantly.

I find terms like "breeder" and "crotch goblin" disrespectful, distasteful, and unnecessarily hostile.

people with good morals don't need it and people with broken morals only learn how to hate themselves with it

shame is actually a useless emotion

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