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As long as the earth is still spinning, no one knows the fate of people.

Today you may have nothing, who knows, tomorrow you may have everything.

Qoute

The more i understand people, the more i value authenticity.

Some words stay relevant across centuries..

The answer to life, the universe and everything...

Actually, you don't have to be missed by anyone. The main thing is not to lose touch with yourself.

Don't let yourself down

Rubies Cube - Need to be manipulated to get it together

Pop it-The go-to person to relieve stress and to undo things that were done

Which fidget are you?

Religion is good to keep order and control, but it keeps your mindset stagnant. 

A lot of things in the Bible are questionable, but can also be misinterpreted.

Philosophy allows you be a free thinker, and make decisions based on what you feel in your heart.

Philosophy is a life changing subject and a good alternative to religion.

Expose yourself to things that make you uncomfortable because the chaos of uncertainty is where your personal growth is. Being at peace - in your comfort zone - is the place of order and rest, not your permanent residency. You have to experience both chaos and order to live your life as the best version of yourself; being permanently in one or the other inevitably becomes the fortress that even you can't escape.

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Peace

Take a break

#WorkLife

Tech keeps me busy, music keeps me grounded, and curiosity keeps me learning. I'm here to meet genuine people, share meaningful conversations, and discover new perspectives. If you have a story to tell, I'd love to hear it. 🎸🌍

If it's real, it won't need chasing. ✨

It is impossible to have a truly novel idea with no analogue. Try it if you don't believe me.

Introspection

Green flag you notice first?

Art exists within all. You just need the right eye.

Medium

Question of the day

The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts 
— Marcus Aurelius

What would your ideal society look like?

If everyone experiences a different version of reality, does objective truth exist?

Question

I've started believing that the most important decisions in life aren't the ones that change our circumstances, they're the ones that slowly change our character.
Achievements come and go. Opinions change. Success is often a matter of timing. But the kind of person we become through our choices is something we carry everywhere.
I'm less interested in asking, "Will this make me happy?" and more interested in asking, "Will this help me become someone I admire?"

The People We Become

There is within each of us an invisible territory that we speak about far too little. An inner space where thoughts sometimes emerge that do not truly belong to us, or at the very least, do not reflect who we are in the deepest parts of ourselves. Intrusive thoughts, fleeting thoughts, repetitive thoughts, sometimes violent, often deeply self-deprecating. And the greatest danger is not their existence, but the authority we choose to give them.

Because a thought, no matter how persistent it may be, is not the truth. Yet human beings have this strange tendency to confuse what they think with who they are. As if the mind, the moment it begins to generate doubt, suddenly becomes a legitimate judge of our worth.

And this is exactly how self-sabotage begins, isn’t it?

It starts with questioning an intuition, then a capability, then an entire ambition. Little by little, we become the unconscious architects of our own limitations. Not because we lack potential, but because we have allowed a distorted inner narrative to define our reality.

Marcus Aurelius once wrote that we suffer more often in imagination than in reality itself. Centuries later, Friedrich Nietzsche reminded us that our greatest battles are not fought against the world, but against the parts of ourselves we refuse to confront.

The question, then, is not how to make these thoughts disappear, but rather how to stop identifying with them.

To observe without merging. To feel without concluding. To question without immediately believing.

Perhaps human nature instinctively pushes us to seek external validation. Perhaps we have been biologically wired to belong to the group, to seek acceptance, because once upon a time, rejection meant disappearance.

But evolution, in its deepest sense, is precisely about learning to transcend certain primitive mechanisms.

Human intelligence is not simply the ability to think. It is the ability to choose which thoughts deserve to be believed.

To truly know yourself requires difficult inner work. You must learn to distinguish the voice of conditioning, the voice of fear, the voice of a wounded ego, from that other voice, quieter, steadier, the one that carries your truth.

As long as we wait for the world to confirm our worth, we remain dependent on an external verdict.

The day we understand that our value does not fluctuate according to the way others perceive us, something shifts radically. We stop asking for permission to fully exist, and this is exactly what I am working on within myself every single day.

That is when we finally begin to expand.

Can we truly overcome human nature?

Perhaps not entirely. However, we can observe it, understand it, and consciously decide that we will no longer allow ourselves to be governed by it.

And that is probably the purest form of freedom.

The greatest conquest of existence has never been mastering the world.

It has always been mastering the inner space from which we interpret it.

When Intrusive Thoughts Take Control

I am Thomas.

"The wound is the place where the light enters you."  -Rumi

I used to think it was a flaw.

I thought I was making everything harder than it needed to be. I would replay conversations in my head, wonder what people really meant, question my own reactions, and sometimes spend more time trying to understand a moment than actually living it.

But the older I get, the more I realize that’s just how my mind works.

I like to understand things. I like to know what drives people, what shapes them, what they don’t say out loud. I’ve always been fascinated by human behavior because I don’t believe anyone is ever “just like that.” There is always a reason, a story, an experience behind the way we think, love, protect ourselves, or walk away.

Sometimes I think too much, I’ll admit it. I can get lost in my own thoughts. But I’ve also learned that thinking deeply isn’t always a bad thing. It has made me more patient, more observant, and probably more compassionate. The more I try to understand people, the less I judge them.

I’ve stopped trying to silence this part of myself.

Now, I’m just learning when to let go. Not every question needs an answer, and not every silence needs to be filled with meaning. Some things are simply meant to be lived.

I still think a lot. Probably more than most people.

But I don’t see it as something to fight anymore.

It’s part of who I am. And honestly, I think it’s one of the reasons I keep growing.

I am an overthinker.

100%✅

It’s funny how self-absorbed we can get, walking around constantly waiting for people to disappoint us. But when you actually pay attention to normal, everyday life, you realize how much casual kindness is just quietly happening around us. Total strangers step aside, hold doors, and look out for one another. At our core, I think the vast majority of us are just naturally wired to be good to each other. 
We brace for a harsh world, but ordinary streets tell a gentler story. Human decency isn't the exception—it is our quiet, everyday default.

Kindness is everywhere.

I choose to be whatever fits me in that moment

In a world full of Beings, who do you choose to Be?

Who do you choose to Be?

The only world you'll ever know is Now. Stop rushing Or the world will fade from you, Rushing ruins you. With every breath you are loosing each second to witness the moment right infront of you just in rush to catch the next one. The next moment can wait and it’s not guaranteed. Live in the moment.

Where wealth and comfort gives a false sense of freedom.
And blaming everyone that's different for endangering that 'freedom (of speech)' makes us blind to see that the 'NORM' is conditioned by the powerful structures that benefit from our compliance. The very systems that profit from our conformity. 

I think the norm is based on fear, loss of the familiar that provides security. Economic interests are a response to this. It makes sense to take advantage of people who feel safer at the hand that feeds them. 

Noam Chomsky said: "The smart way to keep people passive and obedient is to strictly limit the spectrum of acceptable opinion, but allow very lively debate within that spectrum." And Erich Fromm said that people give away freedom to escape the fear of insecurity. The market then provides "safety" at a price: conformity. 

The idea of becoming isolated plays into the fear of loneliness and being excluded. We are also thwarted to find out that it is indeed possible to be truly free. Plato's cave is a good example of this. The fear of exclusion is deeply rooted in evolution.

I really appreciate that you have read my nightly thoughts. 

Marlein Quadros

"If you have a big enough cage, you never know you're in one"

Sure,

It's strange how loneliness can feel even heavier after trying to connect with people online. I open an app hoping to find a friend, a meaningful conversation, or simply someone who understands me. Yet sometimes, after scrolling and chatting, I feel more alone than before. Maybe it's because what I'm searching for isn't just interaction, but genuine connection. A hundred conversations can never replace one person who truly listens, understands, and stays. Sometimes the hardest part of loneliness isn't being alone—it's realizing how deeply we want to belong.

The Loneliness After Looking for Connection

Whosoever is delighted in solitude is either a wild beast or a god.
-Aristotle

Solitude

I spend a lot of time collecting advice from quotes, Reddit, Pinterest, and TikTok on self-motivation, life, relationships, and everything else that forces me to pause my life to examine myself. It's kind of like a trap being stuck inside my own mind, sorting out all of life's patterns to figure out how to best navigate it and achieve a correct way to live and a meaningful life too.

Collecting all of life's meaning first before I can live it

“Trace your fingertips over your face. Commit every facial feature of you  to your memory , and engrave its map within your soul. Don’t lose yourself… be careful. You are the most precious thing you have. Never forget that.”

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We hear a lot about what people expect from a relationship. The standard script usually sounds like a checklist of requirements: someone to provide security, someone to take care of them, someone to fill a specific role or anchor them down against the world.

While talking with a friend, I never really sat down to map out what I wanted. I was always more fascinated just listening to everyone else’s desires and treating it like an observer. Seeing how heavily people focus on what a partner can do for them made me realize how radically different my blueprint for connection is…

I find myself looking for a fellow traveler, someone to walk beside. A person whole in their own autonomy, rich in spirit rather than possessions, and fueled by passions they burn to share. I crave an intersection of lifetimes, not a transaction of security. I want a love that builds no cages, expects no debts, and makes no false promises to eternity. 

A love that looks change in the eye. 

Two separate lives, deeply awake to the reality that nothing lasts, see the brief flash of existence and feel a pull like gravity to spend it in orbit together, choosing to give each other the most precious thing they own: their finite time, shared in radical presence.

Too poetic? Maybe... But I wish you all the best out there in your search. ☺️

Beyond the Relationship Script

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Sometimes when i dont know what to answer to a question, i will just say "i don't know". 

I hate pretending for something that I don't know. Plus, i do believe that we all learn something new everyday regardless of how experienced we are in this world

the art of unknown

Try looking from many points of view and aspects of your self to get as deep as possible.

Objectively,  do you consider yourself rational or romantic? Like really think about it - if you're going to answer this.

I feel most enjoy the beach, but for me something about mountains is just more majestic 😍

However the beach does make lifes problems seem small 🤔

Beaches or mountains?

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Qoute

Some words stay relevant across centuries..

The answer to life, the universe and everything...

Don't let yourself down

Which fidget are you?

Philosophy is a life changing subject and a good alternative to religion.

heART

I used to think understanding was a virtue

My philosophy in life

Compatibility isn't about finding the "perfect" person

Is death of conciouseness possible

Self-Confidence as Absolute Power