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cy

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sᴛᴇᴠᴇɴ

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Every day I get closer to never speaking again

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Audra

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INFJ
Sagittarius

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Forgive Yourself and Grow

Forgive Yourself and Grow

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Scorpio

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#Self-Love

#selflovefirst

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sᴛᴇᴠᴇɴ

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ENTJ
Capricorn

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You ever leave someone on delivered for so long it’d be worse if you replied

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Shyn

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ISFP

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#life

#life

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Pam

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ISFP
Pisces

Seek The Best In Everything

Make a practise of looking for the best in people and situations . You’ll find that simple approach induces optimism and positivity - both of which lead to calmness 🌸💜🌸

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M

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INTP
Pisces

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Thoughts…

I was talking to my kids about how I’ve managed to do so many interesting things despite humble roots… Stay curious. Be persistent. Do things because they are hard. Aim to do impossible things just because people think they can’t be done. Don’t worry about what other people think, social status, or wealth. Don’t follow rules. Don’t obey. Be confident that you can do anything. Don’t be afraid to ask questions or to ask for help. Don’t be afraid to admit that you don’t know. Help those that need help. Invite others to come along even when you aren’t sure where you are going. Always be learning. Always be teaching. Anger slowly. Forgive quickly. Be flexible. Don’t let yourself be pushed around. Defend those that need defending. Dont let any task be below you. Always contribute to the best of your abilities. Work hard, work smart, don’t work long hours. Don’t ask others to do anything you won’t do. Be honest to yourself and others. Love is a commitment not an emotion. Do what is right even when it hurts. Find the deeper issue and fix the real problem. Understand that everyone is both a hero and a villain. Do what needs done but remember that you could be wrong. Apologize for your mistakes. Keep moving forward. Be silly and whimsical and make an effort not to make too many good decisions.

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Ash

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INFJ
Taurus

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Just know however depressed and lonely you are guys, there's a level you haven't reached.. Yet

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Dragoness

6h

INFJ
Sagittarius

already dreading being a bag of anxiety tomorrow at work 😆 I'm ready for another week of migraine 🤣

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Imay

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ESTJ
Gemini

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People are like books, some deceive us with their covers while others surprise us with their contents.

It's an insightful analogy that reminds us to look beyond appearances and discover the true essence of individuals. To not judge others based solely on their outward appearance or initial impression. Just like a book, people have unique stories, experiences, and depths that may surprise us if we take the time to truly understand them. It's a reminder to be open minded and embrace the beauty of diversity in people.

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Sky

10h

ESFP
Gemini

The hearts that want to help the ones that don't help themselves.

Advice can be easy to give but rarely would it's implantation be just as easy. If the advice given makes sense and is a good course of action, it still may fall upon deaf ears, which is a tragedy. Why that may be, who knows? But for anyone to be in a situation to need advice can often be in a situation that was caused because of a tendency to not listen to reason. That still isn't every case, but a thought worth the ponder. Do what you can, just because.

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Carlos

22h

INTP
Aquarius

Just the way I am now

After the end of 2021 I went through a very tough time up until this month. I can honestly say I'm a completely different person now and unrecognizable to whomever may have known me in the past. I'm going to share a couple of things on how I get through my day to day life and maybe someone might read this and it might help them in some sort of way. So in the past I was very inconsistent and undisciplined I had a lot of dreams and a lot of great ideas and all that stuff and I never acted on anything or I would start something and never finish it. Fast forward to today I've been able to make myself extremely consistent with pretty much everything I do everyday isn't perfect but I tried to get at least 1 to 15% better every day and it seems to work out most times and sometimes it's doesn't but that's ok I just try again tomorrow the key is to never quit So let's get this started So I didn't like my weight and being in my early 30s I realize that I couldn't eat just whatever I wanted anymore so I started counting my calories and managing what I ate I also quit the fast food it's very rare that I eat it now and if I do go to fast food restaurant I'll usually just get a chicken sandwich and a salad. Which isn't very often. I also started doing intermittent fasting and which I started doing clean fasts every single day for 16 hours and I gradually increased it to 20 hours Monday through Friday and 1 36hour fast a week over the weekends overall it hasn't given me a tremendous amount of weight loss but if you look at the science behind it the data shows it can make you a much healthier person overall when done correctly. So taking control of my health and weight ✅ Next let's talk about exercise✅ So I've always had trouble with my weight and I would go through phases throughout my life sometimes I was really overweight sometimes I was in the middle and other times I was in shape well like I mentioned earlier I went through a very difficult time which I'm still recovering from but it's not really a factor anymore I gained a bunch of weight again and I was still going to the gym consistently but there were other factors like diet. So in addition to watching my calories now and incorporating intermittent fasting I now train like this 3 X a week Weight lifting (Compound workouts) Wednesday, Friday, Saturday 2 X a week Muay Thai and Brazilian jiu-jitsu Tuesday, Thursday 2 X a week walking (10 miles) with light to moderate calisthenics Sunday, Monday My profession ✅ If you take time to read my profile you'll see that I work in cybersecurity and that I also do hacking these two things are very close to my heart and I don't say it just to say it nor do I say it for attention this is truly what I love and I deeply enjoy it I used to be a gamer but now this has replaced that and it makes me money and it applies to the real world which is why I sacrificed gaming for hacking So I'm always working with virtual Labs because I want to stay sharp and I want to be really good at what I do I also try to listen to lectures and watch a video tutorials because I want to be the best at this and I'm training as if someone's trying to take it all away from me And if anyone ever wants to team up on hack the Box or try hack me please send me a message and we can set something up because I need to start meeting people with similar skill sets so I can get better and so I can help them get better THE CONCLUSION ✅ So anyways why did I share all of this I shared all of this because I realized in order to make all the anxiety and depression go away you need to take control of your life when you're able to finally take control of your life you can then find your purpose and when you find your purpose regardless of the things that didn't happen that you wish would have happened/things that can't be fixed or changed it starts to matter less and less because you have control within your life and you're able to work towards something that makes you happy something that you're passionate about and something you can be great at That's why I chose to break my life into sections because that's how I started to retake control There's one part I left out which is relationships this is something I'm still actively working towards but I've realized that I need to be single for a while and I shouldn't try to rush things and I shouldn't let things bother me because the person that I thought was for me is no longer in my life and I see other people in relationships and I see myself by myself getting older without anybody this is something that's been very difficult for me to change but in order to get the ball rolling you need to start with baby steps so while I did come on this application with the intention of finding somebody I also accept the fact that that may or may not happen not just on this application but on any application I also realized that I might not meet anyone in person either so what I can do in the meantime is work with the things that I can control and the things that are within my control I listed earlier in this post and for the most part I do pretty well at maintaining control of my health my weight my training and my professional interests So fix and change the things that you can take control over and take it day by day and you will realize that life will slowly get better I did not feel better in a week or in a month it took a little bit of time but it did get better so if it got better for me it can get better for you too and that's why I chose to share this today The end ✅

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Hardeep

14h

ISFJ
Scorpio

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Self Motivation

Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other one thing.

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Joan

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ISFJ
Aries

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Not everyone will understand you, and that’s okay. You’re here to live your life not to make everyone understand you.

🤍

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Tash

1d

INTJ
Pisces

8w7

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Take the scenic route

Take the scenic route

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Flex

14h

INFP
Capricorn

Double standards

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Shush

1d

ISFJ
Sagittarius

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IFYOUCANREADTHISIHAVETOADMITTHATYOUARETRYINGTOOHARDANDIAMFLABBERGASTEDWITHYOUREFFORTSFORTHISYOUDESERVEANAWARDFORBEINGSILLYANDREADINGTHISWHOLETHINGBECAUSEYOUJUSTWASTEDYOURTIMEANDBRAINCELLSTRYINGTOREADEVERYTHING

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Kissel

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INFJ
Aquarius

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"If you want to be good at something, you must first be willing to be bad at it".

"If you want to be good at something, you've got to be bad at it first". This means that everyone has to start somewhere, and that's usually "bad" compared to where they want to be.

Warren Buffett: "You will be successful UNTIL you stop trying to be good at everything".

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Mel

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INTP
Scorpio

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Archipelago of mingan the Tundra & Saguenay fjord

Embrace what you love Conservation of wildlife matter Route 138🤎⚜️🦭🐬🐝🐧🪶🐚🦐🪼🍦

Archipelago of mingan the Tundra  & Saguenay fjord

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Antonella

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ESFP
Leo

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❤️

❤️

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Siddharth Samal

1d

ESFJ
Gemini

1w2

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Better Life

Everyone wants to have a better life but not all get or achieve it.

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Missy Kay

1d

ISFP
Libra

6w5

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Life

Life

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Denver

1d

INTJ
Scorpio

6w7

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Sad but true

Sad but true

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Hardeep

1d

ISFJ
Scorpio

1w2

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TODAY ONLY

Between yesterday's "mistake" and "tomorrow's" hope there is a fantastic opportunity called today...! Live it...Love it... The day is yours.

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Michael

1d

INFJ
Virgo

2w1

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Just in case...

Just in case...

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Lerato.

1d

ENTJ
Gemini
1 Award

Note.

Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.

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Catalina

3d

ENFJ
Scorpio

7w8

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Don’t let society define you

Don’t let society define you

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Sarah

3d

ENFP
Sagittarius

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Officially 25

Just turned 25 two days ago, and one new thing I learned to deal with it is okay if they didn't remember but you did remember and I treat myself good 🥰

Officially 25

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cy

6d

ISFP
Gemini

8w7

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✨🫶🏻

✨🫶🏻

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Claara

10d

INFJ
Virgo

2w3

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It broke me when someone said!!!

.....it's not the stab in the back that kills you, but it's when you turn around and see who is holding the knife 🔪.

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Astharea

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ISFP
Scorpio

9w1

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2 Awards

😌❤️

😌❤️

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Susannah

2d

ENFJ
Aquarius

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I feel if someone really cares they won't disappear from your life

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𝑾𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒓_𝑳𝒊𝒍𝒊 🪷

1d

ISTJ
Aquarius

8w7

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Duaa✨

Yaa Allah, remove from my life the people who are secretly fooling me, the people who hate me and the people who pretend to like me, no matter how important they are to me, if they don't have anything good just remove them.Aameen🤲🏻💚🤍🖤

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Stac

2d

ENFJ
Taurus

8w7

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Take care of yourself, nobody else will ❤️

Take care of yourself, nobody else will ❤️

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Shmiggins

1d

INFP
Capricorn

9w1

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It Takes Two To Hold Hands

Don't expect anyone to chase after you if you let them go, because chances are they're probably looking for someone to hold their hand too.

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Au

6d

INFJ
Leo

😌

Give up tomorrow

😌

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