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I definitely like this type of therapy the most!😂😂😂😈👍🏻

Just a little reminder

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What are some small goals/activities in life that keep you sane?

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remember Allah everytime (edited)

better learn a mf before you love a mf

or you gonna be learning a mf lesson

People that do not give unsolicited advice especially to total strangers are very precious and welcome.

How do you even react?

Coworker sees you says hey honey and your like hey... And your like when you walk in the F she calling honey? Man my ex used to call me honey God all sorts of names but how do you even react to someone ur not attracted or interested in who called you honey 🤷‍♂️ and I know she ain't attracted to… read more

Reverence is not loyalty

Reverence is not loyalty, and confusing the two can lead to profound misunderstandings in relationships, organizations, and leadership. While they are both powerful human emotions that drive commitment, they stem from different psychological roots and manifest in entirely different… read more

Being Tired And Regretting Something Aren'T The Same Thing.

Read this lesson in a story so I thought I share this piece of wisdom. Being exhausted and feeling regret are two completely different states, but extreme tiredness can trick your brain into turning normal thoughts into heavy emotional burdens. Here's what I mean and how to tell them apart: ##… read more

🫶🌸On tea from me 😉🙃✨

Feeling a little down today...

Why is it so incredibly hard to get into the IT field... Anyone got advice? 😔

Let's debate -

Who'll have better influence in ur life - A. The one who always support u no matter what B. The one who always point out and criticize you C. Neutral and support you anyhow And why ?

How to handle the situation??

At my relatives home, I was called "kaali kaloti" the black person because of my skin tone. Most of the people in my family are fair and only 1% is dusky which is me by the way. It is not supposed to affect me but I have been crying for the past two hours. Help me 😅 how can I stop feeling bad or… read more

Home is where you'd rather be

I have a free week of taking care of myself,I struggle to find stuff to do on my own,to remember what I love,or to find curiosity in anything..last time I travelled were not worth it. How do you find the magic in the ordinary?

Starting as of today officially ...no more tolerance

It may come to you as a shock...but it's been an avalanche waiting to happen...off for the rest of the night. Stay safe everyone 🌻.

Time to do whats best for yourself.

Headacheeee

I have a headache and already took some medicine 🥲 Any advice to make it go away?

Life feels like a blur

Hey everyone, just putting this out there. It’s kind of crazy how once you graduate whether it’s high school or college you just jump into work and suddenly the days just blur together. Everyone says to enjoy life, but sometimes it feels like there’s barely time to even catch your breath. It’s just… read more

Not sure what to do

So, my boyfriend and I broke up, and now I’m officially on my own. I need to move out, but the idea of living alone doesn’t sit well with me, and everything is so expensive these days. I’d really like to move in with someone, but I also want to make sure it’s someone reliable and not… well, weird.… read more

I mean....

Heal first before ruining another person.

How do you deal with bossy and manipulative sister?

If only I can just disappear now and go far away, I'd definitely do it and stay silent for days without communication with her. It's draining me emotionally, mentally and even physically.

Pro Tip: When you get married, always buy two of everything so it's easier to split in divorce.

What advice do you give someone interviewing for their first junior software developer job?

It will be the first and no mention was made of it being a technical interview. What can be expected for a company with their own proprietary language? Any advice will be helpful. Thanks guys.

I need genuine advice

My grandpa died not even a week ago and I was living with him so he left me his house assuming he wouldn’t still owe 8000 $ and I don’t have that kinda money to pay off whatever it is . What can I do cause I would lose it to lose my grandpa and then his house my childhood home where I grew up What… read more

Sage Advice

Red flags

Each time I think I've found the guy of my dreams, he makes a comment that is so red flag in my face that it literally takes away all his good. Like a guy who once told me that brownies are all carbs and stuff (even with brownies, my cals would be 1800), he mainsplained me about obesity and… read more

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Gimme some tips or advice please

How to overcome burn out? I feel mentally and physically tired 🫠😔🥹😭

Question

How does one start a normal relationship with people friendship wise or more? I try not to get attached to people as soon as I start talking to them. As I know we all have our own issues to face. How does one become understanding or find pure friendship over time without ever worrying or thinking… read more

If you're not trying to be my life partner,

DON'T APPROACH ME!!! 🙌🙌 (edited)

Someone who advises is not always smarter, just more experienced

Be humble

Relationship

Attraction may bring two people together, but everything beyond attraction that makes them stay the understanding, the comfort, the effort, and the choice to keep showing up for each other. So, what do you think truly makes two people stay? #love #relationship #psychology #advice #peace #nature… read more

I don't understand

I don't understand how apps like this work. Should I be messaging people before they "match" with me? I thought it was best to wait before sending a message. Or am I really just that unappealing? I like who I am and I'm not going to misrepresent myself so it is what it is. Just curious is there is… read more

Just be your self