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Big Ass Bear Trip!

The wife and I will be in Big Bear this weekend! On the hunt for a Big Bear Unicorn 🦄! Will we find her? Will she be available spontaneously? Does the Big Bear Unicorn 🦄 even exist?! Tune in next time to find out! Same bat-channe! Same bat-time! BTW: We're also open to hanging out with a like… read more

Does the way we see ourselves change how others see us?

There are actually studies showing that simply imagining physical exercise can improve muscle strength. Which I find pretty fascinating! But it got me wondering about our self-image. If we keep telling ourselves we’re unattractive, eventually we might start believing it. And wouldn’t that affect… read more

The woman and the onion

You see, Alyoshetka,' Griushenko burst out laughing nervously, turning to him, 'I boasted to Rakittka about having given him an onion, but I won't boast to you, I'll speak to you with a different intention. It's just a legend, but a beautiful legend, which I heard as a child from my Matryona, the… read more

Daily hypothetical

You're told your future self visits people in their dreams, trying to warn them. What do you think you're trying to say, and why haven’t you listened? My answer I’m probably saying, “Slow down. You’re not just running out of time, you’re running past it.” And I haven’t listened because I keep… read more

Wondering

Today, my cab driver told me about how he had lived his life through many experiences.He was saying that we should never look down on another and make them feel inadequate. Yet this happens to many of us at work and even in our families.We can be unseen and overlooked by our own family members and… (edited) read more

Which of these existential crises have you experienced? 😉

Is love ever really unconditional these days?

We all want unconditional love, don’t we? Someone who loves us just as we are, without expecting us to be anything else. But then we get into a relationship, and suddenly there are all these expectations. I want you to love me, understand me, make me happy, be there when I need you… And as long as… read more

My Saturday Night: No Dates, Just a Rubik’s Cube. 😂🧩

My son got frustrated trying to solve his Rubik’s Cube and cried, saying it was impossible. So this mum decided to prove him wrong. The funny part? I had NEVER solved one in my life. 😂 Three hours. Countless YouTube replays. Running on fumes. But I DID IT! 🥹🙌 Because sometimes, motherhood is… read more

Must be nice 🥲

I keep saying I’m happy being single, but deep down I just wanna take cute Christmas couple pictures this year.😫🙃🎄👩🏽‍❤️‍👨🏼

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Just saying. 😂😂

Do you know the saying I came, I saw, I conquer (edited)

Just saying

Black African

Your future girlfriend might be right here. Just saying. 😉❤️

A Butterfly 🌸🦋

I was wandering around my workstation, I spotted a little butterfly fluttering here and there before settling on a lone flower. I slowly moved closer, as if she knew I wanted to capture her beauty. It felt like she gave me just one chance for that perfect shot.. no more, no less. 📸 And then, as if… read more

To sexual

Maybe I have the mind of a man born in the early 20th century, but why are people so sexual while saying they are looking for a serious relationship? I can understand, to an extent, the "freedom of expression," but sometimes what you express insinuates something else. I hope I can get real… read more

❤️ NIGHT TALK! 🌙 If your crush texted you right now saying, “I miss you, come over” 🤭🔥 Would you go, ask questions first, or pretend to be asleep? 😂🙈 Be honest in the comments! 👇🤣

I was almost laughing when I suddenly realized that some of the polite and warm words I thought I was saying might sound more like sarcasm to many people

How are people saying they attracted to intelligence and then prove to have none ?

Looking for my Betterhalf

❤️🌍 Maybe My Future Husband Is Somewhere Out There… 💍✨ Hello, Universe! 🥹❤️and boo at large I'm a 25-year-old woman from Uganda 🇺🇬 christian with a kind heart, big dreams, and a genuine desire to find lasting love. I'm hoping to meet a mature man, preferably between 35 and 45, from Europe,… read more

Opinions please 👀

I ended up talking to someone who was complaining about women on the app who—when messaged—would try to sell their OnlyFans or things like that. I thought it was just a gripe, so I made a joke saying I didn't have one, but that if the economy kept going the way it was, I might consider it. He got… read more

How I define a relationship/dating

A relationship is based on balance, effort and trust. Balance in the sense of back and forth conversation, no one being the only one talking, you both talk equally about what you are passionate about. Effort meaning actually saying more than a few words in response to something, giving real… read more

Little things

Sometimes small things should also be admired: a feeling, a love, a hug, or even a conversation. What I'm saying is, love today what can be loved, desire what is yours so you don't lose it tomorrow.

Anime haters flawed logic

One thing I have noticed as an adult is the flawed logic behind people hating anime. Many people say "oh I watched one once. I hate anime" or something similar. After only 1 or 2 they decide they hate it. As a child, this logic is sound. But as an adult, I understand that, that is like saying "I… (edited) read more

Bless me not

With toxicity in my next relationship. I want open communication. Trust and peace to be found in one another. If we can't talk and reason with one another, without escalating to shouting and saying hurtful things every time. I want nothing to do with that kind of relationship. I'd rather be on my… read more

Have you found ways that have made any of these things easier? (or add your own if you have something helpful to share)

The way I deal with: A. Social situations 1. fear of being judged 2. silence in a conversation feeling awkward 3. feeling like the odd one out in a group 4. being interrupted or talked over 5. meeting people when I have no social energy 6. fear of being seen as boring or unexciting 7. being… (edited) read more

Just saying 🥰😛😊

First Date

I am not saying that it is wrong to want a man to pay for the first (romantic) date; but as a feminist, this is what I wonder: I think if someone loves a person, he/she would want to comfort the person that he/she loves So, what is the explanation of "I love you, but I want you to pay my bill… (edited) read more

Idk what people want..I saw a dudes bio saying he hates dating apps yet he’s always online 24/7😂😂

I made up my own theory that most guys like Bruce Wayne because they want to be like him (money, gadgets, women, fame) and most women like Clark Kent because they want to meet someone like him (sweet, compassionate, down to earth, family man, simple)..

Note how I couldn't care less about the Batman and Superman of it all? Because in real life those don't exist but their alter egos can.. and somehow when we describe Bruce Wayne it almost fits a persona a certain Tate put on. I wonder where all his followers are now and what they are doing? I'm… (edited) read more

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Yeah no I don't feel special when you call me baby or gorgeous cuz I know for a FACT you are saying that to like 20 other girls at the same time

What does cautiously optimistic mean?

Because I've been saying I've been that for decades and to multiple therapists and none of them have asked me to elaborate. I guess my question is did they know what it means?

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This is how I get my groceries upstairs with a heart condition and my stubborn personality won't ask for help and also my cat Miss Daisy watching and judging me probably saying you could of got help Girl lol 😂😏