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Inspired by my flu

Notice of Unauthorised Experiment Flu enters sideways, submits a dubious form to your cranial administration. Head pressure hums— a covert trial running in the background, altering the field without announcing its ontology. Ache files a grievance with the… read more

Im thinkin' that hanging up these herbs on all doors & windows banishes negative spirits 🤔 or at least the foundational ones

Symbolic Body 🤝 Emotion is from a Bodily Sense EDIT: Peppermint is optional! The Honey & Cinnamon work together to substitute peppermint. I just made a potion ward, of these ingredients, with axolotl water & a manifestation sigil of my lord's symbol(a skull). It's meant to always regenerate a… (edited) read more

DINNER

Yesterday I got a really big grilled mackerel, so I cut it in half to make mackerel chili paste. Image 1 shows the result: one cup of chili paste, some vegetables from the fridge, served with a piece of grilled red snapper and three-flavor clams over rice... Image 2 shows the preparation steps:… read more

A healthy connection doesn't disappear when the conversation gets difficult.

Nobody apologizes anymore, they just disappear and call it moving on. Accountability died somewhere between pride and ego. People would rather lose someone than admit that they were wrong. We've normalized walking away instead of working through it. Communication became optional, ghosting became… read more

Game Idea I had...

Empires rise. Dynasties fall. The gods are watching. Enter the world of The Elder Scrolls as you've never experienced it before. For the first time, take control of a ruling dynasty and shape the history of Tamriel in a grand strategy game where every decision has consequences, every victory comes… read more

Test me via a riddle or even just pictures etc. Guess the pokemon from someone else + something optionextral alongside it.

After my previous post regarding a riddle, this is the final thing like this for specifically today regarding pokemon. Now you get to choose a pokemon from any gen that you want and test my knowledge...See if i know what pokemon you want me to guess. Make it as difficult as you want. So the… read more

Aging is mandatory. Growing up is optional.. 😎

Roast Game - Creative way

Entertain me. One roast. One chance. I'll reply to each one, so be prepared Rules: • No attacking my appearance and this rule also apply to me • Stay respectful • Creativity is required — reality is optional. Example : You’re not a red flag, you’re the whole tutorial on what to avoid I won't… read more

Consent isn't optional.

A change👏🏾

If you had to change two things about yourself or your life what would it be? an why (optional)

Carbonara

Pasta Bacon (thick cut) Butter Garlic Onion Shiitake mushroom Heavy cream Evaporated milk Salt Pepper Chicken broth cubes Parsley (optional)

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🔥 Bakso Mercon (Spicy Meatballs) — Ingredients Meatballs 20–30 ready-made beef meatballs 2 tbsp cooking oil (for searing the meatballs) Spicy Sauce 20 red chilies (big) 10 bird’s eye chilies 5 cloves garlic 6 shallots 2 tomatoes 1 tbsp chili sauce (extra for shine and thickness) 1 tbsp sweet soy… read more

Wake-Up Call Relationship Advice

Stop waiting for someone who won’t show up. Time is not yours to waste on someone who treats your patience like a game. Words without action are lies. He can say “I love you” a thousand times but if he doesn’t act like it, it’s meaningless. Your feelings are not optional. If he dismisses,… read more

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When I was in Psychiatric hospital, they had church on Sundays (optional). I didn't want to go, because I didn't like church. But, I noticed I was feeling very isolated and alone, I was feeling depressed. There was no one around. I didn't like the way I was feeling. Now, I force myself to go to… (edited) read more

Boundaries Are Not Violence

Here’s something we’ve forgotten how to say out loud: boundaries are not violence. A curb isn’t mean. A fence isn’t hateful. A rule isn’t an attack. They exist because different things move at different speeds, carry different risks, and don’t mix safely without structure. A curb keeps runners… read more

Women live longer-men think safety rules are optional 🙄😂🤘

Relationships aren’t failing because people have stopped wanting love; they’re failing because many were never taught how to sustain it. In a world driven by instant gratification and endless choices, patience, emotional regulation, and repair are treated as optional, so discomfort is confused with

Mini pizza

Ingredients: For the dough.3 cups .all purpose flour.(Sifted) .1.tbsp.sugar .1.tbsp sale .3.tbsp . instant yeast. .3.tbsp.vegestable oil (corn or sunflower) .1cuo warm water (as needed) . pizza tomato halal source (homemade) . Green bell pepper.sliced .black olives.whole or sliced. . onion.finelly… read more

Chinese steamed fish - Dinner for tonight

Ginger and Spring onions does make this dish levitate, optional but you can add some chilli with the sauce too.

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Im curious though.. Why is there a Valentine’s Day for the heart, but no Brain Day? Maybe that’s why thinking is optional for some people ? 😆 Answer hahaha

CALM Model

(Criteria for Decision-making that doesn’t require you to be regulated) The CALM Model C — Come back Before deciding, orient to the present moment. One slow breath if that feels comfortable. 
Feel your feet or the chair. Look around and name one thing you can see. The purpose is not “be calm”.… (edited) read more

Reaction to Trans People

I remember when i was a kid and the big issue was gay marriage - whether it was “reasonable” for gay people to want to have marriages recognized by their government and I really struggled to understand why it mattered so much. Not on the gay marriage side but on the opposing side. Why did they care… (edited) read more

It's worth buying salad bowls like this! Just add grilled chicken and sprinkle on some shredded parmesan.

Pair it with this egg salad; 4 eggs boiled for 7 minutes 3 tbsp Greek yogurt 1 tbsp mustard 1 tbsp Japanese-style Kewpie mayo (optional) Add black pepper and spring onion if you want more flavours. Delicious and enjoy! ☕️ diet weight loss