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Some of the prettiest faces on these apps have the conversational skills of a parking ticket

I get it,you can be physically attractive, cute, gorgeous, whatever. But once the conversation starts, what are you actually bringing to the table? Because apparently a lot of people want someone who “knows how to keep a conversation going,” while contributing absolutely nothing themselves. If… read more

To answer the common question: Where have all the good men gone?

Honestly? To AI. Regardless of whether people want to accept it or not, those who are considered 'low quality' will not always be putting in the daily effort and trying. To them, rejection is just a smile and they keep going—shotgunning their attempts to find someone with simple copy/paste… read more

Stop choosing people only because they give you butterflies

I think one of the biggest mistakes people make in dating is confusing intensity with compatibility. You meet someone, they're incredibly attractive, the chemistry is insane, you stay up until 4 AM talking, you're constantly checking your phone waiting for their messages, and suddenly your brain… read more

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Profile help?

Hi! Could anyone look at my profile and tell me if I should tweak something about the pics? I am not convinced 🤭🤗

Thriving in chaos 🧚🏻‍♀️✨

It's too much sometimes....

As someone who is getting back to the dating scene, how to get back into the swing of things after being out of it for 20yrs? I feel I'm too old for this.....

Do not settle

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If you can't find a long term relationship

The dating landscape has changed, and it can be a real mind-bender. Let's break it down, because you deserve to find what you're looking for. ​Why Can't I Find a Relationship That Lasts? ​First off, let's toss out the idea that there's something wrong with you. There isn't. The truth is, a lot of… read more

Any one can create butterflies . Not everyone can create safety.

So, don't measure love only by the good days. Measure it by how you're treated on the bad ones. Real foundation of a relationship isn't built in candlelight... it's built in conversations you didn't want to have but handled with care.

Been single awhile

Anyone else been single for far too long? Feel like I must be doing something wrong

Getting past first messages to any at all?

How do you move past the first couple awkward messages when you do match with someone? Most of the time after matching they instantly unmatch with me or don't say much at all. Like ok, that's fine . Just means they aren't meant to be. I still would like practice tho. Or something.

I’d rather be thirsty than poisoned.

Don't lower your standards just because you're in a waiting season. (edited)