The Eldest Daughter

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I'm the eldest daughter in the family. Not the first born, tho. But I'm the first daughter. As my age keep increasing, people my age are getting married and some even have kids of their own. Okay, cool. I mean, if their destined partner has arrived then I'm happy for them. However it makes me wonder.

Wondering how they managed to get partner and get married. Cause when it comes to me, I never had the time to find a date. I barely talk to men. One, cause I hate empty conversations. Two, I dislike socializing with random men just to be seen as a girl who's 'friendly'. And lastly, my time have always been packed with life. Family especially. I have to manage my 2 younger siblings. Manage my parent's necessity. And make sure the whole family is in good condition.

So I wonder, will I ever get married at this point? Well, I guess if there's a guy who'd match my overly busy life then I'd be grateful. But if there's none, then I'll stick to being that rich aunt that spoils her nieces and nephews 😂

Thank you for reading this far! Blessed day for you and your family 🙆🏻‍♀️💓

NIDHI B MINZ · Accepted Answer

Obviously you will get married... everyone timing is different so don't overthink, you will definitely meet your partner.

Ria · Answer

As the first and eldest child in my family, I feel you🥺

THE ADDY 11:11 · Answer

Best wishes from my side 🌸

ren · Answer

It often comes unexpected. Intentionally exposing ourselves to the world helps!

Eduard Ey · Answer

Hmm, the youngest children here. Always told I needed to be strong, don't really regret that part. Alone, was a choice for a long time for me. 
Love will come your way as well. Wishing you the best.

Kay · Answer

I think you just answered your own question. I don't see marriage as an accomplishment, personally. To each their own. If you are saying you're going to be a rich aunt who spoils their neices and nephews, that sounds pretty badass. Whether or not you get married, that sounds more fulfilling than simply getting married. 💜

Potato · Answer

I guess we're on the same page lol.

The Eldest Daughter

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Obviously you will get married... everyone timing is different so don't overthink, you will definitely meet your partner.

As the first and eldest child in my family, I feel you🥺

Best wishes from my side 🌸

It often comes unexpected. Intentionally exposing ourselves to the world helps!

Hmm, the youngest children here. Always told I needed to be strong, don't really regret that part. Alone, was a choice for a long time for me. Love will come your way as well. Wishing you the best.