Thoughts on modern dating culture...

Question

I"m curious, why is there such a high focus on staying as you are instead of working hard to improve yourself?

Ayana Lola Pierce · Accepted Answer

From my personal experience, you should stay yourself and whoever you're in a relationship should stay theirself. And you both should build each other up, as that's how it's supposed to be. You work together to make each other better. You don't change for a different person. You stay who you are by making each other better and improving each other along the way. At the same time, you should also work on your. Self while you're trying to find that because In the end, it makes you more open to what you want in life

Tilly · Answer

Striking a balance between confidence in/acceptance of oneself and improving oneself isn't always easy. Seems to socially swing back and forth between the extremes.

Growth is also hard lol not everyone is in a place to put the work in the way they'd need to

Micah · Answer

Anyone worth dating will be wanting to improve themselves whether they get to be with you or not at the end.

Nathaniel · Answer

You should stay as you are for others and only improve for yourself.

Alistair · Answer

Because even the slightest perceived fault will result in rejection as there's always a "better option" - hint - there isn't

Iris · Answer

Your question and your statement are 2 different things. You're asking someone about their personal development. That has nothing to do with thoughts on modern dating culture

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Striking a balance between confidence in/acceptance of oneself and improving oneself isn't always easy. Seems to socially swing back and forth between the extremes. Growth is also hard lol not everyone is in a place to put the work in the way they'd need to

You should stay as you are for others and only improve for yourself.

Because even the slightest perceived fault will result in rejection as there's always a "better option" - hint - there isn't

Your question and your statement are 2 different things. You're asking someone about their personal development. That has nothing to do with thoughts on modern dating culture

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