First impressions.

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Ladys!! For those of you who are on this app trying to find a boyfriend, husband, life partner, etc...

This app is marketed towards lonely introverts in society. Many of you are amoung this group I'd assume. So as a bit of a shy guy who isn't fluent in charm myself I would like to ask.

If a guy has matched with you, or has worked up the courage to reach out with a message, what are some good messages or ways that he can make a good first impression and catch your attention? Break the ice if you will.

Nokey · Accepted Answer

Everyone might have a different take here, but from my perspective and experience, us girls get inundated with heart notifications. Writing a message makes you stand out far more, and writing a message with detail, a clear indication of one's interest and/or proof that one took the time to read our profile and draw some similarities... anything to show 'Hey, I'm taking this seriously' is enough to put you at the top of the list. It's like being out in public - anyone can look in your direction, but those that take the extra steps to come over and introduce themselves are going to have far more visibility and chances, at least in my eyes. As for what to say, it depends on the person, but ultimately, speak from the heart. 💙

Taylor · Answer

By expressing thorough knowledge in my interests, showing experience in similar kinks, proving you're emotionally mature, having enough charisma to have a conversation with me without my specific interests, or opening your wallet.

Alejandra · Answer

If he has similar interests as me

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