Bobby Ham Personality Type

Question of the Day

#trauma

Jen

1y

INTJ

Taurus

8

7

You Should NEVER Let Anyone Abu$e You, Especially If You're Feeling Lonely

Had an experience with someone I met recently that reminded me of why I choose to be alone. We hit it off right at the beginning, shared common interests & shared very important info about each other so there were no secrets on that front & no lies. They were super sweet & we talked for a few days... read more

#dating

Kevin

1y

ENFP

Aries

Aight, need some advice (sry long post)

So I have a damsel right? Picked her up at her worst point a year ago as a very close friend. We hit it off. We have every hobby the same. We flirt with each other all the time and we used to spend every waking moment together. A few months after knowing me I ended up paying her and her entire... read more

#career

Lu

4mo

INTJ

Libra

6

7

Career Change

How did you guys go about changing careers? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I'm tired of customer service type of jobs and want to branch out to something else. I currently have a UX Design Certificate and I finished my Real Estate classes, just need to take the final exams... But its out of... read more

#dating

⭐Jay 🇬🇧⭐

2y

ISTP

Cancer

5

4

(Long read) Saying it's a "Red Flag" - But does that say more about you than them?

You've heard the term before, but is something truly a "Red flag"? I've had someone say that I'm a "walking red flag", but does that say more about me than them? Before I go on, being able to notice red flags is a key tool when it comes to dating. It means you're vigilant and know your core... (edited) read more

#thoughts

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1mo

ISTP

Hobbies: When Can They Be a Turn-Off or Even a Red Flag? – A Personal Take

I recently came across a post on why certain hobbies might come across as red flags to some women. From my perspective, it’s not necessarily what the hobby is—it’s how someone engages with it, especially in the context of dating. I once matched with a guy on a dating app who, at first, was great... read more

#crafts

Christine

1y

ENFP

Sagittarius

Crafting first date?

I had this thought of a cute first date. We meet at a coffee shop. I bring yarn and hooks, teach you to crochet. You bring some supplies from your craft hobby and teach it to me. Would this appeal to anyone but me?

#romance

Chris

1y

INFP

Pisces

6

7

Is it Old Fashioned?

Is it just me that thinks it is quite romantic to be supportive and encouraging of your partner? I would love to go and watch my girlfriend play a sport, or give a presentation, or graduate. I would love to help her study, or research a hobby or interest. I would love to encourage her to go after... read more

#mentalhealth

Matt (MM)

2y

INFJ

Cancer

6

7

Fighting with yourself (Overthinking)

I'm someone who recently had to come to terms with having Anxiety and really bad overthinking. To the point where I may had broken a really close friendship. I became way too attached to the person, their mood would dictate mine. Reading too much into conversations thinking there were issues when... read more

#gaming

Ian

4mo

INFJ

Scorpio

9

1

Hoping my next S/O is into gaming

I've only ever been with one person who i enjoyed the hobby with, and it was amazing. We had so much fun. Most of the people i'm with outright hate them, and even say they cant play for various reasons. Obviosly i'd never force someone to do something they don't enjoy, you can be with someone and... (edited) read more

#gaming

Emmanuel

1mo

INTJ

Virgo

8

7

Just an assesment

Gaming feels like it's gotten to a point of lousyness and has lost its luster due to the nature of priority from the masses/visible players perrogitives, not just from my opinion but other things supporting the idea that gamers dont really appreciate their games or what they have in actuality and... read more

#psychology

Marie

9mo

ENTP

I just wanna feel curiosity and excitement for something / someone again 🥴

I’m jealous for people who can be so motivated and exited for long periods of time, that they are creators of content, or improve hobby for their whole life or years. When I was a teenager i had more emotional responses and stronger and longer motivations to learn something, but now it’s less and... read more

#technology

Zie

1y

ENTJ

Aquarius

6

7

Under A$1000 PC

So my customer wanted a PC just for WFH purposes, he said his company gave him a $1000 budget. Came to me with a quote from a PC store ($1190) and asked me if I could top that price. Well, I told em I can top the price and the performance and get rid of the stuff he doesn't need from that quote,... (edited) read more

#music

Dray

2y

ENFP

Cancer

7

8

Late 80s early 90s Hits

You know you had a few songs that had you off the couch dancing in the living room from this era. I wanna see who’s songs had y’all moving and hopefully on beat! Please post your fav tracks from this era, I’m looking forward to hearing your picks ladies and Gents 😎💯👊🏽🤙🏽 My turn ⬆️ Jam ... read more

#poll

Vitor✌️

1y

INTJ

Aquarius

6

7

⚽

Let's see😏

#psychology

Curt

2y

ENTJ

Cancer

2

3

Need help understanding

Gal I met on here, lives 1.5 hrs away, green compatibility, many similar interests; We have a two hour chat session first night. She indicated early on that she doesn't think we'll go any further than friends. Told her I was fine with that. We keep chatting for several days. We share pet names and... read more

#messi

αLσηE

5mo

ISTJ

8

7

🎹👑🐐👌🏼🤌🏼😅

#football #soccer #sport #music

#messi

αLσηE

4mo

ISTJ

8

7

18/12/22 He became a world champion 🏆

#football #soccer #sports what a journey 🐐👑🇦🇷

#messi

αLσηE

5mo

ISTJ

8

7

🇦🇷🐐🌨️❄️🌧️

#football #soccer

#football

Rameez AK

1y

ISFJ

Leo

Which One..CR7 or Messi?

Which one is the greatest player? 1. Cristiano Ronaldo 2. Lionel Messi With reason please #football #soccer #ronaldofan #messi #cristianoronaldo #cr7lover #lionelmessi (edited)

#messi

αLσηE

4mo

ISTJ

8

7

The GOAT 🐐🇦🇷⚽👑

#football #soccer (edited)

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#messi

αLσηE

4mo

ISTJ

8

7

The History 🇦🇷👑⚽🐐

#football #soccer #sports #goat