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Can't sleep. The darkness isn't as fun without somebody to hide with in it. My arms are empty and useless without purpose. Can't sleep. It's morning and so the day is full of promise but then why does it still feel empty? My mind spins ineffectually without a muse to hold my obsession. Can't sleep.

E le mafai ona ou moe. E le fiafia le pogisa e aunoa ma se tasi e fa'afaigofie ai. O la'u lima e leai ni mea i totonu ma e le aoga e aunoa ma se fa'amoemoe. E le mafai ona ou moe. O le taeao o lo'o i ai le fa'amoemoe ae o le a le mafua'aga e foliga mai e leai se mea? O la'u mafaufau e fa'atekinolosi e aunoa ma se fa'avae e taofia ai la'u fa'atekinolosi. E le mafai ona ou moe.

Just testing the waters, any older ladies around?

New here

O le fa'ata'iga o le vai, e iai ni fafine matua i etau?

Sā le fa'avae i

Hi everyone, new to this community, hardly new to loving age gap relationships. As a Dutchman who lived several years in Poland and currently lives in France, I constantly challenge myself to learn new things and explore new places and people. And somehow I find that same energy with younger people. What is it you are looking for in an age gap relationship?

Perspectives

Talofa lava i tagata uma, o le tagata fou i lenei nuʻu, e le o fou i le alofa i le vae o tausaga. O se tagata o le Netherlands na nonofo i se vaega o tausaga i Polani ma o lo'o nonofo i le Falani i le taimi nei, e masani ona ou fa'atekinolosi i le fa'atauina o mea fou ma su'esu'e i nofoaga ma tagata fou. Ma i se auala, e maua ai e a'u le malosi e tasi ma tagata talavou. O le a le mea e te saili i se vae o tausaga?

Vaʻaiga

Donna 30-55 anni. Nessuna cerca un ragazzo più giovane?

Cerco

O le fafine 30-55 tausaga. E leai se tasi e saili se tamāloa talavou?

Young boy can date older women no problem 
But when older men date younger girl then i have problem in the society  why so why is unfair 🤔
I am not religious person so religious stay away from this post.
This is for humanity people.

O le tamaitiiti e mafai ona fa'atau i fafine matua e leai se fa'afitauli 
Ae a fa'atau e tagata matua i tamaʻitaʻi talavou, ona i ai lea o le fa'afitauli i le sosaiete, aisea e fa'aletonu ai 🤔
O a'u e le o se tagata fa'atuatua, o le fa'atuatua ia 'aiga i lenei fa'ata'ita'iga.
O lenei e mo tagata o le tagata.

I like my dudes…. A little tired 💀10+years older

Fa'amolemole, o le fa'ata'ita'iga lea e na'o le a'u 😉

E fiafia ia te aʻu aʻu.... E le fa'ama'i tele 💀10+ tausaga matua

Admit you’re old if you remember what this is

Aua le fa'amaonia e te matua pe afai e te manatua po'o ai lenei

If your profile says you're a certain age and you tell me something different chances are I may block you. If I meet you on here I'm going with specifically the info that's on your profile. For example if your profile says your 22 and u message me saying your 28, I'll become suspicious about who you are and I'll assume your a liar and posing as someone you're not to get attention.

Be authentic

Afai e fa'amaonia i lau fa'ata'ita'iga o e te 22 tausaga ma e te fa'ailoa mai ia te a'u o e 28, e mafai ona ou fa'atekinolosi i le fa'amaonia o le tagata o e te. Afai ou te feiloa'i ma oe iinei, o le a ou fa'avae i luga o le fa'amaonia o lo'o i lau fa'ata'ita'iga. Mo se fa'ata'iga, afai e fa'amaonia i lau fa'ata'ita'iga o e 22 ma e te fa'ailoa mai ia te a'u o e 28, o le a ou fa'atekinolosi i le tagata o e te ma o le a ou manatu o e te o se fa'amaonia ma e te fa'ata'ita'iga o se tagata e le o oe e maua ai le fa'ata'ita'iga.

Ia moni

You guys are so young.

O outou tagata e matua talavou.

Can a 30 year old date a 48 year old if it's possible. Let me know in the comments.

Question

E mafai ona fa'atau e se tagata 30 tausaga le matua se tagata 48 tausaga le matua pe a mafai. Fa'amolemole fa'ailoa mai i le fa'acomment.

Fesili

What age is to old/young for you to date according to how oldyou are right now?

O le a le tausaga e matua/young mo oe e fa'atau i le fa'avae i le tausaga e te i ai i le taimi nei?

My father in heaven is 43 and my mother is 23 when they get married ☺️😅 
End up we are 9 siblings😅🤪

For me it's matter somehow it depends if your matured enough .😅

O lo'o 43 tausaga lo'u tamāloa i le lagi ma 23 tausaga lo'u tina i le taimi na fa'atau ai i latou. ☺️😅 
O le i'uga, e 9 o matou uso.😅🤪

Mo a'u, e taua le fa'avae i le tulaga o le matua o le tagata.😅

I feel to young to start being a cougar and I feel like people that young (18-27) should live their lives and I'm too old for just fun.(27-45) seems cool but not really interested. (45+) still approaching off young or old enough to be my father seeing if I want to grow older with them. I still review pages to see if compatible or they actually had something to say but most times I feel the same after interacting with them

What is your age gap do or don't and why

O lo'o ou lagona e matua talavou e amata ai i le cougar ma o lo'o ou lagona e le tatau i tagata o le tausaga o lo'o i lalo (18-27) ona ola i a latou olaga ma e matua ou te le talafeagai mo le fa'afiafiaga na'o le (27-45) e foliga mai e lelei ae ou te le fiafia i ai. (45+) e le mafai ona ou fa'ailoa i tagata talavou po'o tagata matua e mafai ona avea ma lo'u tamāloa, e va'ai pe ou te manaʻo e matua fa'atasi ma i latou. O lo'o ou toe iloiloi itulau e va'ai pe e fetaui ma i latou po'o le a le mea e mafai ona latou ta'uina mai, ae i le tele o taimi ou te lagona e tasi le mea pe a uma ona fa'asalalau ma i latou.

O le a le va i le tausaga o le tagata e te fa'atauina ai, e te le fa'atauina ai, ma le mafua'aga

What is the youngest and oldest age you will consider dating? Why?

Youngest/Oldest

O le a le tausaga e te manatu e mafai ona e fa'atau i ai? Aiseā?

Tamaʻitaʻi/ Tetele

Question for the ladies:

I found that how I get attracted to a woman is by the connection and the bond that is built.

With that, I found with time that age is ≠ compatibility. 
For myself, I found that the personality, mind, and heart, is what truly has the affect and what I feel attraction for.

Society in general seems to label and categorize people, by factors like: 
race, age, financial situation.

I find that I am not like the typical.

So, this is a question for the ladies.
Would age gap be a decision factor?

Would you not have a feeling to invest, or feeling of no interest to invest time and interest to get to know a man because he is older?

Could you be comfortable, feel comfortable with, being with a man with age gap of 5 or more years?

Would you dismiss to talk to a man, because of the age gap?
Or would you dismiss the society typical expectations, to find the man with the heart that your heart needs?



With that. I will ask a different question:

Financially and financial situation and capability:

To make this simple, I will be direct with my question:

Would you NOT be interested to get to know a specific man, because of his financial situation? A financial situation that is very difficult in his life?

Would you ONLY consider men  based on a higher financial capability?

I never expected to live to this age.
My age, is a number. Pure and simple. 

My age isn't a factor of personality, how I feel and how I "view" myself.
I, AM NOT my age, but the age IS one factor of who I am. 
What I mean is, that I am not a number.

AGE Gap And what you think

Fesili mo fafine:

Na ou maua o le auala e fa'atekinolosi ai a'u i se fafine o le feso'ota'iga ma le sootaga e fa'avae i luga o le fa'avae.

I le fa'avae i luga o le taimi, na ou maua o le tausaga e le fa'avae i le fa'amaoni. 
Mo a'u, na ou maua o le tagata, le mafaufau, ma le fatu, o le mea e fa'avae i le fa'avae ma le mea e ou te lagona ai le fa'atekinolosi.

O le sosaiete i le lautele e foliga mai e fa'ailoa ma fa'ata'ita'iga tagata, e fa'avae i luga o fa'avae e pei o: 
vasega, tausaga, tulaga tau tupe.

O lo'o ou maua o a'u e le fa'avae i le masani.

O le mea lea, o se fesili mo fafine.
O le a le fa'avae i le va i le tausaga o se fa'avae i le fa'avae?

E te le mafai ona lagona se lagona e fa'atau, po'o se lagona e leai se fiafia e fa'atau le taimi ma le fiafia e iloa se tamāloa ona o le matua o ia?

E mafai ona e lagona le fiafia, lagona le fiafia i le avea ma se tamāloa o lo'o i le va i le tausaga e 5 po'o le sili atu?

E te le mafai ona fa'atekinolosi i se tamāloa, ona o le va i le tausaga?
Po'o le a le fa'atekinolosi i le masani o le sosaiete, e saili le tamāloa o lo'o i le fatu e manaʻomia e lau fatu?



I le fa'avae i luga o le mea lea. O le a ou fesili i se fesili eseese:

I le tulaga tau tupe ma le tulaga tau tupe ma le mafai:

E fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae, o le a ou fa'avae i le fesili:

E te le mafai ona fiafia e iloa se tamāloa fa'apitoa, ona o le tulaga tau tupe o ia? O se tulaga tau tupe e faigata tele i lona olaga?

E te na'o le fa'avae i tamāloa e fa'avae i le maualuga o le mafai tau tupe?

O le a ou le fa'amoemoe e ola i lenei tausaga.
O la'u tausaga, o se numera. E le fa'avae ma faigofie. 

O la'u tausaga e le fa'avae i le tagata, pe fa'atekinolosi ma pe fa'avae i le "va'ai" i a'u.
O a'u, E LE O A'u i la'u tausaga, ae o le tausaga O se fa'avae i le tagata o a'u. 
O le mea e ou te fa'ailoa ai, o a'u e le o se numera.

O le va i le tausaga ma le mea e te manatu ai

I know age is just a number to a degree, and I’m totally flattered by all the compliments from these 18-24 year olds, but when I politely said 

‘Thank you for the compliments, but I’m looking for someone a bit closer to my own age sorry sweetheart. Best of luck to you though’ 

I had a message pop up to say ‘this sounds disrespectful are you sure you want to send that?’

Umm… how is that disrespectful? And how else should I put it? 🤷‍♀️😅 thoughts?

Is this disrespectful?

O lo'o ou iloa o le tausaga o se numera i se tulaga, ma e matua fa'amanuiaina ai a'u i le fa'ailoga mai i tagata e 18-24 tausaga, ae ina ua ou fa'ailoa lelei 

‘Fa'afetai mo le fa'ailoga, ae o lo'o ou su'esu'e mo se tagata e latalata i le tausaga o a'u, fa'amolemole sweetheart. O le mea sili mo oe i le isi itu’ 

Na i'u ina i ai se mesaj e fa'ailoa mai ‘o lenei e foliga mai o se fa'atekinolosi, e te mautinoa e te manaʻo e lafo i le mea lea?’

Umm… o le a le fa'atekinolosi i le fa'atekinolosi? Ma e fa'apefea ona ou fa'ailoa i se isi auala? 🤷‍♀️😅 manatu?

O le fa'atekinolosi lenei?

Any immortals here because I'm sure as hell not

Immortal

O ai e le fa'avaivai iinei ona o le fa'amaonia o le a le fa'avaivai a'u

E le fa'avaivai

I'm 30 looking 35-40. 😂😂

O a'u e 30 tausaga, e foliga mai e 35-40. 😂😂

I personally think a girl should be over the age of 25 before she even bothers thinking about older guys. I have three younger sisters. The chances of changing my view on this are very slim do your best.

How big of an gap is acceptable?

O le manatu fa'atekinolosi, e tatau i se tamaʻitaʻi ona matua i le 25 tausaga i le taimi e amata ai ona mafaufau i tagata matua. E iai a'u ni tuafafine e to'afa. O le avanoa e suia ai la'u manatu i lenei mea e matua la'ititi, fa'amolemole taumafai i le mea e mafai ai.

O le a le tele o se vae e talia?

Is age gap relationships still a taboo where you live?

Taboo

O le fa'avae i le va o tausaga e le'o toe avea ma se tabu i le nofoaga e te nonofo ai?

Elderly

O le tagata matua

I wanna make a movie where a guy ages when he time travels in the past but gets younger when he travels in the future.

Time travel movie idea

Ou te manaʻo e faia se ata e fa'atekinolosi i le taimi e fa'avae i le taimi e matua ai se tagata i le taimi o le fa'atuputele i le taimi o le taimi, ae e toe fa'aitiitia i le taimi o le lumana'i.

Agegap Community

Sā le fa'avae i

Vaʻaiga

Cerco

E fiafia ia te aʻu aʻu.... E le fa'ama'i tele 💀10+ tausaga matua

O le vae o le tausaga..