Courting Community

Searching for someone real

The problem is real is only defined by what's shown to us. And that's usually the best version a person can show us in the beginning of the courting process. After all that fades into obscurity you usually see the cracks in there armor and ultimately go into Bob the builder mode and try to fix them... read more

i like women but in the same way a knight loves a princess who's destined to the king so instead of courting her he just protects her with his life and honor and then bleeds out in a snowy mountain range

am I the only one who still wish this is how courting is...

I wish for love letters tho...

Old vs new courting / dating as a guy

I'm 23 from the UK, and I think a lot of younger guys (in western countries) are a bit confused as to whether women like more gentlemanly, traditional men who are protective and take initiative, or whether they think it's patronizing / belittling when men try to lead or assist women with things... read more

Question of the Day

Why is it that when courting someone, men have to essentially sell themselves to a woman but women usually don't have to do much? I understand traditions & all but men are "expected" to do a lot early in a relationship, & even before, but women are "expected" to just basically show up. ⭐⭐Mind... read more

Do you ever feel as a guy like it's tough to maintain relationships out of fear that all it takes is ONE wrong word, one lapse in judgement, or for you to act in a way opposite of what the other expects of you so that it's hard to be honest?

People put on a mask to hide how they really feel all the time especially in this politically correct society we live in. So how do you cope under the pressure of feeling like you cant be 100% honest that you have to tip toe around how you really feel or how you really are out of fear of... (edited) read more