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Just testing the waters, any older ladies around?

New here

Ngan nguji cai, aya nu sepuh di sabudeureun?

Anyar di dieu

Hi everyone, new to this community, hardly new to loving age gap relationships. As a Dutchman who lived several years in Poland and currently lives in France, I constantly challenge myself to learn new things and explore new places and people. And somehow I find that same energy with younger people. What is it you are looking for in an age gap relationship?

Perspectives

Hai sadayana, anyar di komunitas ieu, henteu anyar pikeun mikanyaah hubungan jarak umur. Salaku urang Walanda anu cicing sababaraha taun di Polandia sareng ayeuna cicing di Perancis, kuring terus-terusan nantang diri pikeun diajar hal-hal anyar sareng ngajajah tempat sareng jalma anyar. Sareng kumaha ogé kuring mendakan énergi anu sami sareng jalma anu langkung ngora. Naon anu anjeun pilari dina hubungan jarak umur?

Perspektif

Donna 30-55 anni. Nessuna cerca un ragazzo più giovane?

Cerco

Donna 30-55 taun. Teu aya nu milarian budak lalaki anu langkung ngora?

Young boy can date older women no problem 
But when older men date younger girl then i have problem in the society  why so why is unfair 🤔
I am not religious person so religious stay away from this post.
This is for humanity people.

Bocah ngora tiasa ngencan awéwé anu langkung kolot tanpa masalah 
Tapi nalika lalaki anu langkung kolot ngencan budak awéwé anu langkung ngora, kuring gaduh masalah di masarakat, kunaon kitu, kunaon éta henteu adil 🤔
Kuring sanés jalma anu religius, janten anu religius ulah deukeut ka pos ieu.
Ieu pikeun umat manusa.

I like my dudes…. A little tired 💀10+years older

Hapunten éta ngan saukur pilihan abdi 😉

Abdi resep ka lalaki abdi…. Sakedik capé 💀10+taun langkung kolot

Admit you’re old if you remember what this is

Ngaku anjeun kolot lamun anjeun émut naon ieu

If your profile says you're a certain age and you tell me something different chances are I may block you. If I meet you on here I'm going with specifically the info that's on your profile. For example if your profile says your 22 and u message me saying your 28, I'll become suspicious about who you are and I'll assume your a liar and posing as someone you're not to get attention.

Be authentic

Lamun profil anjeun nyebutkeun anjeun umur anu tangtu sareng anjeun nyaritakeun hal anu béda, kamungkinan kuring bakal ngeblok anjeun. Lamun kuring papanggih sareng anjeun di dieu, kuring bakal ngandelkeun khususna informasi anu aya dina profil anjeun. Contona, lamun profil anjeun nyebutkeun anjeun 22 sareng anjeun ngirim pesen ka kuring nyebutkeun anjeun 28, kuring bakal curiga ngeunaan saha anjeun sareng kuring bakal nganggap anjeun bohong sareng nyamar salaku batur anu sanés pikeun meunang perhatian.

Jadilah otentik

You guys are so young.

Anjeun sadayana masih ngora pisan.

Can a 30 year old date a 48 year old if it's possible. Let me know in the comments.

Question

Naha jalma umur 30 taun tiasa ngencan sareng jalma umur 48 taun upami éta mungkin. Béjakeun ka kuring di kolom komentar.

Patanyaan

What age is to old/young for you to date according to how oldyou are right now?

Usia sabaraha anu teuing kolot/ngora pikeun anjeun ngadate nurutkeun sabaraha umur anjeun ayeuna?

My father in heaven is 43 and my mother is 23 when they get married ☺️😅 
End up we are 9 siblings😅🤪

For me it's matter somehow it depends if your matured enough .😅

Bapa kuring di sawarga umur 43 sareng ibu kuring umur 23 nalika aranjeunna nikah ☺️😅 
Akhirna kami 9 sadulur😅🤪

Pikeun kuring éta penting kumaha ogé éta gumantung upami anjeun cukup dewasa.😅

I feel to young to start being a cougar and I feel like people that young (18-27) should live their lives and I'm too old for just fun.(27-45) seems cool but not really interested. (45+) still approaching off young or old enough to be my father seeing if I want to grow older with them. I still review pages to see if compatible or they actually had something to say but most times I feel the same after interacting with them

What is your age gap do or don't and why

Kuring ngarasa teuing ngora pikeun ngamimitian janten cougar sareng kuring ngarasa yén jalma anu ngora (18-27) kedah ngalaman hirupna sareng kuring teuing kolot pikeun ngan saukur senang. (27-45) sigana keren tapi henteu bener-bener kabetot. (45+) masih deukeut ka anu ngora atanapi cukup kolot pikeun janten bapak kuring ningali upami kuring hoyong ngagedé sareng aranjeunna. Kuring masih marios halaman pikeun ningali upami cocog atanapi aranjeunna sabenerna gaduh hal anu kedah diucapkeun tapi kalolobaan waktos kuring ngarasa sami saatos berinteraksi sareng aranjeunna.

Naon jarak umur anjeun, ngalakukeun atanapi henteu sareng kunaon

What is the youngest and oldest age you will consider dating? Why?

Youngest/Oldest

Naon umur nu paling ngora jeung nu paling kolot nu anjeun bakal pertimbangkeun pikeun ng约? Kunaon?

Nu Paling Ngora/Nu Paling Kolot

Question for the ladies:

I found that how I get attracted to a woman is by the connection and the bond that is built.

With that, I found with time that age is ≠ compatibility. 
For myself, I found that the personality, mind, and heart, is what truly has the affect and what I feel attraction for.

Society in general seems to label and categorize people, by factors like: 
race, age, financial situation.

I find that I am not like the typical.

So, this is a question for the ladies.
Would age gap be a decision factor?

Would you not have a feeling to invest, or feeling of no interest to invest time and interest to get to know a man because he is older?

Could you be comfortable, feel comfortable with, being with a man with age gap of 5 or more years?

Would you dismiss to talk to a man, because of the age gap?
Or would you dismiss the society typical expectations, to find the man with the heart that your heart needs?



With that. I will ask a different question:

Financially and financial situation and capability:

To make this simple, I will be direct with my question:

Would you NOT be interested to get to know a specific man, because of his financial situation? A financial situation that is very difficult in his life?

Would you ONLY consider men  based on a higher financial capability?

I never expected to live to this age.
My age, is a number. Pure and simple. 

My age isn't a factor of personality, how I feel and how I "view" myself.
I, AM NOT my age, but the age IS one factor of who I am. 
What I mean is, that I am not a number.

AGE Gap And what you think

Pertanyaan pikeun para wanoja:

Kuring mendakan yén cara kuring narik perhatian ka hiji wanoja nyaéta ku hubungan sareng ikatan anu dibangun.

Kalayan éta, kuring mendakan yén umur henteu ≠ kasaluyuan.
Pikeun kuring, kuring mendakan yén kepribadian, pikiran, sareng hati, nyaéta anu sabenerna mangaruhan sareng anu kuring rasakeun narik perhatian.

Masyarakat sacara umum sigana nglabel sareng ngategorikeun jalma, ku faktor sapertos:
ras, umur, kaayaan finansial.

Kuring mendakan yén kuring henteu sapertos anu biasa.

Jadi, ieu mangrupikeun pertanyaan pikeun para wanoja.
Naha beda umur bakal janten faktor kaputusan?

Naha anjeun henteu ngagaduhan perasaan pikeun investasi, atanapi perasaan henteu minat pikeun investasi waktos sareng minat pikeun kenal sareng hiji lalaki sabab anjeunna langkung kolot?

Naha anjeun tiasa ngarasa nyaman, ngarasa nyaman sareng, janten sareng hiji lalaki anu gaduh beda umur 5 taun atanapi langkung?

Naha anjeun bakal ngaleungitkeun pikeun ngobrol sareng hiji lalaki, sabab beda umur?
Atau naha anjeun bakal ngaleungitkeun ekspektasi masyarakat anu biasa, pikeun mendakan lalaki anu ngagaduhan hati anu diperyogikeun ku hatimu?



Kalayan éta. Kuring bakal naroskeun pertanyaan anu béda:

Finansial sareng kaayaan finansial sareng kamampuan:

Pikeun nyederhanakeun ieu, kuring bakal langsung sareng pertanyaan kuring:

Naha anjeun TIDAK bakal minat pikeun kenal sareng hiji lalaki khusus, sabab kaayaan finansialna? Kaayaan finansial anu pisan hese dina hirupna?

Naha anjeun ngan bakal nganggap lalaki dumasar kana kamampuan finansial anu langkung luhur?

Kuring henteu pernah ngarep-ngarep hirup dugi ka umur ieu.
Umur kuring, nyaéta angka. Murni sareng basajan.

Umur kuring sanés faktor kepribadian, kumaha kuring ngarasa sareng kumaha kuring "ningali" diri kuring.
Kuring, HENTEUN umur kuring, tapi umur nyaéta salah sahiji faktor anu janten diri kuring.
Naon anu kuring maksud nyaéta, yén kuring sanés angka.

Beda Umur Jeung naon anu anjeun pikirkeun

I know age is just a number to a degree, and I’m totally flattered by all the compliments from these 18-24 year olds, but when I politely said 

‘Thank you for the compliments, but I’m looking for someone a bit closer to my own age sorry sweetheart. Best of luck to you though’ 

I had a message pop up to say ‘this sounds disrespectful are you sure you want to send that?’

Umm… how is that disrespectful? And how else should I put it? 🤷‍♀️😅 thoughts?

Is this disrespectful?

Kuring terang umur ngan saukur angka dina tingkatna, sareng kuring bener-bener kagum ku sagala pujian ti jalma-jalma umur 18-24 taun, tapi nalika kuring sopan nyarios

‘Hatur nuhun pikeun pujianna, tapi kuring milarian batur anu langkung deukeut ka umur kuring sorangan, hapunten sayang. Mugi anjeun sukses’ 

Kuring ngagaduhan pesen anu mucunghul nyarios ‘ieu katingalina teu hormat, naha anjeun yakin hoyong ngirim éta?’

Umm… kumaha ieu teu hormat? Sareng kumaha deui kuring kedah nyatakeunana? 🤷‍♀️😅 pamikiran?

Naha ieu teu hormat?

Any immortals here because I'm sure as hell not

Immortal

Aya nu abadi di dieu sabab kuring yakin pisan henteu.

I'm 30 looking 35-40. 😂😂

Abdi 30 katingal 35-40. 😂😂

I personally think a girl should be over the age of 25 before she even bothers thinking about older guys. I have three younger sisters. The chances of changing my view on this are very slim do your best.

How big of an gap is acceptable?

Kuring pribadi mikir yén hiji gadis kedah langkung ti umur 25 taun sateuacan anjeunna nganggap lalaki anu langkung kolot. Kuring gaduh tilu adi anu langkung ngora. Kasempetan pikeun ngarobih pandangan kuring ngeunaan ieu pisan leutik, lakukeun anu pangsaéna.

Sabaraha gedé jarak anu tiasa ditampi?

Is age gap relationships still a taboo where you live?

Taboo

Naha hubungan jarak umur masih jadi tabu di tempat anjeun cicing?

Tabu

Elderly

Naha kuring katingali langkung saé nalika kolot? lol

Lansia

I wanna make a movie where a guy ages when he time travels in the past but gets younger when he travels in the future.

Time travel movie idea

Abdi hoyong nyieun pilem dimana hiji lalaki sepuh nalika anjeunna perjalanan waktu ka jaman baheula tapi janten ngora nalika anjeunna perjalanan ka jaman hareup.

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Perspektif

Cerco

Abdi resep ka lalaki abdi…. Sakedik capé 💀10+taun langkung kolot

Ngaku anjeun kolot lamun anjeun émut naon ieu

Beda umur..