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ryd

15h

ISTJ

Gemini

54

commitment without intimacy

Commitment without intimacy is when someone stays—by words, labels, or obligation—but keeps their emotional or physical distance. It looks like: Promises without presence Loyalty without vulnerability “I’m here” without being there It often feels heavier than being alone, because you’re... read more

Kelly

1d

INTJ

Aquarius

87

I'm watching the last 2 episodes of season 1. I'm just not into the characters as much as other anime it's good, but just not feeling any connection to the characters. Anyone else feel this way?

eli

6d

INFP

Scorpio

the awkwardness of beginnings

i just can't do the slow getting to know each other. i am either all or nothing. 'we will see where this leads' doesn't exist to me because i am not into maybe's. maybe is a no for me. the connection is either there or it isn't. i don't like first dates. i prefer to text for a month or even more,... read more

André

26d

ENFJ

Pisces

23

Found a friend today

Sat and stared at each other for a little while sharing a Christmasy thought connection 🤫✨

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12d

ISFP

Cancer

45

Don't be used as the introverted friend for people to trauma dump on.

People who like to yap about themselves and their own problems. Don't settle for being the emotional weight blanket friend. If they're not asking questions about you then it's not a mutual connection. Unless you don't mind being a therapist.

Chani

1mo

INTJ

Libra

34

Alone but still loved

Being single and without connection or family during the holidays is really rough. But I still got dressed up even if it's just for me.

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