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The disconnect between Anxious and Avoidant

I occasionally see shade thrown at people who have avoidant tendencies, usually by those who have anxious attachment tendencies. So allow me to put some words to it in hopes of promoting more understanding. Avoidant attachment doesn’t mean someone is bad at relationships or doesn’t want them, it... read more

Stai recitando per una platea vuota.

Esiste un fenomeno chiamato 'Effetto Spotlight': crediamo che gli altri notino ogni nostro errore, ogni dettaglio stonato. In realtà sono tutti troppo occupati a pensare lo stesso di sé stessi. Quante decisioni hai preso per paura dello sguardo degli altri? 👁️

You, do you know who you are?

Being with someone should Never be a substitute for your growth or path. Let them come in your life to help not shift the spotlight. Take charge of your life by choosing responsibility. There's nothing as good as doing something yourself, because then when there is a failure, there's hope to try... read more

Can someone explain the Spotlight thing in here please?

Are they supposed to be the most compatible souls? 🤔

When Sacrifice Isn't Enough 💭✍🏻

“Obedience is better than sacrifice.” I’ve come across this verse before—sometimes overheard from my mom in passing, other times spotted in something she shared, or seen written in a book, a devotional, or even just floating across my screen somewhere. It wasn’t always said to me directly, but it... read more

My Boys!

Frankie is not impressed that Filbert stole his spotlight! 😂