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Ups and Downs

Life is full of ups and downs, and I try to accept both with equal grace. The hard times taught me strength, and the happy times taught me gratitude. I’m thankful for both, because they made me who I am.

Number

Age is just a number, because before death we are all equal. Death never chooses who is older or who is younger.

All equal to 0

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I’ve reached a point where I truly appreciate the value of a committed, equal partnership. I’m settled and looking for 'my person'—an independent woman who wants to build a life together. Whether we are enjoying a cozy everyday routine or planning our next holiday, I'm looking for a meaningful,… read more

The center of the universe

I always read no one is the center of the universe People have other lives, and not everything is about you And I agree with that But sometimes I wonder What being priority mean then? Is it just like I have a life and your just part of it Or I have a life and I can make time for you? Doesn't that… read more

The healer

I never fully realized it until today... but my brain and my soul operate on a very unique frequency..🌾🌾 I am someone who naturally remembers the exact parameters of people’s emotional trauma, childhood wounds, and deepest life struggles with absolute, unshakeable precision. It doesn't matter if… read more

Just wondering... how many bridesmaids and groomsmen are you supposed to have? Do the numbers have to be equal on both sides, or is there a strict rule for this? Anyone who knows, please let me know! 🙏🙏🙏🙏

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“He felt that the last couple of hours had somehow been drifting past him without his feet touching the bottom, and for a moment he experienced a strangely comforting feeling that his life was completely out of his control and therefore, whatever happened, no one could possibly blame him.” "Equal… read more

true happiness

I just have to find something to do, but there's nothing to do that's beneficial and equal to work. You get money, you get knowledge, you get experience, so I love the job, haha.

Whether street-born or a pure breed, both are voiceless. Both deserve equal love and respect. 🐱✨

When individuals claim to be “drama free,” what I hear is: “I’m not connected to humanity.”

If you’ve chosen to state, “no drama” on your bio, what does that mean for you? Life is our lived experiences. Sometimes people get cancer. Does cancer equal “drama?” Sometimes humans are obligated to deal with situations out of their control. Does this mean “drama?” If yes and you claim to be… (edited) read more

Before becoming friends, we were just NPCs in each other's lives

I often have sudden whims and engage in extensive socializing, but then I don't want to see any information. I just want to be alone, watching movies under the covers and pondering why I always do unnecessary things Actually, I know I have enough friends and they are sincere enough, but I still… read more

If you and I open a company, it is normal for the effort exerted by both parties to be equal in order for the company to succeed and flourish. The same relationship requires effort from both parties. Simply put, this is how relationships succeed. As for anything else, it will fail. It is just a ma

Pre-inflation

Government insists on having a weaker dollar. America has an entitlement issue....low skill, high pay, no wage growth. The accumulation of wealth comes exponentially, not linearly and even experienced investors/traders aren't running their data logarithmically. It should be alarming at how many… read more

My cheat sheet for MBTI profiles.

So... today I found myself not fully happy with MBTI profiles' explanations and a clarity of their distinctions. Few free hours and a pile of GPT tokens later here is what I managed to compress them into (as always, compression is not lossless, so keep in mind that it had its price too). Don't… read more

The "Vicky Mendoza Diagonal" explained...

Rule 1: Love interest ("eros") is maintained if the level of physical attractiveness is greater than or equal to her level of craziness Rule 2: As time passes, if unchecked (by her), her craziness always grows, but her physical attractiveness fades... Self-reflection + therapy may help. (edited)

When you realize...

decades ago I got Chessmaster 10th edition. Went through all the tutorials. I now understand enough of the game to know why I'm terrible at it. I inherently want to move fast, not giving the enemy time to strike. But timing doesn't play in to chess as its turn based, not time based. Also in… read more

Growing up

Times have changed so much, majority young people before the information age didn't know stress/depression till after real exposure to the physical world. But now the mental health of young people with no apparent physicality are equal to people who lived through real traumatic experiences. Why… read more

Long Distance Relationship: for me🌍🌎🌏

For me, a long-distance relationship is not an obstacle at all; otherwise, I wouldn't be here. It’s because I want to explore the big wide world and make friends from all over the globe, and more importantly, I want to find my soulmate. I used to date someone who proved to me that long distance or… read more

I Hope Someday I Can Be Someone’s Home

A Prayer to Be the Woman Who Loves Him, Supports Him, Stands Beside Him and Is His Safe Place ❤️ May God help me become the kind of woman who brings peace, warmth, and stability into her husband’s life May I appreciate his efforts, respect his responsibilities, and never take for granted the life… read more

Different coat, equal damage.

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Would you rather

You have 2 people to pick from: One is romantically leading you on for a fun fantasy that won't last more than 3 months. It's enjoyable for the unpredictability, the way they act like you could lose them at any moment, and they turn hot and cold on you, so the dopamine hits hard with consistent… read more

No relationship is ever a waste of your time🌻🍀✨🫂💖

I was once in a relationship that almost led to marriage, but it ended because he moved on. People often tell me I wasted six years, but I see it as a lesson learned. It taught me to ensure my next love isn't like the last. I choose to love and value myself now, and I won't let anyone diminish who… (edited) read more

Pokeball!

Here's my teeny little baby pokeball I just finished 🥹 I'll be pairing it with the Magikarp hat I made. I've pieced together a whole little pokemon fisherman cosplay lol. Patterns are Ms Premise-Conclusion's "Ideal Sphere" guide, and AradiyaToys' "pokeball" pattern. Meshing the two took some… (edited) read more

Sometimes you really want to talk to someone, and even when there’s a language barrier, you still try.

You search for the right words, translate sentences, simplify your thoughts, repeat yourself in different ways and anything just to keep the conversation alive. Effort becomes your bridge when language fails. But there comes a quiet moment when you start to notice something. You’re the one trying… read more

Which terrorist group did that?!

Sometimes I wonder about the direction of our civilization. 🌍 We live in a world facing enormous challenges: climate change, environmental degradation, rapidly growing populations, and limited resources. These are problems that clearly require cooperation between all of us as humans. Yet we… read more

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Poor or rich, death makes us all equal. ~German Proverb

Huh

Matching is not equal to fall in love quickly. Why on earth do some men keep misunderstanding that kind of simple facts? And are my boundaries considered as past trauma? What the heck? I will never be your lover if you skip building decent bond. Be human being.

Self quality invites equal love

hopefully 2026 will be better

Pitying people

Maybe I’ve just seen too much, but I no longer feel pity for people. Hardship happens to everyone and we don’t always get to pick the flavor. If you have a pet, one day you will have to say goodbye. If you love someone, you’re going to have some kind of conflict. But outside of those little… (edited) read more

The rate at which men make me loose interest in them....is equal to the rate at which I will start following celibacy soon

Responsibility is non-negotiable

The same goes for relationships.. I want a partner who can handle their own responsibilities I'm looking for an equal partner.. not someone I have to raise, manage, or carry through life

Rejection is protection, clarity is kindness

Holding someone who doesn't want to fight will only be torture in the long run. Now I understand that it was not chosen not because we are lacking, but because it is not equal. Stop lamenting his decision. ACCEPT HIS CHOICE, CLOSE THE CHAPTER AND KEEP MOVING FORWARD WITH YOUR OWN STRENGTH

Strong minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, weak minds discuss people

According to the lines, people who are intellectually curious like to explore ideas. They don't just focus on what's happening today, but ask questions like-what can make society more equal, what makes a good leader? What makes people happy? Idea-based discussions inspire creativity, innovation and… read more

Feminist bias

Do you have a feminist bias while considering a potencial partner? I do, I want a partner that sees me as an equal and not as an asset or an object, I want someone who's cultural background already has certain openess towards females.

What is that smell?

Everybody is supposed to have a pair they say but I have never met my equal. Nobody is beneath me but nobody is above me either. Regardless of what status anybody has I will always treat them like they are my equal not above me not below me. That being said... I will be a breath of fresh air… read more

Nothing is ever strictly equal; there is always 'more' or 'less.' One side naturally gives more in certain areas, while the other receives more in others. This means that even if two things are unbalanced, as long as they fit together perfectly, it will last.