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The world ends and you’re the only remaining alive person, what are you about to do?

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I’m trying 🖤

Guys which one do you prefer ?

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Allow yourself the space to make mistakes and learn without fear or shame. Authenticity isn’t about perfection; it’s about showing up, flaws and all.

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When you don’t feel good about yourself, it’s tough to connect with others. Conversations can become awkward and draining, making social interactions feel like a chore. 

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If you don't have a good relationship with yourself, connecting with others will feel like an uphill battle.

Choosing silence over drama can help us avoid unnecessary stress. Instead of arguing or escalating a situation, taking a step back allows us to think clearly and respond thoughtfully.

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Silence is better than drama.

What's an addiction you had that was real bad but you were finally able to overcome?

When you lose something, you gain something in return. Life is about exchanges. This could mean new people entering your life or acquiring newfound knowledge that you didn't have before.

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You always get something in return.

Don't waste sunsets with people who will be gone by sunrise.

Get to know better about yourself😊

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Fuq yeah...

I've been talking to someone lately who has been so good to me. I feel like we are getting closer to one another.

I used to have major trust and avoidance issues due to personal trauma. I've been through a lot of therapy on my own.

I feel like some of the fear response keeps flairing up, but I'm aware of it and I don't feel like it controls me anymore.

I've been able to communicate with this person what my fears and insecurities are and they keep saying and doing things that soothe those parts of me. I haven't asked for any of this. It's such a good feeling.

They've suffered from a lot of the same issues and they told me that I do a lot of the same for them.

Fight or Flight Response

Intelligence is like being flexible in your thinking. It involves understanding new information, making decisions based on changing circumstances, and finding solutions when things don’t go as planned

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Intelligence is the capacity for adaptation.

Sometimes, in difficult moments, what we need most isn’t advice or ready-made solutions, but simply someone who will listen. 
Genuine understanding and empathy open the path to healing – the feeling of being heard gives us the strength to start rebuilding.

By giving space for honest conversations, we can offer support that means more than we may realize.

People start to heal the moment they feel heard

How do you make this distinction between each type? What are the dead giveaways? How to spot each of them? 

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Good Guy vs Bad Guy & Nice Guy VS "Nice Guy"

External motivation provides short-term boosts through rewards and recognition, whereas inner motivation arises from personal passion and values. Inner motivation brings fulfillment and builds resilience.

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Outside motivation is temporary, while inner motivation is long-lasting.

𝙄𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙡𝙤𝙬, 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩. ☕

Seeing everyone chase these curated lives makes me wonder if we’ve forgotten what real happiness even looks like 💭

All to real 💀

The thoughts of my mortality and dying alone ruminate constantly in the last few months. I am clean and sober. So no way to numb my mind. Not that it would help. Any suggestions?

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Everything Gone Apart. 

Again and Again.

A quick visit to the famous location in hongkong "the Peak"

A victory that hasn't witnessed by the enemy is not a victory at all.

What's that one thing that keeps you going in hard times?

People experience mental discomfort when their beliefs and behaviors conflict, often leading them to change one to align with the other. This can explain why people sometimes hold onto irrational beliefs even when presented with evidence against them.

Cognitive Dissonance

Prioritizing your self-worth will attract people who appreciate you for who you truly are. 

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Learn to value yourself even if it means losing people.

A lot to do with all living things is their perceptions! Wild animals will attack or run when approached because they are pushed into perceiving life in survival mode: eat, survive, breed. They are consistently in danger, and this is their world and their perception most of the time. But to come across someone that helps them and is eventually trusted by the wild one, then the animal gains a new view, a calm to advance how they perceive that person or animal. I feel like animals are a lot smarter than what we think. Sure, we use food to train, but it’s deeper than that.

Now with people, most of the time any conflict, debate, argument, or domestic dispute with loved ones is a clash between two beliefs or perceptions that they have been conditioned to or have experienced certain situations and scenarios while growing up. This gives them a certain view on life. A fair percentage of people have the best interests at heart, but their morals are in different places, which may clash with others. For instance, you could both be trying to achieve the same goal or explain the same outcome, but how the other person says it doesn’t make sense because their world doesn’t run like that. Another thing is how you perceive what they are saying, and your mood can affect that. Someone could be angry, for instance, and you could write the nicest message, but because it's long and they are in an angry state, they will perceive the message in a negative way.

I will use fear as an example: if someone’s scared, you, shown you an emotion that you’ve had trauma with in the past even though that person is different and expresses themselves differently. Someone that's generally really cares about someone a lot and is being benevolent or even altruistic towards them but is perceived as manipulative, condescending, naive, gullible, or duplicitous. Also, like if someone is a worry wart and overly cares, which drives them to check up on where the cared-for person is frequently to ease their mind but is interpreted as jealous, controlling, or not trusting them.

Now let's combine them: they both have their fears and experiences that lead them to different perceptions. The worry wart's general care and way of showing it conflict and do the opposite reaction. The more she gets fed up and lacks in response, the more worried he gets; the fear ignites, and the more controlling he seems. Even though they both love each other, their boundaries conflict and cause misperception. She doesn’t want to be controlled, and he doesn’t want to lose her, thus the love feels weak. His view is, "how can you not worry or contact me, she mustn’t truly care," and hers is, "I won’t push and check on him because I trust him." Now they both have trust but perceive it differently. He sees being worried as caring or loving; she sees worry as distrust but shows her care in a different way. Her love is trust, trusting him to go about his day. Maybe the less she asks for the whereabouts means the more respect or trust she offers due to previous toxic relationships but for him, it can be perceived as disrespect and being uncared for. This can also lead him to start distrusting her. He might think, “why can’t she just let me know and ease my mind” while she's thinking, “why can't he respect my boundaries.”

Clear and effective communication, especially when discussing emotional topics, is crucial for ensuring messages are correctly perceived and understood. In-person communication is considered to have the best chance of conveying emotions and intentions accurately, with a perceived effectiveness rate of 93%. However, even in face-to-face interactions, various factors such as individual perceptions, emotions, and external circumstances can influence the communication process and potentially lead to misinterpretations. Video calls are rated at around 55% effectiveness, followed by phone calls at 45%, and text messaging at approximately 7%.

The impact of emotions on interpretation is particularly significant, as our feelings can color how we receive and process information. Emotions can play a role in filtering the content of a message, focusing more on the emotional tone rather than the actual words used. This subjective interpretation can lead to misunderstandings, even in well-written messages from someone we care about or regarding something important to us.

Here is an example illustrating how emotions and perceptions can influence the interpretation of a message:

- Initial Message: "I thought you said I could go over to theirs tomorrow, I didn’t steal the car. I got confused when you asked if I was going there to play games and I said no to do homework, you said oh ok. So I naturally thought you just didn’t want me playing games there and that I assumed it was alright to go there."
- Alternative Interpretation due to Emotional Bias: "You said I could go over theirs tomorrow, I didn’t steal the car. I got confused you asked if I was playing games and I said no homework, you said it’s ok, so I thought no playing games there was the assumption and that it was alright."
- Misunderstanding and Accusation: "Leads to you just talking your way out of it, you stole the car and disrespected, and twisting it onto me, saying I said you could."
- Clarification and Apology: "No, I'm not. I said I thought you said it was alright in the last convo; sorry, I misunderstood."
- Alternative Clarification: "No, I'm not; you said it was alright in the last convo; sorry, you misunderstood."

It’s always about how you perceive or the perception you have that dictates a lot about many things and drama in life. This extends from religions, warring over whose god or which story is correct. When in reality, it’s how stories have been perceived over time. They worship and originate from the same religion but over the years, through many different perceptions, the stories have been dictated, changed, and misperceived. Instead of focusing on individual words in the book or dwelling on misinterpretations and perceptions, it can be more productive to accept that you all have the same goal but perhaps have different ways of perceiving it. In my perception, God wouldn’t want you killing each other over it. If your god or religion commands that, maybe try seeking guidance directly rather than solely relying on sources like preachers or influences. It’s crucial to trust your own perceptions and interpretations instead of allowing external influences to control your perceptions. Past instances where individuals have used religious beliefs to control people’s perceptions demonstrate the significance of individual discernment. Beware of how external factors can impact your perceptions, including your own introspection. Don't be afraid to expand your mind and allow your perception to evolve. Be mindful of how others may view your perception; they could offer pieces of the puzzle that contribute to a greater understanding of life and each other.
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Perception!

Bound in our own reality can't be free easily 😬

You're always welcome in my shared spaces. You don't have to suffer in silence. Community is at your fingertips. Metta

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Peer Support on the Web

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Consider for a moment, that instead of having a Freak on a Leash, you just took off my leash?

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Being patient doesn't mean you're passive; it means you're wise enough to wait for the right moment. It means you're not afraid to take your time, to persevere through challenges, and to trust the process. It takes discipline to be steady, and to be persistent.

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It's ok to be patient

On B00, it's important to be mindful of the interactions we choose to engage with, particularly those that involve negative or inflammatory content. Posts by men, or anyone, for that matter, that claim negative aspects about women are designed to provoke and incite conflict. These posts are often created by individuals who are not genuinely interested in constructive dialogue but are instead seeking to draw unsuspecting women into a web of negativity and frustration.

Understanding the Motivation

It's important to recognize the underlying motivation behind these posts. The individuals who create them are often looking for any form of attention, using inflammatory statements as a means to vent their own frustrations. By engaging with such posts, you risk being pulled into a fruitless argument where the other party is not interested in understanding or resolving issues but rather in perpetuating conflict.

The Importance of Non-Engagement

Avoiding engagement with these posts is not a sign of weakness; it is a strategic choice for your own well-being. Responding to negativity often only fuels the fire, providing the instigator with the attention they crave. Instead, choose to either block or ignore such individuals. By stepping away, you protect your peace and demonstrate that you will not be manipulated into unnecessary drama.

A Clear Example of Toxicity

Consider a scenario where a woman is drawn into a conversation, only to be met with dismissive comments like "who asked you." This interaction exemplifies the type of toxic behavior that should be avoided. Engaging with such individuals only perpetuates their negative behavior and detracts from your own mental health and happiness.

Focus on Constructive Interactions

At B00, the users strive for a community that uplifts and supports one another, free from the shackles of negativity and conflict. Let this serve as a reminder to focus on constructive interactions that foster understanding and growth. Avoid those who seek to bring others down, and instead, surround yourself with positivity and kindness.

By making conscious choices about who we engage with online, we can contribute to a more respectful and supportive digital environment. Prioritize your well-being and let those who thrive on negativity wallow in their own fumes.

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Avoiding Engagement with Negative Posts

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First off, it's important to recognize that when someone claims they are not interested in "smart women," it often reveals more about their own insecurities and intentions than it does about the women they criticize. Psychological research indicates that manipulative individuals frequently avoid intelligent women because these women are more difficult to deceive and control. Intelligent women tend to possess self-confidence and the ability to see through manipulative tactics, qualities that threaten those who seek to exert control over others.

By suggesting a preference for women who are submissive and possibly financially well-off, it becomes apparent that the goal is not to build a genuine, respectful partnership but rather to find someone who can be easily dominated. Such attitudes are red flags for potential manipulation and exploitation, behaviors that are harmful and dangerous in any relationship. Women should be cautious of individuals who exhibit these tendencies, as they often lead to toxic and damaging dynamics. It is important to prioritize relationships built on mutual respect, understanding, and equality, steering clear of those who seek to undermine these values.

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OMG, where do I even start with such behavior...😳

The hero in your story is yourself. No one is going to save you. We are here to evolve, not to depend on others.

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Your hero is you

A Boo community for meeting other Psychology enthusiasts.

Psychology Community

The world ends and you’re the only remaining alive person, what are you about to do?

I’m trying 🖤

Guys which one do you prefer ?

Allow yourself the space to make mistakes and learn without fear or shame. Authenticity isn’t about perfection; it’s about showing up, flaws and all.

If you don't have a good relationship with yourself, connecting with others will feel like an uphill battle.

Silence is better than drama.

Yours favourite?

What’s your secret talent? ✨

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depression self-care (I will leave the house for the first time in two weeks)

Self-acceptance

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