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Happy 2025 🥳

I never learn 🙄

Ladies, if you're truly seeking a genuine connection this year, I have a few suggestions for you. I've observed that many of you tend to post selfies and then wait for men to initiate contact. While this approach might attract attention, it's often from those interested in superficial interactions, leading to immediate romantic advances without establishing a meaningful connection.

If you seek this kind of attention, feel free to continue. It can serve as a confidence boost, and there's nothing wrong with that if it suits your current needs. However, if your goal is to form a genuine connection, consider these approaches:

1) Craft Engaging Content:
Instead of focusing solely on selfies, try sharing posts that invite intellectual engagement. This approach encourages interactions based on shared interests and deeper insights.

2) Engage Proactively:
Explore profiles of individuals who express interests or values that resonate with you. By reaching out to those you feel a connection with, you can bypass the overwhelming influx of superficial messages.

3) Be Selective:
Taking the initiative allows you to filter potential connections, reducing the likelihood of receiving unwanted messages that don't align with your desires.

Many of you express frustration with receiving messages that feel shallow or uninspired. By adopting a proactive strategy, you might find it easier to cultivate the genuine connections you seek.

#psychology #relationship #single #philosophy #boo #friends #boofriend #friendship #self #love #romance #selfiee

Finding Genuine Connections

Your tongue is your worst enemy!!!

I love that evil cloud’s smile:))

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Meaningful Connection

"Sometimes you don't feel the weight of something you've been carrying until you feel the weight of its release."

Dang it, guys.  Why am I more attractive to men than women?  I don’t like guys that way, but it seems that guys like me more than girls.  What’s up with that?  Any advice?

I only attract men…

memes

Me, to me, when the anxiety hits

Fate

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Not so photogenic but love to click

surrender to yourself and trust the process.

Growth

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meditation

When facing difficulty turn within. This is what the One of the Five Great Emporers of Rome did. Marcus Aurelius was the ruler of the known world and he could turn to nobody else. This is what he said:

"Men seek retreats for themselves - in the country, by the sea, in the hills - and you yourself are particularly prone to this yearning. But all this is quite unphilosophic, when it is open to you, at any time you want, to retreat into yourself. No retreat offers someone more quiet and relaxation than that into his own mind, especially if he can dip into thoughts there which put him at immediate and complete ease: and by ease I simply mean a well-ordered life. So constantly give yourself this retreat, and renew yourself. The doctrines you will visit there should be few and fundamental, sufficient at one meeting to wash away all your pain and send you back free of resentment at what you must rejoin."

Marcus Aurelius

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Turn within.

Sometimes when people speak, they speak for themselves...

The hero

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Every day is a blank canvas paint it with intention, courage, and love, knowing that the masterpiece is yours to define. ✨️

Took a 2nd Myers Briggs test someplace else and it came out ESTJ as opposed to the ENFJ I got here. What's funny is that both types are incompatible. Also had somebody comment that I seem like a person that fits multiple archetypes. "Curiouser and curiouser" as Alice would say

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Reminder!

The level I've reached of talking to myself is crazy, I even switch accents sometimes

What makes The Queen the most powerful chess piece is its maneuverability and range. Its able to capture an enemy piece by moving onto an occupied space, if the player is able to anticipate potential blocking paths and bypass them, while making unevitable sacrifices along the way

Random fact

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The best is yet to come... So never give up!

Things can change in the blink of an eye.

Pause, reflect and show up with curiosity.

There is power in acceptance and repair.

Release the weight of expectations.

You are constantly evolving.

Every soul is a mirror, revealing where you 
need to heal, change and grow.

Life is unpredictable  and that its beauty.
One moment can change everything... So stay 
open, stay hopeful, and trust in the magic of 
possibility.

In the stillness, clarity is born. So take a moment 
to pause, reflect on what's unfolding and your 
reactions, and approach life with curiosity as it's 
where growth begins.

Healing doesn't mean perfection, instead it 
means accepting what is and choosing to repair 
with love, patience, and courage. Your power 
lies in the rebuilding.

Let go of how you think life should be and make 
space for how it's meant to unfold. Releasing expectations frees your heart to embrace the 
present.

Growth is not linear, but it is constant. So 
celebrate the shifts, the progress, and
the beautiful evolution of the person you're 
becoming.

Every connection, whether fleeting or life long, 
carries a message. The people you meet reflect 
where you are and what your soul is ready to 
transform.

Remember... Your beyond enough, just do you,
be yourself and there's always space to improve.
Stay authentic and keep believing things will get
better and brighter! 

So keep going! Cheers to you!

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#feelings #awareness #philosophy #psychology
#peace #kindness #mindset #awareness
#mentalhealth #happiness #love #magic
#motivation #beauty #friends #boo
#goodvibes #positivity #learning #patience

LIFE REFLECTION...🌟💫✨️💖😉🤗🌻🌼

I meant this photo. How blind I was. 🤦🏼‍♀️

You know, it's such a strange feeling when you look at your old photos and see how beautiful you were (and are!), but because of your insecurities you didn't realise it. (ʘ ʖ̯ ʘ)

A couple of days ago I found a photo I took 6 months ago, and I was in a pleasant shock at how beautiful I am in the photo... yes, I am beautiful, but did I feel beautiful then - probably not (｡•́︿•̀｡)

I am so happy that since then I have become more confident and happier because I have started to love and appreciate myself more. And now I can see such beautiful things not only in others, but also in myself! ♡︎ (๑˃ᴗ˂)ﻭ

#confidence #love #mentalhealth

Confidence opens our eyes!

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What’s an opinion most men have that women tend to disagree with and don’t get?

cats

Cats may seem aloof, but #bonding with them can be easier than you think. Research from 2020 reveals that you can communicate with cats by mimicking their unique way of #smiling, through slow blinking.

The Cat Smile

Scientists found that narrowing your #eyes and slow blinking encourages cats to approach you. A Professor of Animal Behavior and Cognition at Sussex, noted that this expression is a way for humans and cats to connect.

Experiments

Two experiments showed that cats respond positively to humans who slow-blink. In the first, cat owners blinked at their #pets, resulting in cats blinking back. In the second, researchers found that unfamiliar cats also responded to slow-blinking and approached extended hands afterward.

Building Relationships

This study highlights how slow blinking can strengthen bonds between humans and cats. While #dogs are openly affectionate, cats are more discerning and reflect their owners' personalities. They recognize their names and form strong connections.

Understanding this #communication can enhance cats' emotional well-being, especially in stressful situations like vet visits or shelters.

How to "Slow Blink" at a Cat

To perform a "slow blink" with a #cat, begin by making gentle eye contact. Gradually close your eyes, holding them shut for a moment longer than usual, then slowly reopen them. This gesture is seen as a positive form of communication in the feline world, symbolizing #trust and #affection, and is often called a "kitty kiss."

Next time you are around your cat or encounter a cat, try slow blinking. You might just start a meaningful exchange!

Every so often, I enjoy creating a post for all my cat-loving boofriends. This post is dedicated to cat enthusiasts and owners who might not yet be familiar with the "slow blink." By mastering this charming gesture, you can enhance your communication with cats and deepen the bond you share with your feline companions.

@Christina @ElissaTrue @Koffy @Nia. @Olga @Thii @Callie @Zahra @S the Nosy Aunt 🦝✨️ @𔓎𝔈𝔯𝔦𝔨𝔞𔓎 @𝓙𝓪𝔂𝓷𝓮 @❤ Sophia aka Mango Mami ❤️ @Ces @Patricia @Sarah @Aspasia @Lu @Marcela 💜 @Mademoiselle Amy 

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Communicating with Your Cat 😻

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and money wasn't an option, what would it be? 
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If you could buy one thing...

Do you have things that help you cope with a bad mood?

Festive season is usually quite hard on folk who don’t have people or a community to spend it with. I keep myself occupied, hoping something better will show up and that something new will revitalise.
Everything is a gamble and coping/trying to heal tears me apart. I’m so stuck. I wish something made it better but I’m swinging between extreme pain and numbness.
Any advice?

Going through a breakup during festive szn

A "Gloomtroller" is a person who habitually finds the negative in any situation and feels compelled to express their dissatisfaction through negative or controversial remarks. They thrive on creating a sense of unease or conflict, often projecting their own unhappiness onto others.

Characteristics of a Gloomtroller

Negative Outlook: They have a tendency to focus on the downsides, often ignoring positive aspects.

Controversial Comments: Frequently express opinions that are contrary or disruptive, aiming to provoke reactions.

Projection of Unhappiness: Often, their behavior stems from dissatisfaction with their own life circumstances.

Persistent Involvement: They feel a need to insert themselves into discussions, regardless of their relevance or necessity.

Desire for Attention: Their remarks often seek to draw attention to themselves, even if it is negative.

Dealing with a Gloomtroller

When you encounter a Gloomtroller, it's advisable to prioritize your own well-being by not engaging with them. These individuals often thrive on negativity and can cause unnecessary emotional distress. Since Gloomtrollers rarely offer uplifting or empathetic interactions, it is entirely reasonable to block them immediately to protect your peace of mind.

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