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Danielle

Posted Saturday, September 17, 2022

ESTP

Red flags🚩🚩

What's the biggest red flag in your opinion?

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One thing I don't think we talk about enough is instinct. I don't know why we do this, but I know on a number of occasions when I was dating my instincts told me something about the situation wasn't right. I would generally ignore it until there was something more tangible. I learned from experience that if something doesn't feel right it isn't and you should listen to yourself. Life will come to you, don't force it.

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Being too friendly

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Communication ( lack of or when they are too in your business)

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Well I looked at worldometers.info and they show some red flags. IMHO, China and morrocco seem to have the most red in their flags

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The phrase I'm not like others. I'm Different. Cuz welp it's always a lie.

Obsessive

Abusive tendencies. It's hard to notice for a lot of people because the early signs can appear to be very loving and endearing, and we're not taught what to watch out for.

Well the Chinese national flag has a whole lot of red onto it

A pessimist thats LGBTQ+ or a SJW, it really annoys me that people dedicate their lives to making things "equal" when all they do is just share negative stuff about it all the time and debate people 24/7

Alternate agenda while dating you.

Someone who only has negative things to day about their exes

Not being family oriented (not including those who went through abusive families). Just those who disrespect and dont care for their own family, especially how they treat their mothers. Its a big value i have since im very close with mine.

Being too friendly

Communication ( lack of or when they are too in your business)

Only remember me if no one chat on him or online

Then always wanting to know who your texting and what about, But don’t return the favor, and gets defensive.

Ego related things. Which could be excessive self involvement, selfishness but also excessive insecurity, self doubt basically all self-related stuff. You don’t want to give more than you receive!

Guys hiding their phone from their partners 🤭

Love bombing

🚩Willfully talking bad about their friends when they aren't there to defend themselves. It makes me wonder what they could possibly be saying to others about /me/ behind my back...

If your partner is not keeping patience with your mistakes and that happens repeatedly... probably he/she is not having that Trust anymore...Beware!!

Dating.

Trust your instincts. Especially if it seems like you are always the one upset or a problem, gaslighting being unfair.

Overly obsessed with poltics

When girl start talking about her neighbor appearance 😅

Probably impulsiveness or reckless thoughts/behavior. I am a calculated person, and I dont like taking risks tbh.

Overthinking

Eye rolling when i say something genuine

Control is an immediate RUN

Smile, because I won't be able to look at her smiling if I don't like how she do it

Seeing flags instead of persons

Denialism. Like no matter of the topic. From simple biology, through astronomy, finishing at economical stuff.

Love bombing, manulation, controlling, abusing. Ignoring the red flags when we saw the warning signs but we ignore it 😒🤦🏻‍♀️

Well I looked at worldometers.info and they show some red flags. IMHO, China and morrocco seem to have the most red in their flags

Pineapple pizza

Someone who isn't honest. I had a guy who was a poser and thought he was real. I ignored the red flags despite noticing them. Biggest red flag is being dishonest and inconsisent

Easy to anger, just doesn't work out well in the long run.

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