After Community

A nerd’s guide to human ambiguity.

Level 1: Free Trial (0–3 months) Features included: * curiosity * novelty * dopamine spikes * frequent replies * “you still up?” energy * mild projection / idealization 😶‍🌫️ Level 2: Intermediate / Stable Build (3+ months) Now the real test begins: * curiosity after familiarity * consistency... read more

Pronatalism ≠ Love or Old Age Care

Mother's Day and Father's Day are easier to see as days when you hate your creators. Bringing life into the world doesn't guarantee you genuine love or geriatric care. My blood grandmother lived her last 15 years in a nursing home despite birthing 8 children. Her funeral wasn't any better. (I... read more

Find me a boyfriend

Like seriously… I just want that person to be okay with calling in silence, minding our own businesses.... Maybe not a boyfriend after all

After work dance trend 😄

After the rain drops

Just enjoying a refreshing glass of sweet tea after all that digging 😆