Thoughtful Community

Thank you to the men!

Just wanted to say thank you to the men on here. Ive been on a lot of other apps just trying to get to know others and this is the first experience I've had where I have only received kind and thoughtful messages, not the usual hateful words here and there. Thanks for being great guys! 🤗

Why are men taught how to treat women… but women rarely get taught how to treat men? 🤔

In modern relationship talk, there’s a very common pattern: 👨 Men get a whole “how to be a good partner” curriculum: ✅ respect her ✅ communicate better ✅ emotional intelligence ✅ consent ✅ plan dates / be thoughtful / “do better” But 👩 women rarely get an equivalent “how to treat a man well”... read more

Beneath the Surface 🪷

She listens close to words exchanged, A gentle rhythm, unexplained. Though distance lies across their days, Her mind drifts through their winding ways. It’s only been a fleeting week, Yet something stirs she cannot speak. A thoughtful calm behind his smile, A quiet pull that stays awhile. Not... read more

I know

I know, I don't look like a single person, and you always judge photos very quickly, which is okay, because this is not the first time a guy has judged me. I am quiet and thoughtful at the same time.

A genuine question, out of curiosity…

What does it feel like to be a woman who is truly at peace with herself? Not performing. Not proving. Not chasing validation. I’m wondering what it’s like to meet someone who can feel deeply without being overwhelmed by her emotions. Someone who can enjoy connection without needing control,... read more

Are we in a permanent stage of "new normal" or will things eventually get back to regular normal?

Everything, from the job market, to rapidly increasing prices, to a stock market completely divorced from the economy, is very different than what I'm used to in this 43 years of life. Is this just the way things are now? Trying to make some thoughtful conversation. I personally think... read more