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#dating

Jelena

21h

INTP

Taurus

Anyone else feel like the type you’re attracted to is never the same type that finds you attractive?

Just a general observation I’ve made of my dating life. It feels like I’m always attracted to men who don’t like me back. And the ones that do like me I find completely unattractive. I wish someone could invent a way to recalibrate our mental attraction. Would make dating so much easier. Thoughts?

#philosophy

Oliver

1d

INFP

Libra

8

7

Thoughts on "Not looking for a relationship actively" ?

Personally I do feel like those who don't search won't find anything, the same way you miss opportunities if you don't take them. Let me be clear, I do see a clear line between desperately running after any woman that gives you the slightest slither of attention and making it known that you are... read more

#dating

Boo

8h

ENFP

Is online dating dead?

Curious what everyone’s thoughts are on the subject. I have some friends and I’m hearing some real horror stories. Are you folks headed back out into the real world to build connections? I personally feels it’s a million times easier in public. - They are real - Will not try to sell you... (edited) read more

#dogs

Mel.

18h

INTJ

Cancer

3

4

⠀❛ no thoughts, just vibes. 🐶

#poetry

🌹

1d

ISFJ

Capricorn

8

7

Why?

When people ask why I post my poems online instead of getting them published, I tell them it’s because writing keeps me grounded. I do it for my own peace, not as a job or to worry about edits and corrections. Maybe one day, when I’m ready and have more experience, I’ll consider publishing. But... read more

#self

Michelle

16h

INFJ

Virgo

8

7

💗

" I am doing okay " doesn ' t mean life is perfect . It means I still have days when I feel empty inside , but I manage to fill my mind with positive thoughts to overcome it . It means sadness is still around the corner waiting for me to let my guard down again , but whether I let it embrace me... read more