Izindawo

Psychology

Coping

coping

My smile fools even my closest people. I'm waiting for it to fool me too. So I keep smiling instead of curling up into a ball and sobbing. I'm sure you've all had the feeling before.....

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Umsindo wami uphoxa ngisho nabantu bami abaseduze. Ngilindele ukuthi uphoxe nami. Ngakho ngiqhubeka nokumamatheka esikhundleni sokuzilungisa njengebhola nokukhala. Ngiyaziqhenya ukuthi nonke nibe nalolo suku ngaphambili.....

Umphezulu

We'd already planned out every last step of the rest of our lives together- we were going to move in together, get married, have babies, raise a family trying our best to be better parents than our own, watch those theoretical children mature into healthier adults than either of us have had the luxury of being, grow old together, and die embracing one another in our final moments; content having lived a happy and fulfilling life.
What do you do when you lose someone you love?

My would-be Fiancé of 7 years left me recently.

Sasivele sihlela zonke izinyathelo zokugcina zokuphila kwethu ndawonye - sasizohamba ndawonye, sishade, sibe nezingane, sikhulise umndeni sizama kakhulu ukuba abazali abangcono kunabo, sibuke lezo zingane ezicabanga zikhula zibe abantu abanempilo engcono kunalokho esikuthokozile, sikhule ndawonye, futhi sife sithokozisa omunye nomunye ezikhathini zethu zokugcina; saneliseka ngokuphila impilo ejabulisayo nenempumelelo.
Uyenzeni uma ulahlekelwa umuntu omthandayo?

Umngani wami owayezoba umyeni wami eminyakeni engu-7 ushiye mina muva nje.

I need a way to cope with being a single parent and hurting. I don't want my kids to know that I'm hurting though. Any advice?

Divorce is finalized.

Ngidinga indlela yokubhekana nokuba ngumzali oyedwa nokulimala. Angifuni izingane zami zazi ukuthi ngiyalimala. Ingabe unayo imiyalo?

Uhlukaniso sekuqediwe.

i could lose a tablets for my ADHD and i'm scared that i could become unsettled again if they change.

how will i cope?

How will i cope?

ngingase ngilahlekelwe ama-tablet ami e-ADHD futhi ngiyesaba ukuthi ngingase ngiphinde ngibe nokungazinzile uma kushintsha.

ngizokwazi kanjani ukuhamba phambili?

Ngizokwazi kanjani ukuhamba phambili?

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Umphezulu

Umngani wami owayezoba umyeni wami eminyakeni engu-7 ushiye mina muva nje.

Uhlukaniso sekuqediwe.

Ngizokwazi kanjani ukuhamba phambili?

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