Umphakathi we-Extremes
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Umphakathi we-extremes, ingxoxo, nokudingida.
25 IMIMOYA
KONKE
extremes
Hlangana Nabantu Abasha
OKULANDAYO
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Noma ngabe ngithola kanjani esimweni engacacile ephathelene nobudlelwano obungaba khona, ngithatha isinyathelo emuva. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kukhona ibanga lomzimba noma cha, ngibheka izincazelo ezincane - ezisebenzelana kwabantu. Kulula ukusho izinto ezikhathalelayo noma ezinhle, kodwa yiziphi…funda kabanzi

Ezindaweni ezijulile zemizwa, lapho ubugebengu bukhona, Uhambo luqala, lapho inhliziyo ihlangana. Umjaho nezithunzi, umoya ophakathi, Lena iyinsika yokuphila, neBPD njengomhlahlandlela wethu. Imahlathi wemizwa, eqinile futhi engalawulwa, Ipalethi ye-kaleidoscope, eguquguqukayo,…funda kabanzi

Uma uqinisekile ukuthi ufuna okuthile okubalulekile, umzamo kufanele uhambe kokubili. Awukwazi ukulindela ukujula ngenkathi unikeza ukuphendula okomile, uphume phakathi kwengxoxo, noma ushiyela omunye umuntu ukuthi aphathe konke. Ubudlelwano... ngisho nasemphakathini wokukhuluma... abuyona…funda kabanzi
Ngikh currently ukufunda uDavid Deida's "Indlela yomuntu ophakeme". Enye yezigaba, uDavid ukhuluma nge-polarity nokuthi amadoda anegunya elingaphezulu ngokwefeminine avame ukuheha abesifazane abanesimo esiqinile kanti amadoda anegunya elingaphezulu ngokwe-masculine avame ukuheha abesifazane…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

Le yinkulumo ethokozisayo kakhulu mayelana nokuthi abantu bakhetha kanjani ozakwabo abangaba khona ngesikhathi sokukhulekelwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abanye baphikisa ukuthi "ukuhlola" kuyadingeka, ngisho nokufika ezingeni eliphezulu njengokuhlala ndawonye noma ukulala ndawonye ngaphambi…funda kabanzi
Ngithanda izingxoxo ezijulile mayelana nokuphila. Uma nawe uthanda, masikhulume :)( kulungiswe )

Ngokumangalisayo ngizwe ukuthi lokhu kuyinto abesifazane abaningi abahlangabezana nakho, ezingeni eliphezulu. Kungokuthile, noma ukuhamba ngemva, noma ngisho namadoda nje ukuba neze ngabo. Ngabe kukhona ofuna ukuqinisekisa lokhu? Uma uzizwa ukhululekile ukukhuluma ngalokhu ngokuqinisekile. Ingabe…funda kabanzi
Ngabe uke waba nomuzwa wokuthi kunezimpawu ezithile, ngenxa yokuthi zikhuliswa, ezizwakala zifana kakhulu nabantu? Kungaba encwadini, kumakhomikhi noma emidlalweni, ababhali bakha izinkanyezi lapho izimpawu zibhekana nezinselelo ezahlukene ngenhloso yokwakha ukuthuthukiswa kwabalingiswa, abancane,…funda kabanzi

Ngikholelwa ukuthi kukhona, lapha, abantu ababili abakhulu, ngaphandle kokuthi kube khona "okuphakathi": - labo abangakhathaleli noma abayeki uma befuna ukuxhumana nabantu. Bafuna? Benza. - labo abahlale becabanga kabili ngaphambi kokuzama ukuxhumana nabantu. Futhi kakhulu kwesikhathi, bangase…funda kabanzi
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Ngifisa ukuba nomuntu ongithanda ongathanda ukungigqokisa emcimbini we-yule noma emcimbini we-nyaka omusha. Ngiyakwazi ukujabulisa nge-Netflix kodwa okwamanje ngiyazizwa ngithukile futhi ngedwa. Ngifisa ukuthi ngingathandi okuncane kulokho engikufunayo kodwa ngithola indlela yokuzilimaza ezimweni…funda kabanzi
Itholakala endaweni eyayiyikoloni laseFransi iChandannagar esifundazweni saseHooghly, eWest Bengal, iRakshit Ghat kanye neStrand edumile kuhlonishwa uDurga Charan Rakshit, OWAYEYINDIYA YOKUQALA ukuhonjiswa ngalesi sikhumbuzo esihloniphekile seChevalier Légion d'Honneur. Futhi waziwa ngokuthi…funda kabanzi




Noma nini kwezombusazwe, uma othile onobuqotho (Ongaphezu kokujwayelekile ube marxist) ethula isikhundla esihlangene, ngokwesibonelo, ngokumelene nezizwe zombili empini, othile uzovela ngempela ukusho okuthile kokuthathu: 1. Ukuthi umuntu onjalo ungum 'idealista' 2. Ukuthi umuntu onjalo ungum…funda kabanzi
## Isifinyezo Le ndatshana ihlola umqondo ophakanyisiwe ophuma kakhulu emkhakheni wezocwaningo nakwimibono evamile: ukuthi amadoda akhombisa uhlobo oluhlukile lwezobuqotho — olungashintshi, olungakhathaleli inzuzo yokubuyisela, oluqondiswe esikhathini eside nasezizukulwaneni ezizayo — nokuthi…funda kabanzi
Khumbula zonke izono zami— hhayi njengokuphindaphinda, kodwa njengamagama engiphendula kuwo nxa ngikhohlwa ukuthi ngubani. Ngiyinhlanganisela yokuphikisana, ebotshwe ndawonye ngengcindezi nomthandazo, ebotshwe ngokuphelele kodwa ihlukaniswe, ingxenye yami icela ukubanjwa, enye ingxenye ibonisa…funda kabanzi
Ubuye 'Iklabhu Yezimpi' (1999/ IsiNgisi/ Jio Hotstar). Le filimu iqiniso ibhekene nesikhathi, futhi uma sicabanga ngezikhathi zanamuhla, uma bekuvulwa amafektri ezimpi eNdiya, ngiqinisekile ukuthi izwe lonke lizoba yedwa, futhi lokho kungenzeka kusize ukuqinisekisa ukuthi kukhona umthetho…funda kabanzi

Ngempela… ngithanda kakhulu ukuba feeder, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye, ngithanda ukuthi umfeedee wami aqonde ukuthi kuyinto enhle ukuqonda ukuthi umzimba wakho udinga ini ngempela (ukuzivocavoca, ukugcinwa kahle, njll.) Ungakujabulela kahle kokubili ukudla nokuzivocavoca, isiko lokudla ngempela…funda kabanzi


Ikhuluma ngempilo ephelele. Ukudabuka kuyingxenye efanayo njengenjabulo futhi kokubili kuyizimo eziphakeme. Ezinsukwini eziningi kuzoba kulungile futhi lokho kulungile. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuhamba uyolala ebusuku futhi ube nokuthula nawe. Ngicabanga ukuthi lokho kufanele kube umgomo abantu…funda kabanzi
Lokhu kungase kube nomthelela kumuntu ngamunye, ngakho uzizwe ukhululekile ukuphendula kancane noma okuningi, njengoba uzizwa ukhululekile. Isibonelo, ngiyazi ngababantu abangazange babe nomona nhlobo futhi baphelelwa yithemba, ngenxa yokuba nezinhloso ezinzima kakhulu nokwethemba. Ngakolunye…funda kabanzi

kusuka phezulu kakhulu ngenjabulo nokwehla okujulile ngenxa yokuphuka kwenhliziyo kanye nokudabuka— ngihlangabezane nobubanzi bobabili kodwa ngifunde okuningi kulolu hambo. Ezinkingeni engingazange ngikhulume ngazo, ebuhlungwini engibhekene nabo futhi ngaqinisekisa ukuthi ngisula izinyembezi zami…funda kabanzi
Ngemiphumela yakho ye-MBTI, yiziphi izibalo zemiphumela yakho? Ingabe ukhuluma kakhulu phakathi noma kakhulu eziphethweni? Ucabanga ukuthi imiphumela yakho ikuchaza kahle?
Ngivumele ngizethule kini uYuno Gasai nokuthi kungani ngimthanda. Kumlando ophoqelelayo we "Future Diary" (Mirai Nikki), uYuno Gasai uvela njengomlingiswa onobunzima obukhulu, ehlanganisa uthando olujulile nobumnyama obukhathazayo. Ukuphuma kwakhe kulolu chungechunge kuheha njengokuthokozisayo…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

Akukhathalekile ukuthi bangobani, noma ngabe bangabangane bakho abakhulu noma umngani, akukhathalekile ukuthi benzeni kuwe. Uma othile ekuphathile kabi noma engalungile, uma othile ebonisa ubungane obungafanele noma ubuntwana ngawe - akukhathalekile ukuthi kuyini, uma uphendula futhi uphinde…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi
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Ukudonsa okuhle kweJanmashtami namuhla 🦚 Kufanele kube usuku lokukhanya olusebenzayo noma okungenani kudingeka ukuzama ukukwenza kube kanje. Ngaphandle kokweqisa.( kulungiswe )

Ngivame ukuya ezingeni eliphezulu. Izinwele zami zifana kakhulu nesithombe eside manje. Ucabanga ukuthini

Ekhaya elinokukhanya nokuphazamiseka elaziwa ngokuthi iLondon—kodwa ngokujwayelekile, futhi ngokuhlekisayo, ngalesi sikhumbuzo esingekho emthethweni seYork City—kukhona owesifazane ophawulekayo. Kubangane bakhe, emndenini, nakubantu abavame ukuhlekisa, wayaziwa ngokuthi “Dee.” UDee wayengumcabango…funda kabanzi

ngu I.M. (mina) Izithembiso ezenziwe, njengezimbali emoyeni, Zihamba, zilahlekile olwandle. Inhliziyo yengilazi ephukile, ngenxa yezithembiso ezingamanga, Izinkumbulo zihlala, zalokho okwakukhula. Ebusweni bokuthula, izwi lokukhwabanisa, Amanga abopha, amanxeba aphuma igazi. I-kaleidoscope…funda kabanzi
Ngikhumbula ukuthi ngangivame ukulanda lolo hlelo lokusebenza lapho ngifisa kakhulu ukukhuluma nothile. Kwakuhlale kungicindezela kakhulu. Kwakufika inqwaba yemiyalezo ngesikhathi esisodwa, futhi ihluke kakhulu. Ngaya emzini wakithi okokuqala ngemva kwesikhathi eside, futhi ngazizwa…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

Impilo ingadi yezinto eziphakeme, futhi mina— Ngihlala lapho ama-rose ehlisa, lapho injabulo nosizi kukhula ndawonye. Eminyakeni ethile, ngivuka ngigcwele igolide— ukukhanya kuphume ezindaweni ezincane emzimbeni wami, kufana nokuthi isibhakabhaka sikhumbula mina. Ngiyadansa ngenyawo ezingenalutho…funda kabanzi