Do you believe in giving second chances?

24/1/2023

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFP

ធនុរាសី

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7

It depends. second chance about what? lol

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFP

ថុលា

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Apologies mean nothing without a thoughtful commitment to change what was wronged. In some cases we are all here because of second chances. In other cases some folks don't get second chances because of the pain they caused and their unwillingness to correct it. If someone doesn't do the work involved, talking to the offended party, understanding the offence, and makes an honest commitment to changed behavior then no, they don't deserve a 2nd chance. If the offence was so great that it caused you severe pain mental, spiritual, physical...or brought harm to you or others to the degree that you will be unable to be the same person you were before then also no. Change in their behaviour also requires you to accept that change as possible and if you are still dealing with the offence then that might not be feasible despite change given. In short 2nd chances are a case by case basis. They ask the most important question in the relationship dynamic: "If this person caused me this much pain, are they worth experiencing that type of pain again?"

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFP

មីន

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1

It depends on what someone did

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFJ

មេថុន

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Depends on the situation. Like my case, Nuh-uh, when i was severely, brutally wrestled by my husband (now ex) in front of my kids, just to cover up his office scandal.

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2ឆ្នាំ

INTJ

ថុលា

Use to . Now you only have one chance cause if our friendship or partnership ment anything, you'd only need one chance

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2ឆ្នាំ

INTP

មេស

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7

It depends person to person and the situation. Not everyone deserves a second chance.

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFJ

មេថុន

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In my POV, I can give many chances as I can until there's no more love left.

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFJ

តោសិន

9
1

Forgive is fine, forgetting is not

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFP

កើតក្រោមមាន

6
5

Depends... because been there done that and got treated like a doormat. Lost my home, truck and dog. Trying to make it work. An honest mistake is one thing, choosing to do something social common sense sees as wrong. Ie- Cheating, stealing; is not acceptable.

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFJ

ថុលា

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You shouldn't speak in absolutes either way. I would say generally to open your heart and hear someone out. If they're undeserving, it will be abundantly clear quite quickly. If not, try to be a big person with graciousness and let them show their worth and intention. However, there are some actions that don't deserve a second chance and trust - just don't press that for any and all grievances, that's small and ego -driven.

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2ឆ្នាំ

ENTP

រាសីឆ្លូវ

i did that... but still he did it again. so.. it's 50/50. 😂

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2ឆ្នាំ

ISTJ

Yes but I'm always disappointed...

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2ឆ្នាំ

INTP

មីន

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7

One thing is forgiving, another is forgetting. Depending on the severity of the situation, giving a second chance may be good or bad. Always ask yourself if giving a second chance is worth it or not.

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2ឆ្នាំ

ENFJ

មរករ

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No I don't believe.... but did I give it before?...yes I did....do he just didn't appreciate?...yes !... did I learn my lesson? I should, but we will see... but officially I don't belive to give second chances!!!!

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2ឆ្នាំ

INTP

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No, it never works.

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2ឆ្នាំ

ENFJ

8
7

It depends on the situation and the person.

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFJ

កើតក្រោមមាន

No!! But i give them anyways 🥲

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2ឆ្នាំ

ENFJ

រាសីឆ្លូវ

8
7

It really depends on what they have done. If you both agree to take a break, then come back together, I would say yes give it a second go. But if it's cheating, there is no second chance for me.

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFP

កន្យា

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5

Depends on the situation and the person

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2ឆ្នាំ

INTJ

តោសិន

9
1

Highly depends on everything.

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFP

មរករ

8
7

No

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFP

មរករ

5
4

when it comes to cheating = NO

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2ឆ្នាំ

ISTJ

តោសិន

Yes,I do..If they are worth giving,then I will give them a second chance...

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFP

កើតក្រោមមាន

6
5

Depends Over jealous? Yes Cheating? No Hotel? Trivago

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2ឆ្នាំ

ESFJ

ថុលា

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7

If there's change involved. Never for cheating or doing scandalous betrayals though. I'll forgive eventually.

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2ឆ្នាំ

ESFJ

រាសីឆ្លូវ

1
2

It depends. I give second chances but not all the time.

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFJ

កើតក្រោមមាន

1
2

I'm fed up... 🚶🏻‍♀️ I gave more than 10 chance

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFJ

រាសីឆ្លូវ

No

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2ឆ្នាំ

INTJ

កុម្ភៈ

8
7

First time blame on you second time blame on me 😅

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2ឆ្នាំ

INTJ

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7

Yes

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2ឆ្នាំ

INTJ

រាសីឆ្លូវ

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7

Giving a second chance on its own doesn't resolve the underlying issue, therefore it will happen again if the issue was not addressed and dealt with. If this issue is inside of a person's head then there is nothing you can do, not because nothing can't be done, but because of the modern sacred sovereignty of one's mental conditions, whatever they are.

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2ឆ្នាំ

ENTP

ធនុរាសី

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Yes, I believe giving second chance in reality is necessary and everyone deserves second chance, 🤔but not game though. No second chance for gamer, not for enemies, definitely not for teammates. Giving second chance to teammates is like giving a grenade to a mad man.

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2ឆ្នាំ

ISFJ

កន្យា

I have more than once before and everytime it ended the same or worse so I don't think I would give anymore second chances even though everyone is different things end for a reason.

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2ឆ្នាំ

INTJ

ធនុរាសី

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1

I've done it before, in my experience the more chances you give the less respect you get.

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2ឆ្នាំ

INTJ

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Generally speaking when we have the opportunity to open our eyes in the morning and wake up, it means we have one more chance to be better than yesterday, trying not to make the same mistakes and try to be the best version of yourself. Regarding the love relationship, there is also the possibility of a second chance, depending on the reason that the first chance ceased to exist. Because if there is no change from the person with oneself, things will continue to go wrong and in general, for the willingness, a chance is enough to make it right.

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFP

មីន

Depends in the situation

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2ឆ្នាំ

ENFP

រាសីឆ្លូវ

I used to be an idiot, but then I grew up. So no, hell no!!!

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2ឆ្នាំ

ENFP

រាសីឆ្លូវ

7
8

yes.. depends on the case.. Because we're not perfect people 🥂

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2ឆ្នាំ

INFP

ធនុរាសី

8
7

Yes, however only a 2nd one I don't allow 3rd chances. I'm fairly easy going too so if it got to the point where there needs to be a 2nd chance. I'm less easy going and definitely more distant.

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