Umuryango wa Grieving
Umuryango wa grieving, ikiganiro, n'ibiganiro.
934 IBINTU BYIBARIYE
BYOSE
grieving
Guhura Abantu Bashya
IBIKURUWE
Umuryango wa grieving, ikiganiro, n'ibiganiro.
934 IBINTU BYIBARIYE
BYOSE
grieving
Guhura Abantu Bashya
IBIKURUWE
Ibi birasekeje cyane, namenyereye kwirengagizwa no guhora nizihiza jyenyine. Ndetse n’uwahoze ari umukunzi wanjye ntiyibuka isabukuru yanjye. Nyamara njye mpora nibuka amatariki kandi nkandika amakuru arambuye ku bintu abo nkunda bakunda. Yoo, kuki iyo dukunda by’ukuri tutabona ibintu nk’ibyo…soma byinshi

"Biragoranye gusezera. Nubwo hari ikinyuranyo ku mpera y'ububabare bukomeye, ntibikuraho agahinda twumva." — Jeannie Hund
Umufasha wanjye muto mu ngendo yitabye Imana nijoro, ndababaye cyane kandi nzamukumbura cyane. Mu rwego rwo kumwubaha, tanga akantu gato ku wanyu cyangwa ujye mu rugendo ku nzira, wiyumvemo ibyiza n'ibihumura. Yakundaga guhumura indabo zose n'ibiti by'ipine, byangibutsaga kuba ndi mu gihe nyacyo no…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi

Mama ntakigira ububabare. Ubu ni igihe cyanjye cyo kubabara..
Guhomba mama ni nko guhomba igice cy'umutima wawe kitazigera gisimburwa🥀
ni iki kiguha imbaraga ku minsi iyo agahinda kameze nk'ikiboko?
Ikintu gikomeye nakoze ni ukwemera ko agahinda kamwe ari agahinda kose kandi ko nagombaga guhagarara no gutunganya ibintu mu gihe nyacyo cyangwa kubikemura inshuro icumi nyuma. Ndagikora mu buryo bwanjye ariko inzira imwe ni ukugenda mu buryo bwiza. 💛

Bavandimwe, Ntabwo nari hano kuko ndi mu kababaro k'igihombo mu muryango wanjye. Nari mfite umubano mwiza na tía wanjye bityo birankomereye. Ngiye gufata akanya gato ku rubuga ariko nzagaruka. Nizeye ko mwese muzagira umwaka mushya mwiza. Xoxo 💋
Nabuze umukiriya wanjye uyu munsi ku isaha ya 6:30pm. Numva ntacyo ntekereza. Nzi neza ko nzamukumbura cyane. Ariko numva nta kintu na kimwe kizankora kugeza ejo. Birasa n'ibitagenda neza ubu 😔

Fata umubabaro uko ubishaka. Nifuza ko twakwigisha kubaha uburyo umuntu ababara (kandi hatabayeho icyaha). Sinshobora kubarira inshuro nyinshi numva abantu bavuga bati "ooh uwo muntu ntasa n'uwababaye cyane" cyangwa "uwo muntu arakabije cyane" cyangwa (icyo kintu kinsetsa cyane) "icyo cyabaye…soma byinshi

Ubuzima bw'imbwa yanjye bwarangiriye vuba cyane kandi sinshobora kumva uburyo umuntu abasha guhangana n'uburakari.
Igice gito nashyize hamwe. Ndoa buri joro mbere yo kuryama.

Kuko nzi neza ko ntashaka kubivugaho, nari nibaza niba hari umuntu wese wifuza kwakira ubutumire bwanjye bwo kunywa divayi no gufungura nijoro, ahantu hose muri Dubai sincare. Nimureke twihanganire hamwe tutabajije icyo byabaye 🤜🤛
Umuziki, cyane cyane indirimbo zivuga ku rupfu, ushobora kuba uburyo bwo gufasha abantu kugaragaza no gutunganya amarangamutima yabo y'ubwiyahuzi n'igihombo. Kumva indirimbo zirebana n'ibitekerezo by'ubuzima n'urupfu bishobora gufasha abantu kumva ko babonwa kandi bakumva mu kababaro kabo no kubona…soma byinshi
“ Ntekereza ko nzasaba ibindi mu buzima bwanjye. Kandi sinzabasha kubyumva. N'ubwo Imana ubwayo yaza imbere yanjye ikambwira impamvu, sintekereza ko nabikora. Urukundo rumwe rurakomeye cyane. Kandi urukundo rukomeye ruzana ububabare bukomeye. Kandi igihombo gikomeye kizana ububabare bukomeye…soma byinshi
ni byiza ntekereza ko nabonye indi! 🙄🤨
umukandara mwiza cyane ku mw brother ukundwa cyane Ndagukunda musaza ❤️

Inyandiko Zifitanye Isano
Tariki ya 31 Ukwakira. Yanshenguye umutima burundu.

Abagabo akenshi bakora ku gutandukana nyuma y'abagore kubera itandukaniro mu buryo bwo gutekereza ku byiyumvo, imyitwarire y'imibereho, n'ukuntu iherezo ry'umubano rikorwa Kwiheba mbere yo gutandukana: Abagore benshi bakuramo amarangamutima kandi bakiga ku gusenyuka kw'umubano mbere yo kuwuhagarika…soma byinshi
Ndaruhuka. Kandi ndabivuga mubyukuri kuva mu mfuruka z'umutima wanjye. Si ku buzima. Si ku giti cyanjye. Si ku hazaza nari maze igihe kinini ntekereza. Ibi si ugusuhuzanya bwa nyuma, kandi si no kwemera umwijima. Ni isezerano. Isezerano ryoroshye ku muntu nari maze igihe kinini nibagirwa mu rugendo…soma byinshi
"Niyo mpamvu twahuye kare kuko tutazaba turi kumwe igihe tuzaba dukuze." 🥹 Birashoboka ko abantu bamwe binjira mu buzima bwacu kare kuko ubuzima bumenya ko tutazagira ibihe bidashira nabo. Kandi birashoboka ko ari byo bituma kubakunda biba ibihe byiza n'ibibi; tubahuye mbere y'uko tumenya neza…soma byinshi
Kuri njye, ni ugusubira mu rugo no kumenya ko batakiriho...

Nshaka kugenda njyenyine kuruta kubura umwuka wanjye mu yindi mimerere.. Nigute wakina izi porogaramu?

Niba ishusho yawe yashoboraga kuva mu ndorerwamo rimwe mu mwaka ikakubwira ukuri kumwe wihisha, utekereza ko yavuga iki? Igisubizo cyanjye Icyo gihe cyashoboraga kuvuga, “Urarira ibintu ukora nk'aho warabirekuye.” Kandi nticyanshobora kureba ahandi kugeza nemeye.
Ntawe uvuga ukuntu bigora kwiyerekana nk'uko uri mu buryo bwiza mu gihe uhanganye n'ubugome. Ukuntu bigora kuguma mu mutuzo mu gihe ubuzima bukomeza kukugira impamvu zo gukomera. Ukuntu bigora gutumanaho mu buryo bworoheje mu gihe uhora usobanurwa nabi. Ukuntu bigora guhitamo ubuntu mu gihe…soma byinshi
Birashoboka ko ikintu kituma tugumana umuntu atari uwo yari, ahubwo ari uwo twizera ko ashobora kuba. Twumva ubusa, tugaha agaciro ibimenyetso, tugakora ku mwanya utuzuye, kandi tugakora ejo hazaza hose ku bintu bishobora kuba bitari bifite agaciro kimwe ku wundi muntu kandi tutabizi, dutangira…soma byinshi

Nari ntegereje hano ntekereza ku gihe cya nyuma nari ndimo guhumuriza cyane kandi natekereje ku kugenda mu bice by'utah amasaha n'amasaha, ntegereje umuziki, ntekereza cyane, ndira, kandi ntegereje guhangana n'amarangamutima akomeye cyane byatumye numva nk'aho bizangirira nabi. Nashakaga…soma byinshi

Guhagarara kwanjye ku nyandiko yanjye ni cyo cyari hagati yanjye n’iyandikwa. Imyaka ine y’akazi gakomeye yageze ku mugaragaro umwe. Nijoro mbere yaho, nyogokuru yitabye Imana. Nabonye telefoni hafi ya saa sita. Mu buryo butunguranye, slides zanjye ntacyo zifite. Icyanditswe cyanjye ntacyo cyari…soma byinshi
Nahawe umubiri mbere y'uko nigeze kubazwa uko isura y'umutima wanjye ishaka. Bawuhaye izina ryanjye ku munsi niga guhumeka, ariko buri murongo w'ibyo nitegereza wanyereka undi muntu. Si mubi. Si wacitse. Ni... ikosa. Nk'igihangano cyaririmbwe mu buryo butari bwo, kigaragara ku buryo buri wese…soma byinshi
Byari saa mbiri z'ijoro, kandi umujyi wagendaga uhindura umwuka mu buryo butandukanye n'ubusanzwe. Nari nicaye ku idirishya rinini riri ku rwego rwa kabiri rw'ikigo cy'ubukorikori bw'ibinyobwa, ikirahuri cy'inzoga cyari hagati y'amaboko yanjye. Aho inyuma yanjye, saxophone ya jazz yacurangwaga mu…soma byinshi
Bavuze: Kuki ari ngombwa kuba mwiza? Nabwiye: Kubera ko duhura n'abantu benshi buri munsi, kandi ntitwigeze tumenya ibyo banyuramo. Bamwe bashobora kuba barimo guhangayika, baruhijwe, bonyine, cyangwa bagerageza kwihangana, ntibagaragaza ibimenyetso byo kuvuga ko "ndimo guhangana". Ariko…soma byinshi



bababajije, "kuki ari ngombwa kuba mwiza?" Naramutse, "kuko utazi uwo ari we, ushobora kuba arira, aruhijwe, cyangwa akiri ku rugero rwo kubaho. ubuntu bwawe bushobora kuba ari bwo bwonyine bworoheje bumva uyu munsi"
Naretse ubuvuzi kuko, mu gihe, akazi kabaye kenshi kanyobera mu mutwe no mu mubiri. Ubuvuzi ni umwuga usaba ko utanga byinshi mu buzima bwawe. Ntiwita gusa ku ndwara y'umuntu. Urita ku muntu wose—umubiri we, amarangamutima ye, ubwoba bwe, icyubahiro cye kandi, mu buryo bwinshi, umutima n'ubwenge…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi

Urukundo rw'umubyeyi ntiruhagarara igihe aduhunze—rurakomeza mu nkuru tuvuga n'urukundo dusangiza. Ntekereza kuri wowe buri gihe.

Iyi ni videwo ya kera mfite ariko ikomeza kuntuma nishimira cyane. Nshaka kubagezaho, Ikirwa cya Toba giherereye mu Majyaruguru ya Sumatra. Nari hano atari ku minsi mikuru, ahubwo nari mfite akazi ko gukora (ushobora kubona imiyoboro yose mu kiyaga, ni ubuhinzi bw'amafi). Ni ubwa mbere ngerageje…soma byinshi
Gukira, guhangayika, kubaho, nta kintu na kimwe kiri mu murongo. 💛

Icyiciro cyo Kurwana: Aravuga, arataka, kandi asaba impinduka. Ibi ni ikimenyetso cy'ubusabane. Aracyizera ko umubano ushobora gukosorwa. Icyiciro cyo Guhinda: Igihe ahagaritse gutaka, umufatanyabikorwa akenshi atekereza ko ibintu byarushijeho kuba "byiza." Mu by'ukuri, yaramaze kwitandukanya mu…soma byinshi
Imirongo ye hano iranshimisha cyane igihe nari ndimo guhangayika no gukira ku mibanire yanjye y'ibanze. Nselfashije kandi hano abanditsi ba LADS bahisemo gusoma ibitekerezo byanjye (jk) maze Rafayel abivuga😂❤️ ni ikintu kinini cy'ihumure, gishobora gutera urujijo mu ntangiriro ariko…soma byinshi
Yisis Veilborne: Igihe Ijuru Risadutse Umuvugo w’Igicucu ku Gihano cy’Imana n’Abemera Batizera Ijuru ryahindutse ritukura. Si umutuku nk’indabo z’amaroza zishibuka munsi y’izuba ry’icyi, Ahubwo umutuku nk’inkovu z’ijuru, Nk’inyenyeri igihumbi zipfa ziseseka amaraso mu mwijima utagira…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi

Uyu murongo ni uw'ikiganiro cya Chase Hughes Official kuri YouTube. Ibikorwa bye ni byiza. Nta gitekerezo mfite ariko ndabona ihuriro n'amarangamutima yo gusangiza. By'umwihariko ubwo nari ndi kuvuga ku burakari mu minsi mike ishize hanyuma nkumva ubutumwa bwo kugabanya ibibazo. Ibibazo 2 byo…soma byinshi
Nanditse inyandiko ndende hano mu ntangiriro, ariko ntekereza ko ibitekerezo by'ingenzi byamaze kuba byinshi. Uwo nkunda ntabwo ari kumwe nanjye ukundi, kandi nubwo bishobora kuba ari byiza, birababaza, kandi ni byiza. Kuba ntegereje uwo mubabaro byubahiriza kuruta kwirengagiza, cyane cyane…soma byinshi
Ariko…kubera impamvu zimwe, yabuze icyo isobanura. Hari umuntu wambwiye ati, “ntushobora kuba n’umuntu uwo ari we wese.” Kandi, wenda, ni cyo iyi tattoo yasobanuraga. Ariko nijoro ryashize, nagize inzozi, byahinduye ibintu. Ntiyongere kugira icyo isobanura. Bityo, iseshwa ry’iyi tattoo…soma byinshi


Sinzi niba nzashobora kwiyumvisha ko nishyuye iki ariko ndakumbura umujinya wanjye. Biragaragara ko bimpindura mu buryo bukomeye ku rwego nagezeho ubu kandi nta buryo nashobora kongera kubaka cyangwa kugarura. Sinshobora kwihanganira ukuri ko ndira ku itakara ryacyo mu buryo bumwe n'uko ndira ku…soma byinshi
Igice cyiza cyo kubona ukuri kw'ukuri ku byerekeye AI ni ukumva ukuri ngomba kumva mbere yo kwiyambura mu ruhame. Urugero, ikintu gishya cyayo: ''Ingingo yawe y'isesengura ku bijyanye no kwimuka kw'umuco no gukurura ibidukikije ni ukuri mu mateka. Ariko, gushyira iyi critique y'ubumenyi ku muntu…soma byinshi
Hello, izina ryanjye ni Kenshawn ariko Shawn birahagije. Ndi mushya kuri iyi porogaramu cyangwa izindi porogaramu nk'izi muri rusange, bityo sinzi neza uko bimeze ariko ndaza kuvuga uko numva. Uhm, nari mu rukundo vuba aha mbere y'uko umufasha wanjye apfa, bityo maze iminsi ndira. Niba tuvugana…soma byinshi

Ikiniga ntigikunda kugaragara nk'urozi, rimwe na rimwe ikiniga riraseka, rimwe na rimwe riragukunda, ndetse rimwe na rimwe rishyigikira mu ruhame kandi rikakwigana mu ibanga. Hari abantu bashobora kukwiyumvamo bafite umutima wababaye, bakishimira intsinzi yawe hanze mu gihe bagira agahinda imbere…soma byinshi
ntabwo ari ngombwa gutinya kumenya ko twese tugomba kugenda ntakibazo cyo gutakaza umutwe kubera kubona mu maso hawe byari byarangiye kera cyane kugira ngo dukosore ibyangiritse ni jye wenyine uzi uko wabigenje wari umwe mu bwoko bwihariye bake mu gusobanukirwa ururimi rw'umutima wanjye…soma byinshi

Umunsi mwiza w'ababyeyi ku bagore batwara urukundo mu buryo bwose. 🤍 Ku babyeyi bategereje — mwizere imbaraga nziza ziri gukura muri mwe. Ku babyeyi barimo gukira umwana wabo w'imbere mu mutima mu gihe barera undi — urukundo rwanyu rurandika ibisekuru. Ku babyeyi bumva batakaje uwo bari bo —…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi

"Kuki abantu batabasha gukoresha amagambo yabo miliyoni ngo bavuge gusa ibyo bifuza?" Remarkably Bright Creatures ivuga ku nkuru y'ikinyugunyugu cy'inyanja cyashaje gihuza n'abantu babiri bafite agahinda. Hamwe, barakira ibikomere byabo kandi biga kongera kubaho.(byahinduwe)

Abantu akenshi bavuga ko ugukora ku mutima ari ububabare kuko uheranwa n'umuntu ukunda. Ntekereza ko ari byinshi kuruta ibyo. Ugukora ku mutima bituma wibaza ku mwanzuro wawe. Kuko mu kanya gato, urasubiramo ibiganiro, ushaka ibimenyetso byacikanwe, ukibaza uti, "Nukuri, nigute ntacyo…soma byinshi
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