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When ‘Sorry’ Feels Too Easy

Have you ever had a friend who suddenly treated you like you were the enemy, without even asking what really happened? Someone who chose to be angry first instead of choosing to understand. Someone who created their own version of the story in their head, added meanings to your actions that were... read more

I was removed or blocked by someone. I don't know why. I was annoyed initially. But I reflected and realized there a dozen reasons to block/remove someone. Most of them have nothing to do with me, specifically. Why do we take things like that so personally?

So true

Without a true connection, it's not for me. This is the only way I can go. Even if solo. I never realized in the past that this is actually something odd until I started paying more attention. It was an epiphany that people were sxually attracted to random people. Or think of it as "fun" only.... read more

My face when..

I've realized Ive been disassociating and tune back into the convo my friends are having at the worst time and hear something that sounds sus out of context.

Drawing for the first time in ages

Ugh, I haven't drawn in so long, I forgot how LONG the art process can be. I've been, like, super fixated on TX2 for a few months now, and then I realized I can draw, so here we are, six and a half hours in 😭

Q for My Ladies: Marketing & The Dating Game

A few years ago, my understanding of dating changed when I realized apps were basically marketing — with myself as the product. Some folks are my target audience and others aren’t. Not that far off from being in public and style. When you’re looking at profiles, what do you look for? Are there... (edited) read more