Grief Community

Goodbye my friend 💔

Gordo found me at my lowest and helped me kept going when I wanted to end it all, today he lost his battle to cancer. Will always love you my beautiful furry brother.

All go away eventually

I just miss them because they cared about me too. They either all pass away or get tired of me and go away in the end. Or in case of my mother I thought she loved me but after she died I see in her will she wrote me as being mentally incompetent and worthless so she didn't really like me.. she did… (edited) read more

They remain

One can lose everyone and everything but the memories will remain. Bereaved of those gone now, they still remain there in the mind. For that we should find some solemn solace.

It is a different kind of grief to grieve for someone you haven't met yet.

A day could go by like the breeze whirl into the winds—but the sensation lingers—keeping my heart contracts like it had been attacked. Suddenly, all the distractions disintegrated, and all that remained was the embers of regrets. (edited)

Movies done, first thought

Sometimes grief isn't “I am thinking about death.” Sometimes it's simply: “Hey, what did you think of the movie?” …and realizing there's nobody there to answer.

Need some advice

Hey there 👋 How do y'all deal with anxiety/ panic attacks? Mine have been acting up lately and had a pretty bad one today at work and had to leave as I couldn't keep calm and kept crying 😭 I also have sour candy or gum with me for when I do get that feeling Just want to know some… read more

Grief

I lost my grandma a year ago but am still feeling the pain of not talking to her more. How do y'all cope with loss?

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I thought with having a husband I could move thru life different. Feeling safe, feeling tethered. But the truth was that he was against me like the rest of the world. I fought so hard to be loved like I needed. He treated me like I was an enemy when I was trying to support him in the ways he… read more

Bad week

Getting through a major loss is worse thing ever losing someone close best friend my love . The last time you will ever see them. Relationship breakdown is hard but sometime can be fixed So to anyone who’s in a relationship don’t take one another for granted (edited)

Is grief natural or forced?

So confused😵

Essential grief

A friend reminded me of grief today. Many years now I struggled with the loss of loved ones and the push from others to "move on". Wrestling with guilt as I try to do so. It feels like I betray my lost love by being happy here and now, when I know that they are not. I want to fix them and the… read more

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I'm moving

I'm moving back to South Carolina this Saturday. I'm ready but very much not. My mom's M.S came out of remission and she's not doing well..I need to be there for her. I already saw her go though this when I was a child and it went into remission, now though it's back with what feels like a… read more

Mother's Day

This day brings up some grief as I have lost my mom a few years ago to leukemia. I wish I could of done more for here before she passed away. Now I'm left with regrets and more emptiness. If you are a mother I wish the best for you and thank you for being a mom. I want to do something in… read more

Always

Not a day goes by that I miss them My mom and everyone else that is gone I used to be so mad and crazy about it Like a flame that burned within Now it's cold and barren Just a lonely place without them If only I could see them again In some place beyond time and space 🌌 Memories are what is all… read more

Agony

Grief became like a fire It burned so furious that My grief became anger I let anger get the best of me Now I'm paying the price Now I feel numb and remorseful Now grief is like ice, so cold I lost my mind when I lost my mom I probably have been crazy before Losing those I never got over Just… read more

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Grief shows itself in many ways

Finally, the rest for the hardest working guy I've ever known in my life

One of the most terrible causes that takes our loved ones is this damn and irreparable stroke, unfortunately my father couldn't escape this fate to which we are all doomed. I feel like I've never seen him stop working, he loved to eat, drink, and party a lot at family barbecues 😥. He will be… read more

Ready

You went home a year ago... The week before was your birthday... Two weeks, I was forced to come to the reality you would never answer my calls again... That next week, no birthday song with your comforting baritone... I wasn't ready. I hated the "I'm so sorry for your loss"... the "Your father… read more

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Life is unpredictable. I bid my final farewell to my cousin today. Rest in God’s peace 🤍 (edited)

Life

Today is the anniversary, 3 years from the day I lost my husband. An ordinary day that didn't announced this and the grief. It still hurts and it still feels unreal, sometimes.

How do I get over my mom passing away she was the only person who understood me🥺💔🥀.. I can't hold up much longer but I'm all my siblings have n I wanna give in so bad 😔

I miss you Mom. Wish you were here still. There are so much I wanted to tell you, then I remember that you are no longer here with me... If only I could turn back time.... I love you Mom, I hope you know how much I appreciate you.

Happy Birthday Mom

Stopped and smelled some flowers for what should have been your 67th

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So many loved ones lost..

Fear..

Mom's surgery to remove cancer lump is today.. Extremely nervous.. She just seems so small.. I wish Grandma was here..

Grief

Grandma..

It is Grandma's Birthday.. She is supposed to still be here... 💙 My heart aches so badly for her..

Pain..

It's not like I'm not trying to move forward. But everything in my life reminds me of my grandmother. It reminds me of the friend that passed away not too long after. It reminds me that my life has become so empty. It reminds me that even though I smile with people I'm with, my laugh doesn't reach… read more

My mom died

And I have no friends and family and everyone treats me like a waste of air

I don't even know what to do

anymore. This feels... Strange. Similar to a nightmare, but in real time.

So many losses..

So 5 loved ones passed in the last 3 years.... I don't know how I'm supposed to be right now.. I don't know how to process everything..

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Grandma was in who I looked up to.. She was my parent.. Mom is more of a sister to me and now I have to step into Grandmas shoes for her... A year after losing Grandma, mom got cancer.. My life has lost all other meaning.. I no longer dream of having my own family. I have lost the wish to have… read more

Today is super freaking hardest day of my life it seems. I love my students.

As soon as I left my apartment, I was hit with a wave of missing my favorite person, my fiance, my Hups. I lost him last year. My students don’t know it, but they’re the real ones today. We had a wonderful 5 years. I love you and miss you Hups. (edited)

Grief doesn't shrink, we grow around it.

Dang

I miss my mom. Every damn time.