As silly as it may sound, I have a crush on guy that lives in another country. He is a sweet man who seems caring. I've known him for several months now. I don't know why I got a crush so fast on him so fast. I try to keep in mind that he isn't ready to date as well as that he probably doesn't want to date someone from across the ocean. I don't want to stop being friends with him, but what do I do? I guess this is just the curse of being a hopeless romantic.

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4mo

ENFJ

Sagittarius

Good question...taking time apart, letting yourself concentrate on other things, whilst keeping the conversations simple, and less frequent. Also, allowing yourself to get to know other people. Remember, there's only so much you can truly know about someone in a different country, that you've never met. Oftentimes, you are likely to make up a romanticised version of them, from the parts you do know.. they're unlikely to be that person.

Tom

4mo

INTP

Pisces

Ah that old chestnut. You don't really ever get over it, it just becomes easier to 😅. I've got a friend I've had a crush on for like 14 years. I don't even get to talk to her often, but if she asked me for anything I'd drop everything to help. It's not her fault the way I feel about her so best thing I can do is be there for her as a friend knowing nothing will ever come of it.

Cristina✨️

4mo

ENTP

Leo

Run!!!! Run fast, Run far.

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4mo

INTJ

Aquarius

Sometimes to get over someone, you have to get under someone.

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ISFJ

Taurus

Me after messaging the girl I am interested in.

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INTJ

Virgo

One of these days

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Scorpio

Walk 👫

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Virgo

🥺🥺

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Aries

Shredded

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Virgo

😢💔

Poetry is something of beauty (edited)

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16d

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Libra

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Scorpio

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Aquarius

Frustrated

i don't know how to message who is match to me

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25d

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Libra

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22d

ISFJ

Cancer

Arcade

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21d

INFJ

Scorpio

Cupid's Idea 💘

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1mo

INFP

Taurus

being an Hopeless Romantic

starts with love and ends at lust

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Shikha

3mo

INFJ

Taurus

Waiting for that DM…

The “Hello” (with the intention of loving each other for the rest of our lives) 😪

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2mo

INFJ

Taurus

I hope we find each other when we are ready to be in each others lives, just as we are meant to be <3

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2mo

INFJ

Libra

I felt it when someone said Hurting someone is as easy as throwing stone in the ocean But ull never know how Deep it goes

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3mo

INFJ

Taurus

Dear Soulmate…

Where TF are you???? 😒 I’m tired of waiting 🥺 (edited)

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Jerah 🌻

2mo

INFJ

Capricorn

That so gentle 🥰

I love this..

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1mo

INFJ

Libra

As fireworks light up the midnight sky, Others rejoice, with hopes of a new high. But I see through the haze, to the truth below, New beginnings are illusions, and I'm stuck in the woe. I wish I could believe, in the promise of a fresh start, But reality's heavy chains, hold me captive in my heart.

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Vinay Krishna

2mo

INFJ

Libra

I once wondered why hearts burn with fiery rage Why love can turn to anger, and a soul's dark cage But now I understand, for I've walked that same flame And felt the fury that fuels, the heart's deepest pain

#writing

Vinay Krishna

1mo

INFJ

Libra

Fear, a phantom, ever near, Tears unseen, a constant tear. Soul ablaze, a silent scream, While lips betray, a placid dream. This endless war, a weary plight, Lost in the shadows, day and night

#writing

Vinay Krishna

1mo

INFJ

Libra

Pain's weight crushes words, leaving me mute, Silence wraps my tongue, a heavy, hollow hush. I long to speak the anguish that I hold, But find no ears to hear, no heart to unfold.

#writing

Vinay Krishna

1mo

INFJ

Libra

A smile that shines, a mask I wear, Concealing the pain, that's hidden there. My eyes tell a story, of a different plight, A toast to those, who wear a similar light.

#writing

Vinay Krishna

1mo

INFJ

Libra

A heavy heart beats, beneath a smiling face, Tears well up, in a secret, hidden place. What kind of pain, can bring such a test? A heart that's hurting, and still finds rest.

#photography

Sammy

1mo

INTJ

Scorpio

❤️

Dreaming of a love that's lasts a lifetime #hopelessromantic

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1mo

INFJ

Libra

Shattered thoughts, eyes parched and dry, A mind racing, to justify the why. A heart weighed down, by sorrow's crushing might, A faint smile flickers, a resilient light.

#writing

Vinay Krishna

2mo

INFJ

Libra

A heart that's numbing, a soul that's worn, I've buried the pain, and the tears that are born. I say nothing, I feel nothing, it's true, For in silence, I've found a way to see this through.

#writing

Vinay Krishna

2mo

INFJ

Libra

Two faces of sorrow, a tale of pain, One hides behind a smile, a lips' disguise in vain. The other reveals the truth, in eyes that dimly shine, A window to the heart, where depression's darkness entwine.

#hopelessromantic

Shikha

2mo

INFJ

Taurus

Waiting…

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Vinay Krishna

2mo

INFJ

Libra

We try to hide in silence, to escape the heart's despair, But pain is a persistent guest, that's always lurking there. It seeps into our quiet nights, and whispers every day, A constant reminder of the hurt, that refuses to fade away.

#writing

Vinay Krishna

1mo

INFJ

Libra

Dreaded moments I had hoped to delay, Now unfold before me, come what may. I yearned for more time, a few more lines, But fate arrives, and my final verse aligns.

#writing

Vinay Krishna

2mo

INFJ

Libra

My tears won't fall when sorrow calls My smile won't shine when joy enthralls Longing for her yet she's out of reach A bittersweet existence a heart that can't speak

#writing

Vinay Krishna

1mo

INFJ

Libra

I gave with kindness, and a willing soul, Helping others, making their hearts whole. But when I cried out, in my darkest night, I was met with silence, and a lonely light.

#writing

Vinay Krishna

2mo

INFJ

Libra

Wounds are deepening behind a calm face In these moments, one cannot see how many responsibilities are in front of one's face.

#photography

Vinay Krishna

2mo

INFJ

Libra

This what low light photography looks , which sees things beyond lights

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Vinay Krishna

2mo

INFJ

Libra

At first they make thousands promises to gain At last ,one reason is enough to put us in vain

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Vinay Krishna

2mo

INFJ

Libra

How do you get over someone you have a crush on without ending the friendship?

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