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Women and men in society

So I will definitely get backlash from the strong independent women for this but I believe that men and women need each other and it is necessary to depend on one another. I hate the “I don’t need a man” and the “I’m baring all women from my life” statements from each side. I believe both genders... read more

I'd rather be gifted fake flowers than real ones.

They never die, and some of them are really well made. I genuinely never want to be gifted real flowers. I don't like seeing them die, and I'd feel bad throwing a gift away.

What is it with everybody asking for short term relationships?

It never made any sense to me. A relationship is supposed to be for a partnership. What are you saying? "well yeah I want a relationship but if we brake up early on no hard feelings." That doesn't make any sense either. You don't walk into a job interview and say you are cool with getting fired as... (edited) read more

I read a sign that said "ask a man what a good woman is, and watch him describe a maid"

I don't personality agree with this, by "a good woman" i think of a partner. However there has to be some truth behind it or it wouldn't exist beyond a joke. At first I thought it was just some womanizer thing. But the more I thought about it. I came to the conclusion that a man who describes a... read more

Truckers Aren't the Problem—Civilians Are 👌🏼

Unpopular opinion: Everyone should have to pass a CDL general knowledge exam before getting a standard driver's license. If you understood stopping distances and blind spots the way truckers do, you’d realize that big rigs aren't the problem on the road—civilians are

Thoughts of the day

Society teaches women to be “low-maintenance” like it’s a virtue, then acts shocked when they’re exhausted. Selflessness is only praised when it’s unpaid. Boundaries get labeled “attitude” the moment they inconvenience someone. Funny how “be kind” rarely applies upward. Anyway. Therapy helps.... read more