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The Dating App Paradox: When You Find Exactly What You’re Looking For (Even When It's Not There)

A few minutes ago, I was talking to a younger guy from Peru who really seemed to need a friend. We were just goofing off, until out of nowhere, he told me he loves older guys, was looking for a "suggar", and asked if I could pay him. I unmatched him immediately. But it got me thinking about… read more

Daily Routine: 7 Principles of Time Management

This my schedule at the current time. Over time, I have identified seven key observations regarding time management, productivity, and the way we manage our own minds and bodies. 1. Breathing Practice Our bodies store up energy, and breathing serves as a tool to control it. Conscious breathing… read more

Where I Want to Take This Further

The six questions describe a way of approaching complex problems that has emerged through my observations and ongoing development of a broader methodology. They are not intended to be universal laws, and I do not assume that every component will be equally useful in every situation. What… read more

Understanding Entanglement

Initially, people speak well, but beyond certainly point, they stop conversation abruptly, they neither block nor continue conversation. They keep you in entangled position, that's where I am stuck. What is the fun keeping someone in superposition state?? Probably the answer is they want an… (edited) read more

DnD

Hey all! Im new to dnd and love it! Ive read a few books, played a one shot or two, and own a few modules. My friends love dnd too and are super down to learn how to play with me; however, I want to start a campaign as a player but it seems like out of my buddies their looking to me to DM. Im… read more

THE RETURN

She was never becoming someone else. She was learning how to return to herself. I was a girl before I understood what being a girl was supposed to mean. And somehow, the instructions arrived before I did. There were already rules waiting for me. How to sit. How to dress. How to speak. How much of… read more

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Humiliation is not leadership, it’s insecurity. Strong leaders correct in private. Weak ones perform cruelty in public. When your manager/boss/coworker humiliates you in public, it’s not always about your performance. Sometimes, it’s about their insecurity and need to feel powerful. Don’t let… read more

The chords she played

I allowed her to play every chord that would have her heart sing for me. I watched as she made mistakes, went off key and still let her play. I let her use me as a tool to satisfy every form of self expression she wished to perform. I sat, I listened and when it was all over i begged for an encore… read more

RIP Pac

Top 3 Greatest High Flyers in AEW history. Monumental loss. Seen him perform with Death Triangle at a Dynamite in 2024. Unforgettable talent 🕊

Attending Church vs. Living the Word

Opening Prayer ​Heavenly Father, we come before You today laying aside every distraction, every desire for human applause, and every attempt to put on a show. Search our hearts, Lord. Strip away any performative religion or empty words, and let Your Holy Spirit plant Your Word deep within us. Give… read more

Getting to know someone

After you’ve lived a little and loved a little, the talking stage starts to feel different but experience teaches you that connection isn’t built on chemistry alone, it’s built on curiosity. That’s why I’ve realised I don’t really enjoy conversations that begin with “tell me about yourself” and… read more

Indian big festival from tomorrow

Indian big festival from tomorrow Sure, Rajesh! Here is the complete story of Vijayadashami (Dussehra), the significance of the calendar terms, and the Shami tree worship written in English so you can easily share and read it with your daughter and family: Part 1: What does "Ashwayuja Shukla… read more

The world is a stage, and every person is performing a role

From police officers and doctors to shoppers and workers - people put on costumes, accept titles and begin to believe that the role is who they really are. A policeman imagines he is a policeman. A businessman imagines he is a businessman. People spend their lives acting inside a reality created by… read more

Why modern dating patterns punish emotionally available people?

One of the most destabilizing patterns I've noticed among clients (as a psychological counselor) in modern dating is that detachment is often rewarded, while emotional availability, regardless of gender, is quietly punished. Many emotionally available men and women enter dating with clarity,… (edited) read more

THE LORD JESUS CHRIST IS ALL YOU NEED

My brothers and sisters in Christ, our struggles can sometimes seem unbearable. We may find ourselves thinking that we are unable to go on. Our burdens seem too much to carry. We can be left exhausted and spent. When we are weak, the strength of the Lord Jesus Christ is perfected. It is he who… read more

Red flags.

people who don’t take accountability people seeking validation, not connection people who perform identities people who mimic whatever culture tells them to be people who want fantasy-level romance without emotional work

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The world is full of people who perform goodness like a costume. They wear it to hide their inadequacies, their smallness. Monsters aren't separate from humanity. But the line between the two is thinner than most care to admit.

The earth doesn't perform her peace. She just as it is.

Even if

Sometimes I get told I'm full of myself. But I have never once thought of myself as better than anyone more talented, of course not absolutely not there's a million people in the world could out perform me any day. But the latter option is a lifetime of not believing in myself. Not thinking I'm… read more

The Psychology of Romantic Chemistry🌌💖✨

1.Effortless Comfort Some people aren't great talkers, but simply being with them makes you feel so at ease that you naturally open up without even trying. ​2.Feeling Seen and Heard When you share something, they don’t just hear the words; they truly hold and acknowledge your feelings. ​3.Shared… read more

Cerebellar Word Test

To perform the **Cerebellar Writing/Word Test** follow these steps. This test is designed to measure "Ataxic Graphism"—the specific way a thinned-out cerebellum struggles to coordinate small, repetitive movements. ### **The Test Instructions** 1. **Use a Plain Sheet:** Do not use lined paper if… read more

About to watch a concert (Last Sunday)

Not that obvious, but deep inside I'm pumped to see December Avenue perform ✨

TRUST IN YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER

My brothers and sisters in Christ, as you walk with God you will undoubtedly face many challenges. It may seem like there is too much on your plate. You worry and you stress yourself out. You become overwhelmed with thoughts of doom and gloom. This exhausts you and has you feeling drained. Have you… read more

Monchi when she was a puppy😭

She grew into a circus animal with the hardcore spins and jumps she’ll randomly perform, she is also the smartest dog I’ve ever had🥹💕

Masculinity, Femininity, and Changing Gender Roles

I would like to discuss a topic that is often controversial: the relationship between masculinity, femininity, and gender roles. As a member of Gen Z, I have watched traditional expectations for men and women change significantly. Men are increasingly encouraged to be emotionally open, caring, and… read more

YOUR WORTH IS UNLIMITED. THE SYSTEM'S MEASUREMENTS ARE TINY. ​ This is the core problem at the heart of the digital age

​We use philosophical science to prove there’s an objective difference between your REAL WORTH—your deep, unique, complex consciousness—and your USEFULNESS—the simple, functional role you perform for the economy or state. ​When you're forced to spend all your energy conforming to being useful,… read more

Dating apps

So im a graduate student in philosophy and a lot of my research concerns technology and our well-being. Here are some shower thoughts: Its strange to me that one of the ways we most commonly engage with people now is through apps. This obviously allows us to meet people we would not otherwise… (edited) read more

The Pointer Sisters 💚🖤❤️

First African American Group to perform at the Grand Ole Opry (invite only). First African American group to win a Grammy for Best Country Vocal Performance.

Showtime

My outfit for my performance!!! I'm over the top as always but if you ask ME to perform I'm gonna PERFORM also the main entertainment is literally a drag queen so this is nothing

Guess what this is

In today's lab, we were tasked to collect, observe, and perform fertilization using the gametes of these 'broadcast spawners' which refers to organisms that make babies (fertilize) outside their bodies. Interesting right? Although, it was a 'break a sweat' once again (and it's so hot in the lab!)… (edited) read more

We’re All Just Trying to Come Home to Ourselves

Men taught to be strong. Women taught to be small. Both of us aching for connection but terrified to be seen. We’ve all inherited stories about what it means to be worthy, desirable, or “enough.” This is me peeling those layers back to look at how toxic masculinity, purity culture, and performance… read more

THE LORD JESUS CHRIST IS ALL YOU NEED

My brothers and sisters in Christ, our struggles can sometimes seem unbearable. We may find ourselves thinking that we are unable to go on. Our burdens seem too much to carry. We can be left exhausted and spent. When we are weak, the strength of the Lord Jesus Christ is perfected. It is he who… read more

Terrified to perform, but grateful for the experience 😂

You don't live anymore. You perform

Social media didn't expose people. It exposed their emptiness. A generation that once lived for memories now lives for witnesses. If nobody sees it, it suddenly feels like it never happened. People no longer buy things because they need them. They buy them because they need strangers to know they… read more

Putting "don't be dry" in a bio is a funny paradox. It pressures people to perform instead of being real, which ironically leads to the exact stiff conversation they were trying to avoid.🤣 ​Thoughts?

TRUST IN YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER

My brothers and sisters in Christ, as you walk with God you will undoubtedly face many challenges. It may seem like there is too much on your plate. You worry and you stress yourself out. You become overwhelmed with thoughts of doom and gloom. This exhausts you and has you feeling drained. Have you… read more

Life

Born to perform on stage & sing my lungs out to rock/d’n’b. Forced to work in retail where I get complaints about the price of a bag when they’ve spent over £100 on their shop.

Mindanao's crown jewel. Turquoise waters reflecting the heavens, mountains wrapping around you like a warm embrace

Before it became a famous ecotourism destination, this place was surrounded by tragedies, folklore, and mysterious events that became part of South Cotabato’s history. On September 6, 1995, a major tragedy occurred when the crater wall of the mountain collapsed and gave way. This triggered… read more

Magic is in language

I am convinced that we use magic every single day. Not physics defying or logic breaking magic, but real magic. I want you to compare classic examples of magic to what we have today. A magic crystal is generally described as a crystal with the ability to recieve a command and then perform a task… (edited) read more