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A relationship should never make you feel like you have to perform to be loved. The right connection allows you to exist as you are, without fear of losing someone for being real.

TW: (sexual) Grooming

According to Wikipedia: Sexual Grooming is the action or behavior used to establish an emotional connection with a vulnerable person. This includes: generally a minor under the age of consent – and sometimes the victim's family, to lower their inhibitions with the objective of sexual abuse. It... read more

Love doesn’t rush you or trap you. It gives you space to breathe, to grow, to be fully yourself without fear of abandonment or punishment. You don’t have to perform to keep love it stays because it wants to.

Why are men taught how to treat women… but women rarely get taught how to treat men? 🤔

In modern relationship talk, there’s a very common pattern: 👨 Men get a whole “how to be a good partner” curriculum: ✅ respect her ✅ communicate better ✅ emotional intelligence ✅ consent ✅ plan dates / be thoughtful / “do better” But 👩 women rarely get an equivalent “how to treat a man well”... read more

Day 79 of Year 4's Dancing Today In Music The Look Roxette

On this day in 1995, Roxette became the first Western group to perform in Beijing since George Michael in 1984 when they played a concert celebrating the Chinese New Year. For day 79 of year 4's dancing, I danced to 5 Roxette songs.

The Pointer Sisters 💚🖤❤️

First African American Group to perform at the Grand Ole Opry (invite only). First African American group to win a Grammy for Best Country Vocal Performance.