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Why does caring more about what others think make it easier to lose oneself?

I’ve noticed an interesting phenomenon lately. Some people are already very tired, but they are still too embarrassed to refuse others; some people make a decision and are quite satisfied with it, but start to doubt it repeatedly because of a few words from others. When we are young, we often crave… read more

What Is Your Greatest Fear?

We are all afraid of something. Loneliness, death, rejection, or losing someone we love. People often say, “I’m not afraid of anything.” Yet most of us experience fear when something matters to us. Sometimes, fear wakes us up in the middle of the night. Other times, simply imagining a difficult… read more

I find out the weird phenomenon 😅😅😅 in the chatting field... That we can have a great conversation, like we actually can match our energy for a moment and then they vanish, kind of one night stand in chat version 😂😂 Have you ever experienced it?

A Reflection on Language, Spirituality, and Emotional Awareness

A mental exercise before reading; Without using Google, can you explain the meaning of terms such as energy, vibration, resonance, and light? If not, consider reading the following reflection with an open and critical mind. First, I want to clarify that I personally remain open to the possibility… read more

Time Travel

Which event in history would you prefer to travel to and witness?

A Reflection on Language, Spirituality, and Emotional Awareness

A mental exercise before reading Without using Google, can you explain the meaning of terms such as energy, vibration, resonance, and light? If not, consider reading the following reflection with an open and critical mind. First, I want to clarify that I personally remain open to the possibility… read more

Ghosting

Is it cold of me to not be bothered when people just don’t reply or keep the conversation going? I see a lot of posts talking about being ghosted (and I do honestly see how that could hurt especially when it feels like there was a connection), but when it happens to me I just kind of shrug and say… read more

Less like waves and more like the rain

Atleast like the rain in this part of the world, meaning scant and scarce. It boils to down to the questions I can never find the answer to, as well as the desire to be loved, but i assume once you get up past a certain complexity this is not a new phenomenon. I will specify that it comes from… read more

My first experience of Sun Halo 😇

This phenomenon is a 22° solar halo, on June 18 . It is created when sunlight refracts through high-altitude ice crystals in the atmosphere . These crystals bend the light to form a bright, often multicolored, halo ring or a "smile" in the sky

Inspired by "The Map that Leads to You"

Transit A stray vector slides into another. Spacetime leaves a door ajar. Impact rearranges the internal weather. The moment thickens, elastic, and two lives stop negotiating with tomorrow. Time loosens its grip: the second widening into a field you can stand in. Tomorrow is a… read more

The Northern Lights

I know it's not the most insane image of the aurora, but this photo was from my first time seeing them recently. I live in a place where it's not often that they're visible, so being able to see this phenomenon was an incredible experience.

Altruism Beyond Reciprocity: Sex, Time, and the Cultural Mediation of Prosociality

## Abstract This essay examines a thesis that circulates increasingly in both academic and popular discourse: that men exhibit a distinctive form of altruism — unconditional, indifferent to reciprocal benefit, oriented toward the long term and toward future generations — and that contemporary… read more

DOUBLE RAINBOW🌈

A priceless phenomenon! 🫶

Asking all of u

Why do you think so many younger men prefer mature/older women these days? Is this just a coincidence or has it become a phenomenon?

Rainbow clouds over Jonggol (Jakarta area), Indonesia this week 🌈☁️

These rainbow clouds are actually extremely rare meteorological phenomenon called "iridescent clouds" - a rare type of clouds that appear when raindrops interact with sunlight.

Boat boy + Sakanaction

"Ima naite nanfun ka go no jibun wowow oh oh oh oh oh" So far I'm happy for the fact that internet is so weird and it makes a huge phenomenon often

What do you think?

Why is it that within a team, some individuals choose to undermine their colleagues in pursuit of recognition and approval from those in positions of authority?? I have often come across stories and discussions about this phenomenon in professional environments. Rather than fostering… read more

Is it just me or being a decent human becoming a rare phenomenon nowadays?

I'm waiting for my doctor's appointment and a cleaning lady was moping the floor. When she came near me I just quietly lifted my legs and got a quiet thank you. Everyone else didn't even look at her for a second.

So about that Mississippi River...

I've tried finding answers. This is more a thought piece post, not a for sure kinda thing... Exploring the nature of saturn retrograde in pisces (sidereal) testing boundaries and structures and waters and Karmic lessons... And I guess the 2012 movie and songs clues were pointing to climate change… read more

Blue Fire💙 Ijen Crater, Banyuwangi, East Java, Indonesia🇮🇩

This blue fire phenomenon only found in two places in the world. At Ijen crater, East Java, Indonesia and Danakil Depression, Ethiopia. But the largest area is in Indonesia. Ijen Crater is an active volcano in East Java, Indonesia, famous for its large, highly acidic, turquoise-green crater lake… (edited) read more

Love Blindness: The Believable Lie Beneath "The Happy Ending"

The Happy Ending: What Really Lies Beneath Our Search for Love The Disney Effect & The Mirror of Projections: Rethinking Neurodivergent Love Patterns, Dealing with Impermanence, and Reclaiming Self-Worth By Ford Davies A Warning to the Traveler upon this road looking for signs of… read more

400

Crisis. Across multiple places, in various and countless lands on the globe, of different mindsets and cultures, the same phenomenon was striking all across. A pandemic of unseen proportions, affecting the ones that should never be afflicted to such deep levels of horror: our infants. The… read more

Why an Anti-Narcissist Culture Would Need to be Heavily Reliant on Bottom-Up Processing.

Top-down processing is a cognitive style where a person starts with a belief, assumption, narrative, or framework and then interprets new information through that lens. It filters perception, memory, and judgment through what is already expected or already believed. When people use it for judging… read more

Crybullyism

It refers to a manipulative tactic where individuals or groups engage in intimidation, harassment, or abuse while simultaneously portraying themselves as victims—especially of perceived social injustices. The term, which has been in use for about a decade, describes a pattern of behavior where the… read more

Rainbow clouds over Jonggol (near Jakarta), Indonesia this week 🌈☁️

These rainbow clouds are actually extremely rare meteorological phenomenon called "iridescent clouds" - a rare type of clouds that appear when raindrops interact with sunlight.

You feed what destroys you

Funny how the moment you criticize a bad behavior, suddenly you become “the villain.” Meanwhile, the people who clap for it, reward it, or pretend they don’t see it are somehow the “nice ones.” Interesting logic. Sometimes the person calling out the problem has better intentions than the person… read more

You're favorite phenomenon?

For me it's the Aurora Borealis. Even the name is pretty!

Solomon's Paradox

Haven't heard of this term but found this to be interesting: Solomon’s paradox is the psychological phenomenon where individuals are much better at reasoning wisely and providing sound advice for other people's problems than they are at solving their own.Named after the biblical King Solomon—who… read more

Dating

I always find it amusing to listen to people talking about the world of dating. Some say people have become worse. Others say you simply have to learn to play the game better. Curious. When an environment forces decisions in seconds, it is only natural that what succeeds is what can be seen in… read more

Why Would I Love A random Stranger!

People always say they are looking for love. Love isn't something you buy it's something you earn. The first trigger is always a basic biological phenomenon called attraction some people call this lust! Whatever the reason love at first sight is BS. You meet, date, understand, decide and… read more

I'm not even of the same generation when this phenomenon came out yet I felt like a goddamn dinosaur for understanding this... 🤣🤣🤣

Blue fire and Ijen Crater Banyuwangi, East Java, Indonesia💙

Credit: @mrezaadityaw The blue fire at Ijen Crater in East Java, Indonesia, is a rare natural phenomenon, often cited as one of only two places in the world to witness this, with the other being the Dallol Volcano in Ethiopia. It is created by sulfur gas igniting at temperatures up to 600… read more

Has anyone experienced this weird phenomenon? 😂

You start talking to someone, the conversation is going really well, and you actually get excited enough to mention them to someone close to you ... like, “I think I might have met someone interesting.” And then… POOF 💨 Suddenly they disappear, stop replying, become distant, or somehow the whole… read more

Late Night Thoughts

Has anyone experienced this phenomenon where you drink a caffeinated beverage—like Monster Energy or Red Bull—and instead of feeling energized, you actually end up feeling tired or sleepy? I don’t consume energy drinks that often, so it’s not like I’ve built up a tolerance. Is anyone else in the… read more

Late Son Part 9

The Boat at Night The river was dark enough that night felt earned. When the boat came, it did not announce itself. No lights. No greeting. It moved against the current, slowly and badly, as though whoever was guiding it had chosen direction over sense. Steven heard it before he saw it—the wrong… read more

The undeniable and proven reality is that everyone must face this situation alone. Allahu Akbar!

Have you ever thought about what happens to our brain chemistry right at the moment when life is fading? When the room becomes quiet, the vision begins to blur, and the stiff body ceases to be alive. Many people think we continue to "die" just like that. However, the reality behind the scenes of… (edited) read more

Why Narcissism Seems to be a Norm to Many Autistic People

From the perspective of an autistic person who is highly bottom-up as a processor, narcissistic personalities appear to be the norm, I will run you through this trait by trait as outlined by the DSM V. ***Trait 1: Having a grandiose sense of self-importance, such as exaggerating achievements and… read more