Understanding with age.

#psychology

Olivia

17h

INTP

Leo

6

7

What is authenticity?

They say to heal from insecure attachment, one must learn how to feel safe while being authentically themselves in every context. Essentially, stop code switching. Interrupt the hypervigilence. But... The reality is, we legitimately are not safe in every context. How do you feel secure in a world... read more

#psychology

Leon Allen

10h

ISFJ

Libra

What is left of the flowers that were for a date that didn’t turn up 09 weeks ago. Time to let them go. Has anyone else had cut flowers that have lasted so long?

#psychology

Santy

8h

ISFP

Taurus

Psychology says overthinking is a form of anxiety.

Psychology says overthinking is a form of anxiety.I it’s a full-time hobby—with no pay and unlimited overtime. Just yesterday, I spent 15 minutes typing a text, 30 minutes wondering if it sounded “too much,” and another 20 deleting it. In the end, I didn’t send anything… and the person still... read more

#psychology

Sergio

11h

INTP

Cancer

Smile and laugh 😁😂

Being happy is the best medicine for avoiding or fighting depression. In our days, lots of people are suffering from this silent illness and it's very hard to overcome and sometimes neither pills can handle it. My advice? Be happy, see the problems with joy, stop, breathe and encourage yourself to... read more

#psychology

Daniel

2y

INFP

Leo

9

1

Empathy of psyco/sociopaths

I know it can't be normal, but like, why do I feel empathy towards psycho/sociopaths and serial killers? I feel sorts of sorry towards Dahmer and the Unibomber etc. Why do I have thoughts of horrific things such as murder and suicide? I'd loveee some deep chat and insight.

#psychology

Billie

15h

INFJ

Cancer

9

1

People I don't like

Don't get the "real" version of me ... You gotta earn that lol

#psychology

Tomi

1d

INFJ

Virgo

4

3

7 Signals of Fundamental Incompatibility

It's not the obvious flaws or toxic behaviors that predict relationship failure. It's subtle discrepancies in values and emotional needs that the infatuated mind rationalizes, but which become unsustainable in the longterm. 1. Incompatible emotional regulation styles- One seeks connection when... read more

#psychology

Harsh Ratnani

1h

ENFJ

Virgo

9

1

I was burning while you where blaming me for the smell of ashes

#psychology

J.D.

12h

INFP

Gemini

2

3

😶

Sometimes I find someone, and my immediate opinion is "you're weird".... But, like, the best people are weird, and I often see "weird" like a fascinating puzzle, like I just want to dig in, and figure the person out, not to judge, but to just understand, and appreciate them like a work of... read more

#psychology

Rio

20h

ISTJ

Taurus

8

7

Food for thought 🧠💭

#psychology

Leire

36m

INFJ

Aquarius

2

1

What's the most serious thing a man has said that sounded hilarious to you?

Genuinely curious 🤔.

#psychology

Santy

1h

ISFP

Taurus

The Brain's Selective Superpowers

Psychology Fact: Your brain can detect a toxic person in a crowd… But not the toxic patterns in your own choices. Also your brain: Catches typos in others’ work like Sherlock Holmes, Misses your own mistakes like Mr. Bean. Moral: The human brain is powerful—just sometimes… selectively lazy.

#psychology

Yash

16h

ISTP

Aquarius

Video games : men = Shopping: women . Do agree ? Lemme know what u think

#psychology

Joe

2h

ENFP

Capricorn

2

1

I am not photogenic...

I dun mean I'm ugly or anything...just when I take pics, my adoptive mom, always telling me not to smile the way I do on picture day, because it reminded her of my bio mom, who she blamed for my father's death, always runs through my mind...and I can't smile.

#psychology

Selman

8h

ISFJ

Aquarius

2

3

Now imagine

Imagine how the world would be if parents would say this. Or atleast admit to it. Oh well .

#psychology

Tim

1d

INTP

Scorpio

2

1

How to identify manipulation.

Many people seem to have trouble understanding this topic, and only are aware they were even manipulated or used in hindsight. It's simple. If someone is unwilling to do something for you that you are willing to do for them, then it is likely they are using you for the resource you are willing to... read more

#psychology

Etienne

1d

INFJ

Aries

9

1

Truthfullness Vs opposite of kindness

What do you really prefer ? Someone faking being kind with you ? Or someone revealing truth ? Facing your mirror is not easy. Yet, there are two images that miror could reflect. The beauty hidden within you, and all the things you wannabe and you are not. Forget about the second, since you cannot... read more

#psychology

Tina

5d

INTJ

Gemini

Chasing

Butterflies is fun.. if you're fast enough

#psychology

Billie

10d

INFJ

Cancer

9

1

Some requests

That I don't accept from men on this app are wild. I rejected a request from a man who asked "will you submit to me?" Submit to what, sir? I'll submit your body to the morgue

#psychology

Billie

1d

INFJ

Cancer

9

1

I'm 42 and

Sometimes I feel like I'm 87..that can't be normal

#psychology

Brayan Joel

2d

INFJ

Scorpio

Give me ur mental advice

How can someone get out of depression?

#psychology

Pratz

5d

ESFP

Cancer

8

7

Your thoughts? 💭

#psychology

Billie

29d

INFJ

Cancer

9

1

👏

Just FYI: If you're a woman in your 30s or 40s and your idea of having a "strong personality" is putting down people/other women and insulting them, you don't have a 'strong personality", you're just a loud narcissist. Edit: trolls and comments that have nothing to do with this post will be... (edited) read more

#psychology

Mariana

4d

INFP

6

7

"Quiet quiting" in a relationship

Have you heard of the term "quiet quiting" related to jobs? Basically it's when a person looks for a new job and slowly starts working less, show less interest and engagement in their daily responsibilities and tasks, but doesn't quit the job themselves. Is there any term like that in... read more

#psychology

Prachi

3d

INFP

Scorpio

my thought process 😌🤘 (edited)

#psychology

Billie

18d

INFJ

Cancer

9

1

😔 What should I say?

Serious and empathetic advice only please, i'll delete and block any rude comments. ⚠️ One of my good friends had a miscarriage, and since I've never been in this situation before, I don't want to say the wrong thing. I'm not sure exactly what to say. What can I say to comfort her during this... read more

#psychology

Rochy

5d

INFJ

6

5

To heal, you also need company. 🫂🌱

When we say that attachment is healed through attachment, we mean that the wounds created in a relationship can’t fully close in solitude. It’s not enough to understand it—you have to live something different. The nervous system needs to experience safety, tenderness, presence. Not just hear... read more

#psychology

Ricci

4d

INTP

Scorpio

Who can give it try

It's very simple 😇

#psychology

peaches

14d

INTJ

Scorpio

2

3

according to psychology, true love is often silent— seen in emotional availability, active listening, and quiet empathy rather than grand declarations. do you agree? is it true? (edited)

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Jess

2d

INTJ

Pisces

is there anything you want to say?

since the highlight of our human lives is feeling, thinking, being. is there anything you want to say? maybe something that resides within due to fear (of multiple factors). a honesty and truth that just hasn’t had its debut. something to scream to the world, even if it doesn’t change how the... read more

#psychology

Cocoa

10d

ESFJ

Libra

🤎🤎🤎

Do you still believe in Love ?

#psychology

Suzy

7d

ENFP

Aquarius

8

7

❤️

Love never complains, it always gives. Love tolerates, never gets upset, never gets angry."

#psychology

Fe

12d

INFJ

Libra

Looking for good conversation <3

hi, talk?

#psychology

N

27d

ESFJ

3

4

Silent

Silent treatment kinda bit toxic..

#psychology

Billie

1d

INFJ

Cancer

9

1

Am I overreacting?

One of my female roommates calls me "hunny" in texts and it pisses me off because it sounds condescending. Is this just me? I guess there's the issue that I'm 8 years older than her as well lol

#psychology

Jeanette

25d

INFP

Pisces

4

5

What's an example of a red flag? Most interesting wins

#psychology

San

26d

ISTJ

Aries

How can I end a friendship with someone toxic? (edited)

#psychology

Rochy

2d

INFJ

6

5

Emotional responsibility ❤️‍🩹

Lack of interest is not solved by ignoring the person you don’t want to interact with. There’s a girl (Valeria Wise 👩🏻‍⚕️) here on Boo who explains it quite well: “Sometimes, people need a clear and direct response to understand there’s no interest. However, it’s also true that we’re not always... read more