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What if you created your own rules to love by? What would they be ?

No overthinking — just honesty.



#chronicillness #chronicfatigue #multiplesclerosis #autoimmune #illness #disability #invisibledisability #understanding #empathy #depression #cfs #neurological #health #tired #selfacceptance #selfcare #communicatingdirectly #boundaries #values #respect #selfcare #mentalawareness #mentalhealth… (edited) read more

#universe #laughing #understanding
Wish there was just one single person who could understand me
#people #life #learning #memes #wellness #health #happiness

#trust #love #peace #believe #understanding #adhd #english
#mental #mentalawareness #mentalhealth #mentalhealthadvice #mentalhealthadvocacy #fact #facts #criticalthinking #insight #insightful #thoughts #real #reflect #reflecting #reflection #respect #experiences #curiosity #perspective #understanding #clearcommunication #chatting #empathetic #empathy… (edited) read more

#chronicillness #chronicfatigue #multiplesclerosis #autoimmune #illness #disability #invisibledisability #understanding #empathy #depression #cfs #neurological #health #tired #selfacceptance #selfcare #communicatingdirectly #boundaries #values #respect #selfcare #mentalawareness #mentalhealth… (edited) read more

People see words like "conflict" and "confront" and automatically attach a negative connotation to it. It doesn't have to be negative. You can get through conflict by confronting someone with understanding and remaining calm. Not everything needs to be an argument and definitely not a… (edited) read more
#chronicillness #chronicfatigue #multiplesclerosis #autoimmune #illness #disability #invisibledisability #understanding #empathy #depression #cfs #neurological #health #tired #selfacceptance #selfcare #communicatingdirectly #boundaries #values #respect #selfcare #mentalawareness #mentalhealth… (edited) read more

#chronicillness #chronicfatigue #multiplesclerosis #autoimmune #illness #disability #invisibledisability #understanding #empathy #depression #cfs #neurological #health #tired #selfacceptance #selfcare #communicatingdirectly #boundaries #values #respect #selfcare #mentalawareness #mentalhealth… (edited) read more

*excuse the typos, no edits on polls* 🤭People come into your life in seasons. Do you feel this to be true? Is there meaning behind the people who cross your path? Whether they be luck of the draw or the bringers or misfortune and trauma? #life #universe #spirituality #chance #meaning #purpose… (edited) read more
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Is a person who holds grudges for years is a bad person??!
Dont take it personally. I have an illness called fibromyalgia. It causes fog in the brain, exhaustion. I start every day distracted and confused.

MS is a chronic neurological autoimmune disease. Chronic means that there's no cure for it and its effects often reach all aspects of life. It's different for everyone, as is everything, but don't invalidate someone's illness just because it's invisible. 🦋 #chronicillness #chronicfatigue… (edited) read more

I am no better or worse than anyone else and in my life I've learned that all people want to be respected and understood most in life but in order to receive those things you have to do the same, especially when everything I see in other's is opposite from my way of living my life.

Sometimes I wish I had someone who always has my back at my work. But mostly everyone is for themselves. Even if I had a bad day today. My teammate laugh and talk bad about me. So I didn't say a thing. Why stoop to his level. Sometimes you just got to ignore people. To me you can talk bad about me… read more
Why can I not understand the difference between someone "Telling like it is" and "Being a Jerk"? In most cases when someone is being treated unfairly by others they speak their mind and praised for defending their values. To my ear it always sounds like they'r just talking down to others, only to… (edited) read more
Sometimes things we see and assume is totally different so its better to wait and see what is the best yet to happen 😊

Still, some simply want... #someone who understands the #unspoken words, the silent struggles, and the dreams hidden beneath the surface. They seek not just companionship, but a deep #connection where presence alone brings comfort and where even the quietest moments are filled with #understanding… read more

Live as accordingly as Life taken you with a same pace. #family #husbandandwife #soulbonding #understanding #compromise

With most trouble that I have had in my life, other people seem to tell me the same thing, LET IT GO! Just let it go and move on from the past. Move on and stop thinking about it, you'll just forget it happened. How can that be true when I hold onto the pain from my past. How can I truly believe… read more
Is expectation still expectation if it's not for the bus to arrive on time but for a friend to act a certain way, and is averice not still averice if it is not to do with money but getting a promotion in a job at any cost If we isolate the experience from the surroundings and objects it seems that… read more
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I give up. And I mean that from the deepest, darkest corners of my heart. Not on life. Not on myself. Not on the future I have spent so long dreaming of. This is not a final goodbye, nor is it a surrender to the darkness. It is a promise. A quiet vow to the person I have spent far too long… read more
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I'm here to meet someone genuine, caring, honest, and respectful. I believe a beautiful relationship starts with friendship, good conversations, trust, and understanding. I enjoy getting to know someone slowly and seeing where things go naturally I'm open to meeting someone from a different… read more

To me, a beautiful relationship is not just about love; it is also about mutual respect, understanding, and supporting one another through both good times and bad. I hope to meet someone who has a serious intention to build a future together—someone with whom I can grow old, sharing a life filled… read more
Hi, kiddos! It's your IBUUU here! 😼💗 By the way, I'm sorry we're meeting a little late. Maybe in another 4-5 years? Psssttt... it all depends on when Mommy meets her soulmate, your future Dad! 😄💗 There are still so many things I need to work on, especially within myself. For now, I'm still… read more
I hope to find a partner who is faithful, compatible, kind-hearted, understanding, responsible, and polite.🤍
We can study entire disciplines without entering a university, learn from people we will never meet, and access more knowledge than any previous generation could have imagined. Yet access to information does not automatically produce understanding. We read without integrating. We learn without… read more

We are all afraid of something. Loneliness, death, rejection, or losing someone we love. People often say, “I’m not afraid of anything.” Yet most of us experience fear when something matters to us. Sometimes, fear wakes us up in the middle of the night. Other times, simply imagining a difficult… read more
Every man wants a girlfriend who is beautiful, loyal, and always understanding of his situation... but the question is, when a woman brings up the cost of skincare, why do they say, "I love you just the way you are"? 😅✌️
I still have a hard time understanding the game, the ins and outs, but the world is so immersive! 👲🏼🧧🐲⛩️🏮🍜💜

Proverbs 3:5–6 "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight" Even when I cannot see the way, I trust that God is leading me toward something beautiful. Don't forget to go church, may God bless… read more
There is an uncomfortable paradox in modern technology. The same device that can give you access to almost the entire accumulated knowledge of humanity can also consume the attention you need to use that knowledge. The problem is not the phone. It is not social media. It is not technology… read more

Losing an account means losing a place where your work, conversations, and ideas have accumulated. Rebuilding that space is strange — especially when the work itself never stopped. So, rather than simply reintroducing myself, I want to make something clear about what I do here. I'm an independent… read more
I’m here hoping to meet someone special and hopefully build a genuine, long-term relationship! I love classic rock, especially Guns N’ Roses, AC/DC, Aerosmith, Queen, and Red Hot Chili Peppers! 🎸 I also enjoy drawing, playing video games, watching anime, and having good conversations! I’m… read more
I value open, meaningful communication — no wasted time. Honesty, mutual respect, and selflessness are what matter most. Growing up with little support taught me something precious: I know what it feels like to be unvalued, misunderstood, excluded, looked down upon — and precisely because of… read more
A person sleeps poorly. They change their pillow. Then their mattress. Then their evening routine. Then they try melatonin, then meditation, then a strict schedule. Each intervention is reasonable. Each one addresses a real factor. And yet the problem persists. Because the sleep issue was never… read more

A breakup hurts, but nothing hurts like realizing you stayed through every red flag because you believed love meant patience. You kept understanding, forgiving, and fighting for them, only to wonder why you were giving everything to someone who wasn't even fighting to keep you. - ✍️
"First of all... I want to apologize to everyone who follows me here and to everyone who saw my statements. In fact, I lost a friend after 15 years... a four-legged friend, a Belgian Malinois. I had four of them and they are all gone now; he was the last one... a reminder of better days. Now I can… read more


I’ll forever have a soft spot for people who open up about the darkest parts of their past. The people who quietly tell you about the things they’ve been through, the pain they carried for years and the moments that shaped them into who they are today. Sometimes all I can think is: ‘how did you… read more
I was thinking about this again while working. As human beings, what are we actually doing here? We spend our lives chasing money, building careers, dreaming about the future, developing technology, falling in love, experiencing happiness, facing struggles, and creating memories. Generation after… read more

There comes a point in your life when you have to move on. This can be one of the hardest decisions you'll ever have to make. Be it a divorce, a break-up or even a friendship...these moments can represent a monumental challenge. You might come back from college or from public/military service to… read more
You may be good at solving problems, making difficult decisions, and helping others find their way. But when it comes to your own life, sometimes even the simplest answers become difficult to see. That’s something life has taught me. No matter how capable we think we are, we still have so much… read more
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🌅 Morning Prayer for Success Friday, October 23, 2026 🙏 Our Dear and Loving Heavenly Father, As we welcome this Friday morning, we come before Thee with thankful hearts and renewed hope. Thank Thee for carrying us through another week, for the strength to overcome our challenges, and for the… read more
The six questions describe a way of approaching complex problems that has emerged through my observations and ongoing development of a broader methodology. They are not intended to be universal laws, and I do not assume that every component will be equally useful in every situation. What… read more

Perhaps one of the fundamental mistakes we make when falling in love is projecting our idealised desires onto someone based on what we see on the surface, while overlooking the complexity of who they truly are. We often fall in love with the version of a person we experience, the way they make us… read more
Before attempting to fix a part, it is worth asking three questions that redirect attention from the element to the structure: First: What is this element connected to?** Not what it does in isolation. What feeds it, what it feeds, what it depends on, what depends on it. Second: If I change this… read more

It should be noted that two people can have different perspectives on a matter without the other perspective being necessarily more true than the other. Understanding and willing to see the other person's perspective is crucial even if you still do not agree, the point is to understand not simply… read more
