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Should you give unsolicited form advice at the gym?

I always notice small form issues at the gym like head position during chest press (forward head) and get the urge to say something. It’s not dangerously wrong, just not ideal. I’ve held back most of the time, but once I did speak up, mentioning I’m a trainer and had injured myself doing it that... read more

Love team sports and wanna try out a new sport?

Hi, so who out here loves to run with a bunch of people and do some team sports and like to get to know many sporty competitive but genuinely nice and helpful people? :D If you are interested, can I introduce you to an incredible team sport with a club in Gothenburg? :D

Men, your thoughts...

Would you rather your message be accepted if there is no interest to let you know there isn't (nothing rude, just acknowledgement and gratitude for your message) or would you rather be left on read or just get declined? 24hrs(ish) after: Thanks everyone for your responses. After reading so many... (edited) read more

New to the app

So I'm new to this app and so far it seems to operate differently than other dating apps. What exactly are the paid features and what is free on this app? Google hasn't been the best most helpful.

✺ The Sycophant in the Machine: A Personal Warning ✺

For the past few years, my life and dating experiences have inadvertently become a research ground for a modern crisis: The intellectualization of relationships over human feeling. ​I want to be clear, I am extremely pro-AI. I believe this technology has the potential to change everything for the... read more

There's no hope

I’m often asked why I’m still single, and the truth is that it isn’t that simple. I genuinely want to meet someone and be in a relationship, but these days it feels very difficult to do so. When I try to start a conversation, it often ends with the woman saying she is already taken or has a... read more