Integrity Community

If you want a relationship that is serious, stop being performative. So many people have traumas they don't deal with. They will not be successful in the long term or sometimes even in the short term in relationships like that. To stop being performative...

You MUST heal from your traumas. If you deal with repressed emotions/thoughts, hatred towards those who hurt you and hatred towards yourself, resentments, etc. DEAL with that. That will lead you to love yourself and learn to prefer dating a person who shares values with you. You'll learn to be a… read more

Integrity is who you are when there is nothing to gain and no one to impress

Psalm 25:21

Let integrity and uprightness preserve me; for I wait on thee. — Psalm 25:21 Reflection: Integrity is more than a moral choice; it is a spiritual safeguard. God Bless.

Genuineness

To give real service you must add something which cannot be bought or measured with money, and that is sincerity and integrity.

You become your highest self when in what no one can ever steal

Your Character You Integrity Your Honesty Your Discipline And your Capacity to stay kind

2 Timothy 2:15

Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. – 2 Timothy 2:15 2 Timothy 2:15 is a call to spiritual craftsman integrity. God expects believers—especially teachers and leaders—to approach His Word with serious care,… read more

Today’s log

I think i struggle a lot. I don’t know why i let myself keep on “autopilot” doing things that creates bad habits. I know i shouldn’t do it, but i keep doing it. I do realize i have a lot in my bag to unpack about my thoughts, my emotion and feel myself. Go out, see the world, try to sit and sink in… (edited) read more

Calm Demeanor

It is easy to be spiritual when standard emotional maturity is still out of reach. When intensity replaces integrity, dramatic words become a convenient substitute for simple reliability. In the end, empty rhetoric always reveals itself against the quiet standard of consistent action.

What is “love” these days?

Longing, hope, and love will probably always be a business. Greed takes the place of honesty, integrity, and respect. Some people see it as a candy store, taking whatever they think they need in the moment. Others are only interested in stringing people along, exploiting them, and lying to… read more

The dead don't hold. They RSVP to the socket...filed under structural integrity.

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"Better to be a wolf everyone hates, than a donkey everyone rides." Integrity above everything.

So who else is just here for an online friendship?

Boo is not just a dating app, I always say, that's why I don't feel quite comfortable with the new logo it has now... Anyways, I am in favor of being socially "allowed" to be in these kind of apps even if married, it could be you want/need more social interaction or that you are curious and you… read more

Money doesn’t make a man a provider

Money can buy dinner. It can buy gifts. It can buy comfort. But it can’t buy responsibility A provider isn’t defined by how much money he has. He’s defined by his mindset Some men may not have much, yet they’re willing to work harder, learn more, take on more, and keep improving because they… read more

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Match the Energy, Not Just the Outfit Some people put more effort into coordinating their clothes than they do into keeping their promises. Looking the part is easy-being the person you claim to be takes consistency, integrity, and accountability. Words can impress, but actions reveal the truth.… (edited) read more

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Being beautiful is a privilege, but what makes you stand out is the way you think, treat others, and stay sane in a chaotic world. Beauty fades, but value remains. Principles, attitudes, and a strong heart will never fade. Focus on being a valuable person, not just a beautiful one, because the… read more

As someone who’s 165 cm (5’5”), this hits close to home.

It’s not the preference that hurts. Everyone is free to be attracted to whoever they want. What hurts is being told that because you aren’t 180 cm, you’re somehow “less of a man.” Imagine having your masculinity judged by a number you had zero control over before you were even born. I’ve had… read more

I Woke Up and Chose Chaos

Today I woke up and chose chaos. Specifically, chaos on dating apps. I’ve tried the “cool girl” approach. I’ve tried being emotionally available. I’ve tried crafting thoughtful, charming, well-balanced opening lines that say, *“I’m stable but fun. Quirky but grounded. Mysterious but… read more

Double standards

"The righteous man walks in his integrity; blessed are his children after him." Proverbs 20:7 I grew up in a culture where men were often given more grace, more opportunities and more respect simply because they were men. Yet many women were expected to carry the burdens raising children alone,… read more

Princess of God qualities 👸

Core Spiritual Qualities Seeks God First: Prioritizes her relationship with God above all else, finding satisfaction in Him. Grounded in Scripture: Uses the Bible as her primary source of truth and guidance. Fear of the Lord: A reverent awe and respect for God that motivates holy living and… read more

A word for the fellas

You know what costs ZERO dollars? Effort Kindness Authenticity Integrity Intention Thoughtfulness Communication Maturity Respect (edited)

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A true relationship doesn't start with a violation, but with a clear intention, proven through action, and approached with respect. Maintaining boundaries, self-respect, value, standard,dignity, and integrity won't separate us from our true soul mate. A serious person won't back down just because… read more

Boundaries

I am unsure of who needs to see this. No one sets boundaries without walking through fire first. To draw a line is to summon the gravity of your own soul and demand it be honored. Those who cannot bear it will fall away, like shadows retreating from a sudden, unflinching light. Their departure is… read more

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A true relationship doesn't start with a violation, but with a clear intention, proven through action, and approached with respect. Maintaining boundaries, self-respect, value, standard,dignity, and integrity won't separate us from our true soul mate. A serious person won't back down just because… read more

Boo isn't owned by Match Group

Which is why this app stands a chance in the market to supplement human connection. It isn't perfect (obviously), it still relies on swipe match functionality to attract it's user base, but at the very heart of Match Groups agenda is purely profiting from loneliness and failed relationships. If you… read more

Not all Filipinas are the same, and it’s sad when some people assume we are.

To my fellow Filipinas, please remember that our actions also reflect on other women from our country. When conversations with foreigners become only about money asking money specially if your just started talking, it creates the wrong impression and affects those who are genuinely looking for… read more

lately,

i've been called "too serious" or "stiff" just for being straightforward about status and setting clear boundaries. ​here's the reality: in a space filled with "anomalies" and a lack of integrity, my seriousness is my self-respect. if you find healthy boundaries to be too much or "14yo Tumblr… read more

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Being beautiful is a privilege, but what makes you stand out is the way you think, treat others, and stay sane in a chaotic world. Beauty fades, but value remains. Principles, attitudes, and a strong heart will never fade. Focus on being a valuable person, not just a beautiful one, because the… read more

Proverbs 13:20

Proverbs 13:20 "Walk with the wise and become wise; associate with fools and get in trouble." This proverb highlights the power of association. Our habits, beliefs, and character are shaped by whom we spend time with. Wisdom is contagious; fellowship with the wise expands discernment, discipline,… read more

The scale of this is depressing

So many gen X'rs and older millennials posting slop (generative ai), either stuff they found or worse, of themselves... Yuck 😭 Zero integrity, just awful (edited)

Neurological Level

The Cheat Sheet to Your Reality: Why Things Aren't Clicking (Yet) Ever wonder why you’re working hard but still feel stuck? It’s because you’re probably trying to fix your life at the wrong level. Check out these Neurological Levels: • Spirituality (The Big Why): This is your connection to… read more

What do you think?

Why is it that within a team, some individuals choose to undermine their colleagues in pursuit of recognition and approval from those in positions of authority?? I have often come across stories and discussions about this phenomenon in professional environments. Rather than fostering… read more

Matthew 5:16

Matthew 5:16 "In the same way, let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father." Jesus calls His followers to be visible examples of God’s truth and grace.This verse sits in the Sermon on the Mount, where Jesus redefines righteousness. Rather than… read more

People don’t defend what’s right anymore. They defend who they like, even when they know that person is wrong. Loyalty has replaced integrity.

Once you learn the true meanings and definitions of the words “integrity” and “authenticity” it’s as if you gain a superpower and you could, just like me now, scroll through the feeds and see how inauthentic people really are, and then you lose interest in even trying to connect with anybody.

Your name is your brand.

An empty wallet can recover. A damaged name takes years. Guard your integrity like it's your first million. The rest catches up. - ✍️

Proverbs 19:1-2

"Better is the poor that walketh in his integrity, than he that is perverse in his lips, and is a fool. Also, that the soul be without knowledge, it is not good; and he that hasteth with his feet sinneth." - Proverbs 19:1-2 God Bless.

"With great power comes great responsibility."

Great power is the sexual drive, dirty mindset and high sexual energy. Great responsibility is loyalty and integrity. (edited)

Yesterday

So yesterday I had a date. She was over an hour late. Gave her the benefit of the doubt considering I hit traffic. But when she DID arrive, she spent like 20 minutes on how men aren't sh!t and how she's self sufficient. Then she started to blatantly insult my integrity. Needless to say I paid for… read more