Agreeable Community

The Pachycephalosaurus did not evolve a battering ram for a skull in order to be agreeable. Some things arrive already on fire ... built for impact, not for approval.

Friend

"Animals are such agreeable friends—they ask no questions; they pass no criticisms."— George Eliot

Lake

I was bored out of my mind so hauled myself up 900ft hill while the weather was agreeable to look at the scenery.

lately,

i've been called "too serious" or "stiff" just for being straightforward about status and setting clear boundaries. ​here's the reality: in a space filled with "anomalies" and a lack of integrity, my seriousness is my self-respect. if you find healthy boundaries to be too much or "14yo Tumblr… read more

Yes, I know I can be hard on you. I say things that maybe aren't always agreeable. Don't.🤫😇 I'm very grateful; you're not so bad after all and after careful consideration more than likely you're just suffering inside without ever being told how much you're cared about.

...thank you INFJ universe for sending @Athina and giving me another opportunity to experience how fulfilling talking with someone who understands you can truly be. I'll try not to fudge this one up. (Honestly I was legit trying to hear about her take on flat earth and I had a debate but it… read more

Would prefer a agreeable mate or a disagreeable one?

me I side on the agreeable side but if someone has a more valid point then my own I'm all ears so I would say I mixture of both just mainly agreeable though lol

THE LIMINAL KINGDOM

"We fit standards to judgments, or break any law that it pleases us to break, and fit to the fracture some other alleged law that we say is higher and nobler. We have conclusions, which are the products of senility or incompetence or credulity, and then argue from them to premises. We forget this… read more

Being nice and being kind are not synonymous

Something I have come to realize in my journey of healing, is that being nice is not always important. Niceness comes from selfishness Kindness comes from compassion. Let me explain. Usually people are nice because subconsciously the want to be seen as likeable or agreeable. Kindness is built… read more

Dissecting a quote by Kierkegaard from his book: The Sickness Unto Death

To limit misunderstandings of my appreciation for Kierkegaard’s writings, I have decided to dissect the quote in the image. Feel free to share your thoughts and commentary. “By seeing the multitude of people around it, by being busied with all sorts of worldly affairs, by being wise to the ways… read more

Debate me

If you really think that you're the only prize in the relationship and he needs to worry about "keeping you" you're delusional. Most men would rather stay sexless and single than deal with women with this mentality. Honestly I don't blame any man for leaving the country in an attempt to find a… read more

Question on Dating/Friends Preconceptions

Didn't know what thread to put this in. What do you all think about the preconceptions that come with knowing what type of relationship you want or expect out of someone on this app? I think one thing that always gets me about dating apps is, no matter how hard you try to quell expectations, almost… read more

Moths 🥰✨

White one: Agreeable Tiger Moth. Black and White one: Grape Leaffolder Moth.

Genuinely proud of how far I’ve come-

I’m really proud of myself- 4 years ago. I would’ve done anything to please anyone. And I did. I made it beyond my goal to keep someone so happy- and it never worked. I was treated like dirt, hid from my family due to shame, constantly making up cover stories for them, and I abandoned all my… read more

Tired of people and being put in a box

People tell me to be assertive then when I am they tell me no just be agreeable. So that's how I know they only have expectations of me. I get assertive and people think I'm being dramatic. It makes me want to actually be dramatic because I take care to make sure I'm never angry outwardly. I have… (edited) read more

Red flags

Red flags are something to address first and then run if they have merit and no agreeable resolution.

Addiction to Approval

Most people are addicted to being liked. Addicted to being seen as good, agreeable, harmless. But being real sometimes means being inconvenient. Sometimes it means saying the thing no one else will.

Do you agree that men are more open to dating women dumber than them because at least they're agreeable while women prefer a man equal to a little smarter than them just so they don't feel less smarter next to the man?

Like let's be honest women do typically want a man who's either as smart as them or just a little bit smarter just so they don't have to deal with a man potentially being too pretentious or full of himself. But for men we honestly don't mind women dumber than us for one because YES they are easier… read more

Reclaiming My Voice: A Journey Toward Becoming

For the longest time, I moved through life trying to be who I thought I needed to be - agreeable, quiet, adaptable. I often held back what I truly felt, thinking it was safer to blend in than to stand out. But deep inside, I knew I was meant for more. I just didn’t know how to get there without… read more

Good hair day is enough to have a good day😌

Passed by a mirror and saw how agreeable my hair was today and now my gallery is filled with mirror selfies I took to commemorate this rare occasion 😌😂

I can be agreeable soft and nice but if we are not close enough 🫠

Just trying to understand it all

A few months ago my longest relationship of 7 years ended after a break, and we were still roommates for a bit, she had cheated on me multiple times, i was not perfect either but my mistakes were three,(and I never stopped apologizing) and happened in a moment, and hers were 4(which she only… read more

Managing people's injustice

Ancient Greek philosopher Socrates was married to a woman named Xanthippe , who is described by Antisthenes : "The hardest to get along with of all the women there are," which, according to Xenophon's symposium won the approval of her husband Socrates himself. Several accounts say that Socrates… read more

Why are we using MBTI instead of OCEAN?

OCEAN is more often used by scientists, and is considered preferable to the Myers-Briggs system. It's similar, but not quite the same. OCEAN measures Openess, Conscitousnes, Extroversion, Agreeableness, and Neuroticism. Openess measures one's well...openess to new ideas and experiences. It's… read more

Very agreeable

The same boiling water that softens carrots hardens eggs. It's not what happens to you; it's what you're made of.

The question isn't whether adversity will come—it will. The question is whether you'll soften or harden when it does. Some people soften under pressure. They become agreeable, digestible, easy to consume. They lose their form, their fight, their fire. There's no shame in this—carrots feed the… read more

Friendship

Friendship is the source of the greatest pleasures, and without friends, even the most agreeable pursuits become tedious

Nightly thoughts from your friendly neighborhood ENTJ.

“Half of the troubles of this life can be traced to saying yes too quickly and not saying no soon enough.” - Josh Billings Being agreeable is not the same as being effective. Saying yes to everything might feel like loyalty or ambition, but in practice, it often leads to burnout, resentment, and… read more

Don't get stuck looking for perfect

At the end of the day a clone would just be boring. Diversity fuels interesting. Find someone agreeable and comfortable, but with their own views. don't get hung up on looking for an exact match

Agreeable

#Questionsaboutyou

Care and love

The love for all living creatures is the most noble attribute of man." "If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans." "Animals are such agreeable friends – they ask no questions, they pass no criticisms ❤️ Love Animals… read more

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"It takes a woman with fire in her veins and steel in her spine to set the world ablaze simply by choosing to exist on her own terms. She doesn’t just walk into a room—she storms in, eyes blazing with the kind of confidence that makes people sit up and take notice, even if they wish they could look… read more

The truth shall set you free

Everything today feels edited before it ever reaches us. I even edited this 6 times to ensure it was easy to read, inspired by something else I read. Words, images, opinions...all polished until they’re safe to consume. When someone finally speaks without filters, it almost hurts to hear. Honesty… (edited) read more