Decency Community

Relationships

People keep showing and proving I’ll never be enough to be loved by a lady and make friends the world is so fake and judgemental I lost count on how many times people judge me as I walked by people really lost how to be civil and have human decency to love and respect one another it hurts me and… read more

Loud behavior isn't confidence. Disrespect isn't humor

I'm genuinely disappointed I only saw the viral video yesterday, and watching my own people behave so disrespectfully in another country was embarrassing The video has already gone viral in the country they visited, completely uncensored, with their faces visible and even translations of what… read more

Where’s chivalry?

In a world that seems to be forgetting the value of simple respect, I can’t help but wonder: where’s chivalry? It’s not about grand gestures or outdated traditions. It’s about basic decency: how you speak, how you approach someone, and how you carry yourself in conversation. Starting with… read more

Bacon avocado—

Yes, I want to be babied and have a long, healthy relationship BUT THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT I'll JUST FLIRT WITH STRANGERS. LIKE, HAVE SOME BASIC HUMAN DECENCY, BRO

What Happened To The Honest Goodbye?

Not too long ago, it was common place to tell someone: “I had a great time, but I’m not interested in pursuing this any further.” It was the common decency and respect we used to have. Today, it no longer exists. That clarity, that closure, Is often replaced with ghosting, leaving the other… read more

Wdym I have to wake up early to interact with people who lack basic human decency

Crazyyyy

Hijab isn’t just about what she wears; it’s also about how you look, speak, and carry yourself. Hijab isn’t only for women—it’s also a command for men to lower their gaze and speak with dignity.

Hijab isn’t just about what she wears; it’s also about how you look, speak, and carry yourself. Hijab isn’t only for women—it’s also a command for men to lower their gaze and speak with dignity. I often see many religiously conscious people making extremely provocative and attacking comments… read more

🏝️💕

Wearing clothes that highlight your confidence and femininity while still reflecting decency and a conservative style, even in a crowded place is about balance, self-respect, and elegance. 🌻🫰

For you, from me 💔

I wish I could tell you this directly, but you blocked me— the only place where we ever really talked. So I’m saying it here… hoping somehow, the truth still reaches you. You know what hurts the most? I got attached to someone who couldn’t even be honest with me. I held on to every small… (edited) read more

Beautiful Lies

Nobody hands you the lie all at once. They hand it to you one Tuesday morning wrapped in your own coffee mug, and you drink it because it's warm. That's the part people leave out when they talk about being deceived: how ordinary the delivery is. You remember the first time you noticed a gap… read more

Ghosting in Dating

Ghosting is one of those things I can hold in a both/and way. Because yes: sometimes it’s necessary. Sometimes disappearing is the safest “no” a person can give. Women, femme-presenting people, trans people, and a lot of marginalized folks live in a world where rejecting the wrong cis man can get… read more

The passport bro reality

International dating is both fun, easy, and filled with a variety of choice. It often seems like things are better on the other side because of the different cultures and values we have as people. It makes connection fresh compared to the way it is from where ever you left. In my opinion, it… read more

Star Wars gave us the greatest monologue I've ever seen.

“Calm. Kindness. Kinship. Love. I’ve given up all chance at inner peace. I’ve made my mind a sunless space. I share my dreams with ghosts. I wake up every day to an equation I wrote 15 years ago from which there’s only one conclusion, I’m damned for what I do. My anger, my ego, my unwillingness to… read more

Holidays

Why do we paint ourselves into these little boxes known as holidays? a prescribed time for thanks for gift giving for kindess (as if it isn't free and easy) Feels like an audition To rehearse For what? Basic decency? Lol The best gifts come unexpectedly Maybe… read more

✏️

Often, cheaters who caught in the act by their partners, they beg for forgiveness, not out of genuine remorse or concern for the betrayed party. No. Their plea is self-serving.. they fear losing access to resources, comforts, and luxuries that come with being attached to their partner. They don't… read more

If your love requires me to teach you decency, it isn’t love, it’s dependency.

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Women's rights activists are better than feminists. One pushes for basic human decency, while the other wants to see the downfall of their own species.

Men & women!

This applies to both genders! Modesty is not a burden, but a reflection of the light within.🌿🌬☀️ A heart clothed in grace will never need to strive for attention. Even if the world mocks decency, let your attire still whisper holiness. Dress not for eyes, but for the One who sees the… read more

Just asking the girls/women

when you are in a relationship and want to break up do you just block the guy is that really how girls do it. Not even a shred of decency?

The Red Horse （Chapter four）

Written by Carolus Warza. (myself) Hope you enjoy it. January 10, 1905, Old Style (January 23, 1905, New Style) What broke the quiet of convalescence that morning was not a rooster’s cry, but a hurried knocking at the door and a telegram from St Petersburg. “Georgi, you’ll want to see… read more

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Decency provides satisfaction

The Intervention Specialist

Steven Latesun is an ordinary man who happens to possess extraordinary abilities, though he has never believed those abilities make him more important than anyone else. If anything, they have convinced him that power creates responsibility, not entitlement. Easy to overlook, Steven rarely commands… read more

Rewriting The Script

Now I remember... we weren't supposed to let the tragedy continue. We weren't supposed to play in a tragedy that someone casted us in, it was never our role to play, never ours to bear. The tired narratives. It's been a long journey personally. A part of the lesson was generational. An unclean… read more

I have been blessed

Don't you love it when get blocked by someone who asked for 100% of you but put zero effort in and don't even have the decency to say goodbye? It's like a little gift and reminder from the universe that you deserve better. (edited)

Any advice for someone at the point of cutting their parents off because they ignore your boundaries and attempts at having a healthier relationship?

They think because I live here without paying them rent (I pay for things, just not rent) that they can just treat me however the f--- they want still and I'm 31. I'm trying to find somewhere else to live and I'm desperate so I'm looking at living alone but it's so so difficult and I just feel… read more

This is so hard

A Poem for You I know the air feels thin right now, Your lungs pulled tight by grief and fear. You walked away to save yourself, Only to find the silence here. The cupboards ache with emptiness, The pockets thin, the future gray. You ask for just a tender hand, For decency to light the way. You… read more